‘Is it me?’: Why your man’s off sex
Sex expert Isiah McKimmie explains why men can lose their libidos – and what you can do to reach a compromise.
Isiah McKimmie
Isiah McKimmie is news.com.au's resident relationship expert. From marriage advice to help for struggling couples, we'll help you navigate your relationships.
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Valid reason wife doesn’t want sex
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Woman’s horror after husband’s sex act
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Woman’s ‘absurd’ request before wedding
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Husband ‘lets rip’ over wife’s money habit
A man is frustrated that his wife doesn’t understand his cost of living concerns, and begs sexologist Isiah McKimmie for help.
‘Disappointing’: FIFO worker’s sex problem
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Awful reason partner doesn’t want sex
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Expert reveals how to revive your sex life
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Wife reveals husband’s big sex mistake
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Obvious reason wife’s stopped wanting sex
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Husband’s ‘strange’ fantasy about wife
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Man’s ‘perpetual problem’ with lax girlfriend
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‘Snide’ wife’s reaction over ‘deadbeat’ hubby
The woman is “unhappily married”, but has decided to lash out in a way that’s left her good friend – who is also single – baffled.
Wife ‘exhausted’ by ‘amazing’ hubby’s sex
The woman is busy with childcare, looking after elderly parents and relatives – meanwhile her “understanding” husband wants one thing.
‘I can’t stop cheating on my partner’
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Wife’s drastic request despite ‘good sex’
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Wife’s X-rated problem with ‘sexy’ husband
The woman loves her “sexy, loving, caring” husband, but a growing bedroom issue is causing tension between the couple.
‘Can’t stop’: Husband’s confusing sex fantasy
Despite being happily married this man can’t stop having one particular sex fantasy – and he’s confused about what it means.
Wife reveals ‘stupid’ nude photo mistake
After several years of marriage this woman tried to spice up her “stale and boring” sex life – only to have it backfire spectacularly.
Sex problem that’s ‘too hard’ to fix
They’re married and already have a baby with plans for another child – but there’s a glaring bedroom problem that’s standing in their way.
Boyfriend’s ‘shady’ habit baffles woman
They’ve had “ups and downs” but she still wants to take things to the next level – but her boyfriend won’t stop one habit that’s raising red flags.
Husband’s fear over secret sex urge
After being married 15 years, this man wants to spice things up – but he’s worried the kink he’d like to explore is too much for his wife.
Reason couple ‘can’t stop fighting’
Admitting it’s “probably not the usual argument” people have, the couple are constantly arguing and it’s “really starting to come between us”.
‘Embarrassed’ wife’s 12-year sex secret
The woman enjoys sex but there’s a question her husband always asks – and it’s “too hard” for her to tell the truth.
Why wife has to ‘beg’ for sex
The couple have been together for eight years but a growing bedroom problem is causing a fight whenever it gets brought up.
Wife’s ‘free’ sex demand to hubby
After spending the last six years having a family, this wife and mum now wants to “explore” a new side of her sex life.
Couple’s ‘embarrassing’ sex secret
They’ve been married for four years, but this husband and wife are facing a massive bedroom problem that’s “frustrated” them.
Why married couple ‘argues constantly’
They’ve had a “fairly good” relationship for 10 years, but there’s one issue that is causing this wife to despair with her husband.
Wife’s ‘50 Shades of Grey’ sex request
Her husband admits he has no idea where to start after she requested they “spice things up in the bedroom”.
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Mum-in-law’s shock move after ‘silly’ fight
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Hubby’s sex problem with ‘happy’ marriage
The couple have been married 15 years, but there’s a bedroom issue the husband is afraid to “hassle” his wife about.
‘Distracting’ workplace sex fantasy
Their boss is “not available”, but it hasn’t stopped this employee from being preoccupied with sex fantasies about them at work.
Wife’s frustration over X-rated ‘addiction’
For over a decade the married couple have struggled with one issue the wife now fears has turned into an “addiction” hurting their relationship.
Wife feels ‘guilty for not wanting sex’
The woman tries to show affection “in other ways” but still feels bad for not wanting to spend time in the bedroom with her husband.
‘Painful’ reason wife can’t stand hubby
The woman said she loves her husband “so much”, but there’s a growing problem that’s causing the couple friction.
Woman’s ‘infuriating’ issue with husband
They’ve been married for eight years but lately she’s been struggling with a secret that’s left her husband “upset and confused”.
Wife reveals ‘awkward’ porn secret
The couple are looking to “add some excitement to their sex life” – only the woman has holding something back from her spouse.
Daughter uncovers mum’s explicit nudes
The mother of a teenager is worried their relationship has been “destroyed” after her daughter found her X-rated photos on her phone.
Man’s offensive oral sex blunder
A woman who recently started a new relationship has asked for help after discovering her new man is guilty of a big bedroom no-no.
‘Shy’ couple’s shocking marriage secret
They’ve been together for 15 years but now a bedroom issue — which was “totally fine” to begin with — has come back to torment the couple.
Husband’s wild three-year ‘secret’
They’ve been married for a decade and even have kids, but this husband has been holding something back from his wife for years.
X-rated request couple afraid to google
They’ve been together for five years and want to “spice up” things in the bedroom – but they’re scared their idea is too racy to research online.
‘Messy’ detail about hubby infuriates wife
They’ve been together for seven years and want to take things to the next level, but there’s one detail about her husband that “irritates” his wife no end.
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