Best vibrators and wands for women to buy in 2024
Satisfy yourself this Valentine’s Day with the best “life altering” vibrators and wands. WARNING: Adult content.
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Women’s vibrators and wands have come a long way in recent years.
No longer is your choice of sex toys limited to clunky, bright pink rabbit vibrators and shiny plastic (read: intimidating) sticks.
Instead, today’s best vibrators feature soft silicone heads, Bluetooth connectivity for solo or partnered sex, different speeds and vibration modes and multiple powerful motors – all available to purchase online (and delivered straight to your front door in discreet packaging) from trusted retailers like THE ICONIC, Lovehoney, Wild Secrets and Sephora.
With Valentine’s Day about to arrive, there’s never been a better time for some next-level self love – or spicy partner play. And we’ve listed everything you need to make this happen.
We’ve definitely got our eye on the ever popular Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator, a best-selling toy with over a thousand five-star reviews.
“I mean wow this toy is incredible! Very powerful at the highest setting and can bring me to orgasm almost instantly!” wrote one five-star review.
Another called the toy “life altering” and said they “love it more than (their) boyfriend”.
Other sale picks from Lovehoney to make this February 14th a night to remember include:
- 17 per cent off Lovehoney Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator, $69.95 (down from $89.95)
- 20 per cent off Lovehoney X ROMP Switch Clitoral Suction Stimulator, $39.95 (down from $49.95)
- 14 per cent off Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator, $119.95 (down from $139.95)
- 29 per cent off Mantric Rechargeable Wand Vibrator, $84.95 (down from $119.95)
To help you on you find the best vibrator for your needs, we’ve rounded up the sex toys that will open up new avenues to a magical O-town.
Our Top Picks
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Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator
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The secret to this best-selling toy is in Womanizer’s signature “pleasure air technology” that uses contactless pulsing waves to stimulate the clitoral nerve endings and mimic oral sex. Fitted with six intensity levels and having the added benefits of being waterproof and USB rechargeable, the Pro40 has been described as “life-changing”.
“For 20 years of my life I have never been able to achieve full orgasm … this toy has gotten me there every single time I use it,” a pleased customer wrote.
Another said, “What I can say is the first time I used this, I saw stars or Jesus. This thing floated me so far up to cloud nine I was in post orgasmic bliss after.”
Empress Tidal – Lilac Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator, $165.74 (down from $254.99) at VUSH
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Boasting over 5000 reviews and an average star rating of 4.7, this toy is a true crowd pleaser and for good reason.
It’s designed to mimic oral sex – think the flutter of a tongue and the suction of a mouth, and achieves that thanks to its clitoral vacuum technology. With over 40 different pleasure combos, from eight levels of intensity and five different vibration patterns this vibrator is sure to blow your mind.
Made to fit perfectly in your hand, this the Empress Tidal is ideal for solo or partnered fun, with the added bonus of being 100 per cent waterproof.
One five-star reviewer wrote that the “Empress 2 is life-changing”.
“Too good for words, out of this world!” another five star review reads.
“So good I’m speechless. Variety of intensity and patterns, there really is something for everyone! Compact enough to fit in your hand and take everywhere … don’t walk, run and get yourself one, you will not regret.”
BEST CLITORAL VIBRATORS
Lovehoney X ROMP Switch Clitoral Suction Stimulator, $39.95 (down from $49.95) at Lovehoney
Lovehoney X ROMP Switch Clitoral Suction Stimulator
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This vibrator is battery-operated, so not rechargeable, but plenty of user reviews say it has plenty of power. It has six intensity levels and offers contactless clitoral stimulation using air suction technology, rather than the direct contact vibrations you get from a wand.
It has a 4.3 star rating on Lovehoney from more than 2000 reviews.
“It’s the best orgasms I’ve ever experienced in my 45 years,” a user said.
One reviewer on the ROMP site said: “I thought people were exaggerating when they said clit suction toys are a must try but I can definitely join them in saying get this toy to try out if you’re looking to explore!”
Namii Clitoral Suction Stimulator & Vibrator, $189.99 at Biird
Namii Clitoral Suction Stimulator & Vibrator
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Don’t be fooled by the cute and elegant design of Namii from the Netherlands-based sexual wellness brand, Biird. According to reviews, this toy sure packs a punch with it’s 2-in-1 design. Doubling as a clitoral suction stimulator and vibrator, you can use it independently as just a suction toy or vibrator, or you can use it as both for dual stimulation because hey, two’s a party, right?
