‘Strange’ sex request men make in bedroom
We all like different things, but when it comes to our kinks and fantasies – some are “weirder” than others, but most are surprisingly common.
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We all like different things, but when it comes to our kinks and fantasies – some are “weirder” than others, but most are surprisingly common.
It’s the question men want answered, but one technique is so shrouded in shame women are afraid to admit it works says Nadia Bokody.
We’ve all asked this question at some point but while it might seem harmless, its origin is rooted in “slut-shaming”, says Nadia Bokody.
Podcaster Jana Hocking has had too many married men “comment on her body” – only for their wives get mad at her.
There is a common trend with condoms that is dangerous and it’s only getting more popular with young Australians.
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Sophie Cachia was married to an AFL player and had a beautiful life but a spark with a woman changed the course of her entire life.
Sienna Keera, 27, travelled halfway across the world to meet her plus-sized fiance George Keywood but people can’t believe she’d want to be with him.
Men like to describe this sex act as “kinky”, but despite surging in popularity, Nadia Bokody says there’s nothing sexy about this fetish. WARNING: Disturbing.
He wants to spend the rest of his life with her, but there’s an issue – she doesn’t share his same high standards and it’s proving hard to ignore.
The woman is “unhappily married”, but has decided to lash out in a way that’s left her good friend – who is also single – baffled.
The woman is busy with childcare, looking after elderly parents and relatives – meanwhile her “understanding” husband wants one thing.
It’s a phrase women hear time and time again in the bedroom, but it’s nothing more than a “guilt tactic” says Nadia Bokody.
They love each other “so much” – but after this person cheated multiple times, is there any hope for the relationship?
Married women have been sharing their “turn ons” online – but there’s nothing sexy about this popular TikTok trend, says Nadia Bokody.
It’s an act often labelled as “unnecessary”, but if you’re not doing it, then chances are you’re not as good in the bedroom as you think.
The woman loves her “sexy, loving, caring” husband, but a growing bedroom issue is causing tension between the couple.
Hot sex is a sign of undeniable chemistry – or is it? Nadia Bokody says but it could actually be hiding a big problem in your relationship.
They’re married and already have a baby with plans for another child – but there’s a glaring bedroom problem that’s standing in their way.
When it comes to what a man wants in the bedroom, most women make a huge assumption – here’s why they aren’t always correct, writes Nadia Bokody.
Podcaster Jana Hocking has revealed that her ex’s unusual behaviour was down to something that should be talked about more.
They’ve had “ups and downs” but she still wants to take things to the next level – but her boyfriend won’t stop one habit that’s raising red flags.
It’s meant to be a time to enjoy family time, but the holiday period can derail your relationship just as easily.
When it comes to men and sex there’s one all-too-common claim they make about women in the bedroom that’s so wrong it’s cringe-worthy.
It’s a common crutch singletons turn to when hitting the dating scene, but in the long run it actually ends up hurting your chances, says Jana Hocking.
A single guy who took a risk with his online dating bio, sharing a mortifying video from a holiday gone wrong, has been applauded by women.
Let’s face it, we all dream of having the perfect first date — but there’s one dating behaviour that’s an instant relationship deal breaker.
When it comes to sex, preferences can vary – except when it comes to this one bedroom behaviour men are often guilty of.
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Women have been told to follow this so-called golden bedroom rule for years, but sex columnist Nadia Bokody says it’s “terrible” advice.
After being married 15 years, this man wants to spice things up – but he’s worried the kink he’d like to explore is too much for his wife.
One woman was so in love, she made the ultimate declaration with a huge inking – but just one week later her boyfriend did the unthinkable.
Couples who regularly have good sex also do this together – and studies prove the simple act is the key to boosting libido, writes Nadia Bokody.
Different colours signal certain things and there’s one colour that people can wear to make them more “successful” at picking up a partner.
It seemed like a simple question, but this guy’s request for more information on sex from a female perspective quickly blew up. Here’s why.
We’re the most sexually liberated we’ve ever been – but an everyday sex act is still taboo and it shouldn’t be says Nadia Bokody.
Your best mate’s ex is forbidden fruit, but what do you do when you can’t resist? Jana Hocking has some tips to help you escape unscathed.
Nadia Bokody is imploring coupled-up women to stop rewarding their other halves for doing this common task, describing the act “toxic”.
Nadia Bokody has some tough love for women who are being refused this act in the bedroom, saying it’s reason to end the romance.
Sex columnist Nadia Bokody argues the solution to your sexual dilemma is more obvious than you might think.
