How much sex is a ‘normal’ amount
How much sex should couples be having? Sexologist Isiah McKimmie details what is “normal” in terms of sexual frequency.
Isiah McKimmie
Isiah McKimmie is news.com.au's resident relationship expert. From marriage advice to help for struggling couples, we'll help you navigate your relationships.
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