Made from smooth, squishy, body-safe silicone, it offers five suction intensities and five vibration patterns to suit your preference. Unlike traditional clitoral vibrators, the Namii works hands-free, plus it’s fully waterproof and whisper quiet, and even has a magnetic charging base that also serves as a mood light – what more could you want.
“Life changing — in the best possible way you can imagine! I have never been into masturbation and self pleasure … After hearing from one of my female partners about a biird product, I decided to buy the Namii. And good lord in heaven was it worth it! The material and colour are amazing, it looks cute and fancy on my nightstand and its functionality is absolutely fantastic. I kid you not, it has given me orgasms as quickly as 10 seconds into using it,” one five-star reviewer wrote.
“It’s a 10/10! The suction and the vibration at the same time?! The Namii knocked it out of the park! Can’t recommend enough. This quickly became our favourite toy! And the packaging is BEAUTIFUL,” another wrote.
Smile Makers The French Lover, $75 at Sephora
Smile Makers The French Lover
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Ideal for solo sessions or partnered fun, you can get spicy with the four speeds and two pulsation modes to make for a sensual exploration of your – or your partner’s – erogenous zones. Plus, it won’t exceed a noise level of 40 decibels so no need to worry about anyone listening in.
Reviewers have noted it’s the perfect toy for foreplay, beginners and those who enjoy a gentler touch.
“I am absolutely blown away by this vibrator and it’s practically the only one that I use at this point,” one person wrote.
“I have never really masturbated before trying this, but the flexibility of the silicone and the slow build of the vibrations hits hard for me every time. It’s changed my life and made me feel more confident sexually.”
To experience a more realistic, tongue-mimicking experience, users highly recommend using it with a decent amount of lube or other body-safe gel.
Sila Sonic Clitoral Vibrator, $149.40 (down from $249) at Lelo
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The big difference between this sex toy and other clitoral suction toys is the larger size mouth. Why is that good? According to the people at Lelo, this means the “vibrations are spread with equal intensity across the whole clitoris, not just in its centre, which leads to a sensual, slow build-up of orgasm”. It also has won a lot of fans with the intensity of the vibrations.
BEST WAND VIBRATORS
Magic Wand Rechargeable Cordless Vibrator, $329.99 at Amazon Australia
What you need to know
The Magic Wand was invented as a body massager and it can still be used for that. Then it was discovered the wand’s deep vibrations were a great clitoral stimulator and a beloved sex toy was born. This model is the Magic Wand Rechargeable and can be used cordless or plugged in with a generous 1.8 metre cord.
In all of the reviews of the Magic Wand we read while researching this article (and we read a lot), the feature that kept popping up was power. The Magic Wand Rechargeable is one of the most powerful clitoral vibrators on the market with a top power level of 6300 vibrations per minute. This is what creates the intense “deep, rumbly” vibrations the Magic Wand is famous for. All of this power does mean the Magic Wand Rechargeable is larger than most vibrators and weighs 600g and like many wands it is not waterproof.
But neither of these have put off reviewers on the Lovehoney website where it has a 4.6 star rating.
“My wife and I have known about this wands for a long time, but I finally decided it was time we get one since she is highly dependant on clitoral stimulation to reach climax. Believe me when I say if you have a clitoris, you want one of these,” wrote one reviewer.
VUSH Majesty 2 Wand Vibrator, $90.99 (down from $139.99) at Vush
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If you’re on the hunt for a sexy toy that serves as a body massager and powerful sex toy, this VUSH wand will deliver on both fronts. It has five varying levels and 10 optimised vibration patterns to explore plus, it features an ergonomic body so you can wiggle, pump and slide it around for up to two hours. It has a super powerful with a top motor speed of 8000rpm. Unlike a lot of other wands this one is waterproof, which means you can take it into the bathtub for ultra-wet sessions — alone or in partnered sex. It is also USB rechargeable.
“Use it almost too much but it hits the spot every single time,” one person wrote. “My orgasms have never been stronger. The vibes are perfect and give you plenty of options.”
