‘Deeply selfish’ sex act too many guilty of
We know what “red flags” to look out for when dating – but expert Nadia Bokody has detailed the sexual ones we also need to avoid.
Sex Advice
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‘Weird’ egg yolk trick that gives better sex
A video showing the “egg yolk method” that claims to improve sex lives has been viewed by millions – now expert Nadia Bokody explains how it works.
Sex sign it’s time to call it quits
It’s a situation many of us are in – but despite it affecting a third of us, Nadia Bokody says it’s not “normal” but actually a sign to end things.
‘Embarrassing sex injury I didn’t know exists’
At the start of a new relationship, sex expert Nadia Bokody ended up at the doctor’s office with a very surprising diagnosis.
Men exposed by expert’s gym selfie test
Why do men prefer “natural” women? Sex expert Nadia Bokody analysed reaction to her photos, arguing the phenomenon is about dominance.
‘Strange’ sex request men make in bedroom
We all like different things, but when it comes to our kinks and fantasies – some are “weirder” than others, but most are surprisingly common.
X-ray reveals woman’s sex toy horror
Sex columnist Nadia Bokody says making this one innocent error could cost you an embarrassing trip to the emergency room.
Wife reveals husband’s big sex mistake
A woman has confessed about a sex mistake her husband makes every time they have sex – and it’s an all too common problem.
Secret turn on women will never admit
It’s the question men want answered, but one technique is so shrouded in shame women are afraid to admit it works says Nadia Bokody.
Sex question men should never ask a woman
We’ve all asked this question at some point but while it might seem harmless, its origin is rooted in “slut-shaming”, says Nadia Bokody.
‘I’m dating a man with a micropenis’
A woman really likes the man she is seeing, but there’s a very small problem standing in the way of her committing to him.
Dangerous sex act on the rise
There is a common trend with condoms that is dangerous and it’s only getting more popular with young Australians.
Obvious reason wife’s stopped wanting sex
A wife has detailed the reality of why she doesn’t feel like having sex with her husband and it’s obvious when you think about it.
‘I tried nightly orgasms to help me sleep’
Sex columnist Nadia Bokody went on a seven-day “orgasm diet” to see if she could cure her insomnia. The results were unexpected.
Husband’s ‘strange’ fantasy about wife
A husband who gets turned on by using his wife’s photo to talk to other men online wants to know whether he has an addiction.
Violent sex trend that’s worryingly on rise
Men like to describe this sex act as “kinky”, but despite surging in popularity, Nadia Bokody says there’s nothing sexy about this fetish. WARNING: Disturbing.
Man’s ‘perpetual problem’ with lax girlfriend
He wants to spend the rest of his life with her, but there’s an issue – she doesn’t share his same high standards and it’s proving hard to ignore.
Sexual double standard in nude photos
After posting a cheeky nude pic to Instagram, Nadia Bokody discovered that there’s a massive double standard when it comes to censorship.
‘Snide’ wife’s reaction over ‘deadbeat’ hubby
The woman is “unhappily married”, but has decided to lash out in a way that’s left her good friend – who is also single – baffled.
Wife ‘exhausted’ by ‘amazing’ hubby’s sex
The woman is busy with childcare, looking after elderly parents and relatives – meanwhile her “understanding” husband wants one thing.
Sex claim men make that is a complete lie
It’s a phrase women hear time and time again in the bedroom, but it’s nothing more than a “guilt tactic” says Nadia Bokody.
‘I can’t stop cheating on my partner’
They love each other “so much” – but after this person cheated multiple times, is there any hope for the relationship?
Glaring problem with new female sex trend
Married women have been sharing their “turn ons” online – but there’s nothing sexy about this popular TikTok trend, says Nadia Bokody.
‘Awkward’ sex act that’s actually essential
It’s an act often labelled as “unnecessary”, but if you’re not doing it, then chances are you’re not as good in the bedroom as you think.
Wife’s X-rated problem with ‘sexy’ husband
The woman loves her “sexy, loving, caring” husband, but a growing bedroom issue is causing tension between the couple.
Brutal reason you’re hooked on ‘crazy’ sex
Hot sex is a sign of undeniable chemistry – or is it? Nadia Bokody says but it could actually be hiding a big problem in your relationship.