Research proves conflict is normal but if the argument steers toward sex, Nadia Bokody says your relationship may be in trouble.
If you’ve ever wondered why you keep going for “unavailable” men, Nadia Bokody has the answer – but be warned, it’s pretty grim.
The woman’s date had gone to the bathroom when she was handed a grim written warning from a stranger.
Their boss is “not available”, but it hasn’t stopped this employee from being preoccupied with sex fantasies about them at work.
According to Nadia Bokody, there’s one act we’re all guilty of doing that is an instant bedroom turn-off – here’s how to stop.
Dating a famous footy star might sound fun, but as Jana Hocking found out, it is like a battle field and some women are prepared to play dirty.
Sure, getting between the sheets is intimate but Nadia Bokody says this everyday act is more “illicit” – and evidence agrees.
Many men have been known to ‘slide into’ someone’s DMs but many ‘straight men’ are asking for something you might not imagine.
The woman tries to show affection “in other ways” but still feels bad for not wanting to spend time in the bedroom with her husband.
The woman said she loves her husband “so much”, but there’s a growing problem that’s causing the couple friction.
We know they’re a bad idea, but after days of radio silence you find yourself in the back of an Uber at 2am on the way to their house. Here’s why.
Keeping the spark alive can be a challenge – and according to Jana Hocking, some couples are taking big risks to reignite their love lives.
Sex columnist Nadia Bokody reveals her private bedroom hang-up and says it’s one many women experience.
The couple are looking to “add some excitement to their sex life” – only the woman has holding something back from her spouse.
Australian couples are sneaking off for an afternoon pick-me-up that doesn’t involve caffeine – and a sex expert says it makes us more productive.
Studies show men and women determine a disappointing rumble between the sheets very differently and it’s truly shocking, writes Nadia Bokody.
A woman who recently started a new relationship has asked for help after discovering her new man is guilty of a big bedroom no-no.
Research suggests men and women agree on what the “right” amount of sex is, but Nadia Bokody has discovered a flaw in the logic.
It’s a problem a whopping 65 per cent of women experience in the bedroom – and Nadia Bokody believes there’s an X-rated way to fix it.
Can really terrible sex turn into good sex? Nadia Bokody put this question to the test after she bumped into a one-night stand that went horribly wrong.
They’ve been together for five years and want to “spice up” things in the bedroom – but they’re scared their idea is too racy to research online.
Even if a date is going swimmingly, there’s a selfish act many guys make that will instantly turn a woman off, says Nadia Bokody.
They’ve been together for seven years and want to take things to the next level, but there’s one detail about her husband that “irritates” his wife no end.
A sex worker has shared a terrible bedroom move many of her clients make, but it’s not just bad says Nadia Bokody, it’s a wake-up call.
Women often say this phrase to men to avoid upsetting them or so that they don’t feel inadequate – but it probably means she’s not feeling it.
When they first began dating he used to think of this particular personality trait as “ballsy” – but now it’s driving a wedge between them.
They’ve been together for eight years and she loves him “to the moon and back” – but a bombshell discovery has left one of them “livid”.
It’s something men often do after having sex with a woman for the first time – but it leaves women utterly confused. Nadia Bokody explains why.
When a woman discovered her boyfriend of seven years was “cheating” she confronted him over text – but his brutal response left everyone shocked.
After making a living documenting her sex life online and dishing out bedroom advice, Nadia Bokody has made a stunning revelation.
After 20 years of marriage this woman tried to spice” up her “stale and boring” sex life – only to have it backfire spectacularly.
It’s known for being elusive but “unmistakeable” – so if you’re wondering what it feels like, you’re doing it wrong, says Nadia Bokody.
After sleeping with both sexes, this 25-year-old woman now wants to date only men – but there’s one glaring problem in the bedroom.
After 10 years of marriage, certain things have become “off-limits” in the bedroom – leaving this husband furious after making a discovery.
Nadia Bokody has a brutally honest message to deliver couples in sex-starved relationships, revealing you’re not “stuck” – you’re a “cop out”.
A woman whose partner “saved” her during a tough time says he’s no longer her hero – developing habits that have her alarm bells ringing.
The couple have been “happily married” for 10 years and have kids – but now the husband has made an X-rated demand that’s stunned his wife.
It’s a common mistake many of us make it the bedroom – and it could be the reason your sex life is falling flat, says sex expert Nadia Bokody.
A “good bloke” who’s well paid can’t get a girlfriend and says he’s “enraged” about it. But there’s a harsh reason for it.
The notion that “real men” will instinctively know what women want in bed is not just bizarre – it’s inherently wrong, says Nadia Bokody.
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