A second person admitted: “The orgasms are incredible! I’m usually a quiet person when I’m having my me time but I have not been able to hold the moans in since I’ve started using it.”
DAME Com Wand Vibrator, $174.95 at THE ICONIC
DAME Com Wand Vibrator
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With an ergonomic shape and five different vibration patterns, the Com is the perfect choice for those craving intense external clitoral stimulation. It’s versatile, waterproof and easy, giving you the power trip you need for full-body relaxation. Customers especially like the smoothness of the medical-grade silicone body.
“I love the different intensities and how soft the silicone is,” a user commented. “It’s very pleasurable and makes me feel so relaxed. The vibration does all of the work.
Another customer said, “It’s super slick and the medical-grade silicone is soft and feels great on the skin. I am super picky and love how easily the five patterns and five intensities are customisable so I can pick the one settings that works best for me.” It is USB rechargeable and all of Dame’s sex toys come with a three year warranty.
Durex Play Vibe & Tease Vibrator 2 in 1 with Teaser Tip, $50 at Amazon Australia
Durex Play Vibe & Tease Vibrator 2 in 1 with Teaser Tip
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The soft silicone bunny ears offer gentle clitoral stimulation and then when you are ready you can whip them off and use the bullet vibrator for internal stimulation.
BEST RABBIT VIBRATOR
We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator, $209 at Lovehoney
We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator
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This rabbit vibrator has an adjustable external arm that moves with you for clitoral stimulation while the curved shaft of the internal arm stimulates the G-spot. Both arms can be controlled independently so you can enjoy different speeds and vibration modes. There is also an app so you can hook up multiple toys and your partner can operate no matter how far away they are. It is USB rechargeable and waterproof.
ROMP Jazz Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator, $65.95 at Lovehoney
ROMP Jazz Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator
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This rabbit vibrator is a great option if you are looking for an affordable sex toy for under $100. The external arm is adjustable to give pinpoint clit stimulation while the curved shaft has textured ridges for internal stimulation.
Soraya 2, $271.20 (down from $339) at LELO
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Rabbits vibrators are generally more expensive than other sex toys because they are a two-in one device – offering both clitoral stimulation with the shorter external arm and a G-spot stimulation with the shaft. This rabbit vibrator from premium sex toy brand Lelo definitely fits into the super luxe category.
But it doesn’t just look good, it also has plenty of features and functions that will have you reaching for it. The external arm is fully-flexible and there are 12 vibration patterns. It is USB rechargeable.
“This toy totally lives up to the hype. The vibe pattern between the shaft and the rabbit “ears” is just immense,” wrote one reviewer on the Lelo site.
Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-spot Rabbit Vibrator, $119.95 (down from $139.95) at Lovehoney
Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-spot Rabbit Vibrator
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The shaft is shaped for maximum G-spot stimulation while the external arm, complete with flexible rabbit ears, provides clitoral stimulation to deliver a blended orgasm. The motor in the curved shaft has nine vibration patterns and three speeds while the rabbit ears have three speeds.
The Greedy Girl is one of Lovehoney’s best-selling toys, with a 4.6 star rating from more than 1800 reviews.
“I can’t explain how amazing this feels,” a reviewer explained. “I never screamed so much in my life. The feeling it gave me is something no one could ever top, unfortunately.”
A second person wrote: “Quite literally hits the spot. Lots of different speeds and rhythms to play around with so you can get the perfect combo for you. Changed my solo sex life entirely.”
BEST BULLET VIBRATORS
Bullet vibrators are generally smaller than rabbit vibrators or wands, which means they are often cheaper and easier to take with you and can be great sex toys for beginners. As always use plenty and lube and remember, bullet vibrators are only for external stimulation. If you are looking for internal stimulation, checkout our list of G-spot vibrators further down on this list.
Le Wand Chrome Vibrating Necklace, $153.95 (down from $199.95) at JOUJOU
Le Wand Chrome Vibrating Necklace
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This vibrator is designed to be on display as a wearable always-on-hand bullet vibrator and a bold and stylish statement necklace.
Le Wand makes some of the largest and most powerful vibrators on the market but this bullet vibrator is a petite 9.4cm long. According to reviewers it still has plenty of power with eight powerful vibration modes that radiate deep into your body. It is USB rechargeable and comes with a handy travel pouch for when you are not wearing it.