Sex problem that’s ‘too hard’ to fix
They’re married and already have a baby with plans for another child – but there’s a glaring bedroom problem that’s standing in their way.
Huge male sex myth women need to know
When it comes to what a man wants in the bedroom, most women make a huge assumption – here’s why they aren’t always correct, writes Nadia Bokody.
Embarrassing sex lie that needs to stop
When it comes to men and sex there’s one all-too-common claim they make about women in the bedroom that’s so wrong it’s cringe-worthy.
Sneaky dating profile trick you’ll regret
It’s a common crutch singletons turn to when hitting the dating scene, but in the long run it actually ends up hurting your chances, says Jana Hocking.
‘Marry me’: Man’s surprise dating profile win
A single guy who took a risk with his online dating bio, sharing a mortifying video from a holiday gone wrong, has been applauded by women.
Sex act men ‘love’ but women hate
When it comes to sex, preferences can vary – except when it comes to this one bedroom behaviour men are often guilty of.
‘Terrible’ sex advice women still follow
Women have been told to follow this so-called golden bedroom rule for years, but sex columnist Nadia Bokody says it’s “terrible” advice.
Husband’s fear over secret sex urge
After being married 15 years, this man wants to spice things up – but he’s worried the kink he’d like to explore is too much for his wife.
Simple act that ‘drives women wild’
Couples who regularly have good sex also do this together – and studies prove the simple act is the key to boosting libido, writes Nadia Bokody.
One tip to boost sex in your marriage
Anyone who has been in a long-term relationship probably has come up against intimacy gaps. Here’s a way to kickstart it again.
Man’s viral sex question roasted by women
It seemed like a simple question, but this guy’s request for more information on sex from a female perspective quickly blew up. Here’s why.
’Shameful’ sex act men won’t admit
We’re the most sexually liberated we’ve ever been – but an everyday sex act is still taboo and it shouldn’t be says Nadia Bokody.
Dating rule women can’t resist breaking
Your best mate’s ex is forbidden fruit, but what do you do when you can’t resist? Jana Hocking has some tips to help you escape unscathed.
Sex reward women need to stop giving men
Nadia Bokody is imploring coupled-up women to stop rewarding their other halves for doing this common task, describing the act “toxic”.
‘Dump him’: Sex request men refuse
Nadia Bokody has some tough love for women who are being refused this act in the bedroom, saying it’s reason to end the romance.
Surprising answer to common sex question
Sex columnist Nadia Bokody argues the solution to your sexual dilemma is more obvious than you might think.
Sex argument couples should avoid
Research proves conflict is normal but if the argument steers toward sex, Nadia Bokody says your relationship may be in trouble.
Reason you always pick ‘wrong’ guy
If you’ve ever wondered why you keep going for “unavailable” men, Nadia Bokody has the answer – but be warned, it’s pretty grim.
‘Distracting’ workplace sex fantasy
Their boss is “not available”, but it hasn’t stopped this employee from being preoccupied with sex fantasies about them at work.
Terrible sex habit that needs to stop
According to Nadia Bokody, there’s one act we’re all guilty of doing that is an instant bedroom turn-off – here’s how to stop.
Stranger’s savage move on my AFL date
Dating a famous footy star might sound fun, but as Jana Hocking found out, it is like a battle field and some women are prepared to play dirty.
Simple physical act more ‘illicit’ than sex
Sure, getting between the sheets is intimate but Nadia Bokody says this everyday act is more “illicit” – and evidence agrees.
Unexpected request ‘straight’ men make
Many men have been known to ‘slide into’ someone’s DMs but many ‘straight men’ are asking for something you might not imagine.
Wife feels ‘guilty for not wanting sex’
The woman tries to show affection “in other ways” but still feels bad for not wanting to spend time in the bedroom with her husband.
Why we accept late-night booty calls
We know they’re a bad idea, but after days of radio silence you find yourself in the back of an Uber at 2am on the way to their house. Here’s why.
Risky way couples are spicing up sex life
Keeping the spark alive can be a challenge – and according to Jana Hocking, some couples are taking big risks to reignite their love lives.