And even if you’re not game enough to wear it out and about (or it just doesn’t suit your outfit), it’ll make for a functional addition to your sex toy collection so you can enjoy playful experiences in public and private.
BEST G-SPOT VIBRATORS
ROMP Hype Rechargeable G-spot Vibrator, $59.95 at Lovehoney
ROMP Hype Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator
What You Need To Know
If you want to focus on internal stimulation this G-spot vibrator has a good range of vibration patterns and speeds. It is has an insertable length of 15.24cm (6 inches) and a soft rounded tip, rather than other G-spot vibrators that have a flat tip design.
Vush Shine G-spot Vibrator, $103.49 (down from $114.99) at VUSH
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Made from medical grade silicone, this vibrator is body safe and waterproof, and it is compact and quiet, making it easy to throw into your handbag when you are on the go. It has plenty of five star reviews on the Vush website with one reviewer saying: “I was sceptical about this at first as it can be used internally and externally, but it has not disappointed and I love it!”
LELO Gigi 2
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The flat head design is what gives this sex toy powerful internal stimulation power. Glamour sex toy reviewer, Amanda Chatel, says this vibrator is one of her all time favourite sex toys. “While I tend to use the Gigi 2 more often for clitoral stimulation, when it comes to internal action, it’s definitely a favourite. That flattened tip full of girth woos me almost every time …” she wrote in her review. The Gigi 2 is waterproof and USB rechargeable and has a run time of up to four hours. Impressive.
BEST APP-CONTROLLED VIBRATOR
Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator
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Boasting almost five hours of play per charge, the Lush 3 will target your G-spot with whisper-quiet vibrations that can be synched to music or specific sounds. It’s completely waterproof and its petite body allows for enjoyment anywhere you please.
“This toy hits all the right spots and to know someone else is in control is such a turn-on,” one five-star review reads.
Another person added: “My partner works away and we have had fun with the toy every day.”
BEST VIBRATOR RING
VUSH Orb Pleasure Ring, $80 at Adore Beauty
VUSH Orb Pleasure Ring
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The VUSH Orb Pleasure Ring features dual motors for double the orgasmic joy and 10 pleasure settings for both P and V fun. For vulva owners, the elongated and uber-flexible rabbit ears help with targeted clitoral stimulation. It also works as a ‘support’ for extra pleasure during penetrative sex – just nestle it on or on either side of the clit. Then, for penis owners, the toy’s stretchy ring works by restricting blood from flowing back down the phallus, which can help increase sensation.
“My bf and I have been going through a bit of a sexual slump, so I was really excited to surprise him with something new,” one person revealed. “This thing had us both levitating. The added vibrations felt amazing for both of us and the ears hit my clit perfectly.”
BEST VIBRATORS FOR BEGINNERS
Smile Makers The Billionaire, $74.95 at THE ICONIC
Smile Makers The Billionaire
What You Need To Know
Thanks to this vibrator, first-timers can finally enjoy both external and internal stimulations whenever they please. You’ll fall in love with its velvety-soft silicone feel that’s been constructed using premium silicone polished for the smoothest touch. Choose from four speeds and two pulsation modes, and enjoy up to four hours of strong rumbling vibrations.
One beginner detailed their experience, commenting: “I am still finding what works best for me, but this is such a great vibrator for an anxious beginner and is really helping me to discover myself and grow my self-confidence!”
The Double Entendre, $95 at THE ICONIC
Frenchie The Double Entendre
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Made with medical-grade and bendable silicone, this toy can be used for internal or external stimulation – or both at the same time to achieve (hopefully) a blended orgasm. Its unique shape has a smaller head at one end for G-spot stimulation and a larger tip at the other end for clitoral stimulation. With two powerful yet quiet motors that have four speeds and six vibration modes, it’s your one-way ticket to good vibes for under $100.
Reviewing the toy for Refinery29, sexual wellness writer Karina Hoshikawa said it was “ah-mazing”. “Basically, it passed with flying colours, and I swear I couldn’t feel my legs after (again, in a good way!).”
One happy customer on the Frenchie site agreed: “For someone who needs both internal and external stimulation, I can well and truly say my needs are met with the flexible body, making sure it hits that spot … every … single … time.”