Moment women know it’s ‘over’ in bed
Sex columnist Nadia Bokody reveals her private bedroom hang-up and says it’s one many women experience.
New sex habit employers should encourage
Australian couples are sneaking off for an afternoon pick-me-up that doesn’t involve caffeine – and a sex expert says it makes us more productive.
Excruciating truth about ‘bad’ sex
Studies show men and women determine a disappointing rumble between the sheets very differently and it’s truly shocking, writes Nadia Bokody.
Man’s offensive oral sex blunder
A woman who recently started a new relationship has asked for help after discovering her new man is guilty of a big bedroom no-no.
Why you can’t have ‘too much’ sex
Research suggests men and women agree on what the “right” amount of sex is, but Nadia Bokody has discovered a flaw in the logic.
Secret sex mistake most women make
It’s a problem a whopping 65 per cent of women experience in the bedroom – and Nadia Bokody believes there’s an X-rated way to fix it.
Terrible one-night stand’s shock comeback
Can really terrible sex turn into good sex? Nadia Bokody put this question to the test after she bumped into a one-night stand that went horribly wrong.
X-rated request couple afraid to google
They’ve been together for five years and want to “spice up” things in the bedroom – but they’re scared their idea is too racy to research online.
Date act that turns a woman off every time
Even if a date is going swimmingly, there’s a selfish act many guys make that will instantly turn a woman off, says Nadia Bokody.
‘Embarrassing’ sex mistake guys make
A sex worker has shared a terrible bedroom move many of her clients make, but it’s not just bad says Nadia Bokody, it’s a wake-up call.
Lie women tell in bed to keep men happy
Women often say this phrase to men to avoid upsetting them or so that they don’t feel inadequate – but it probably means she’s not feeling it.
Girlfriend’s ‘annoying’ obsession lashed
When they first began dating he used to think of this particular personality trait as “ballsy” – but now it’s driving a wedge between them.
Wife floored by husband’s $250k lie
They’ve been together for eight years and she loves him “to the moon and back” – but a bombshell discovery has left one of them “livid”.
After-sex habit that baffles women
It’s something men often do after having sex with a woman for the first time – but it leaves women utterly confused. Nadia Bokody explains why.
‘I’m no longer having sex with men’
After making a living documenting her sex life online and dishing out bedroom advice, Nadia Bokody has made a stunning revelation.
Wife reveals ‘stupid’ nude photo mistake
After 20 years of marriage this woman tried to spice” up her “stale and boring” sex life – only to have it backfire spectacularly.
Sex question every woman asks
It’s known for being elusive but “unmistakeable” – so if you’re wondering what it feels like, you’re doing it wrong, says Nadia Bokody.
Woman’s dilemma after ‘satisfying’ sex
After sleeping with both sexes, this 25-year-old woman now wants to date only men – but there’s one glaring problem in the bedroom.
Hubby left fuming over wife’s sex toy
After 10 years of marriage, certain things have become “off-limits” in the bedroom – leaving this husband furious after making a discovery.
Why you’re ‘stuck’ in a sexless marriage
Nadia Bokody has a brutally honest message to deliver couples in sex-starved relationships, revealing you’re not “stuck” – you’re a “cop out”.
‘Paranoid’ boyfriend’s awful phone habit
A woman whose partner “saved” her during a tough time says he’s no longer her hero – developing habits that have her alarm bells ringing.
‘Unhappy’ hubby’s shock sex request
The couple have been “happily married” for 10 years and have kids – but now the husband has made an X-rated demand that’s stunned his wife.
Bedroom blunder ruining your sex life
It’s a common mistake many of us make it the bedroom – and it could be the reason your sex life is falling flat, says sex expert Nadia Bokody.
How long sex should really last
A woman asking how long sex is meant to last sparked a global discussion about bedroom behaviours – but what is the right answer?
Sex move men get horribly wrong in bed
The notion that “real men” will instinctively know what women want in bed is not just bizarre – it’s inherently wrong, says Nadia Bokody.
‘Dire consequence’ of not having sex
We’ve all had dry spells. But not having sex isn’t just detrimental to your relationship – it’s bad for your health too, explains Nadia Bokody.
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