BEST VIBRATING PANTIES
We-Vibe Moxie +, $179 at THE ICONIC
We-Vibe Moxie +
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Nobody does panty vibrators quite like We-Vibe — and the Moxie is at the top of the brand’s game. The vibrator is one-size-fits-all and designed to fit into any of your panties, simply with a little magnet that securely keeps it in place. Hook it up with the We-Connect mobile app and your partner can control your panties from literally anywhere — yes, even across the globe.
While the price is a tad dearer than other panty vibes out there, reviewers have said this “powerhouse” is well worth the extra dollars.
One happy customer commented, saying, “The magnet hangs on really well, I was super impressed by how well it kept the toy in place.”
Another person noted how comfortable it is to wear: “It fits close to the body keeping contact with the fun parts without feeling like it’s in the way, especially if you’re sitting down while wearing it.”
WHAT TO CONSIDER WHEN BUYING A VIBRATOR
It can be intimidating trying to choose which type of vibe is right for you and your needs, so here are some tips to consider during your selection process.
Size: Everyone’s body is built differently so ensuring your toy is comfortable to use will enhance your experience every time you put it to use.
Sensation: You want to invest in a toy that’s suitable for use in your desired area. For example, clitoral, G-spot, anal stimulation and so forth.
Purpose: The toy you choose should be suitable for the type of activity you want to engage in – anal play, clit play etc.
Material and texture: You always want to opt for a toy crafted from body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone. These materials don’t use potentially harmful chemicals or common allergens during the manufacturing process. Not only will this ensure your toy has a long, healthy lifespan (with regular care and cleaning, of course) but it also won’t leach harmful chemicals into your body when you use it.
Vibration settings and noise level: Some toys come with one or two different vibrations while others allow you to change between many different sensations. Additionally, most people prefer toys that can quietly operate due to privacy reasons. If you’re hesitant about a toy’s noise level, we recommend reading through the product’s reviews as most reviewers will report on this.
Additional features: Consider other features like waterproof capabilities, Wi-Fi or Bluetooth connectivity and battery life.
Budget: How much are you willing to invest in a quality vibrator? Sex toys can range anywhere from under $50 to a few hundred. Just expect to pay more for a good quality one.
Lubricant compatibility: Confirm your go-to lubricant is compatible with your sex toy to avoid damaging it. The general rule of thumb is to only use water-based lubricants for silicone toys and water-based or oil-based lubricants for those made with ABS plastic or glass
HOW WE CHOSE PRODUCTS
Sex toys are personal item because we are all different when it comes to sexual pleasure. To help you find the best vibrator for you, our shopping team sifted through customer reviews and comments (good and bad), read manuals and combed through list of best vibrator lists to narrow down the sex toys we think are worth your consideration.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
WHAT TYPES OF VIBRATORS ARE AVAILABLE?
There are a plethora of sex toys to choose from, each providing a unique sensation. Some of the most popular types you can buy in Australia include the following:
- Clitoral vibrators
- Massage wands
- Bullet vibrators
- Rabbit vibrators
- Wearable vibrators
- Suction vibrators
- G-spot vibrators
- Panty vibrators
- Men’s masturbation ‘sleeves’
- Anal toys
- Prostate massagers
ARE VIBRATORS WATERPROOF?
Some are and the key is to look for a vibrator that explicitly says it’s “waterproof” as opposed to being “water-resistant”. The latter simply means that it’s fine to get water on it but it shouldn’t be submerged underwater for longer than a few seconds. Waterproof, on the other hand, is completely submersible and can be taken into a bathtub for hours without breaking.
If you’re unsure whether your toy is waterproof, the first thing you should do is check the packaging and instruction manual as this is a key selling feature of sex toys and will definitely be made clear if it is. If it doesn’t say it’s waterproof, err on the side of caution and assume it’s not.
IS IT NORMAL TO FEEL NERVOUS OR EMBARRASSED ABOUT USING A VIBRATOR?
It can be intimidating going through the process of buying a sex toy and putting it to good use. However, Viv Conway, co-founder of Girls Get Off, says it’s completely normal to feel nervous or embarrassed about using a vibrator.
“Many people feel nervous or embarrassed about using a vibrator, especially if they’ve never used one before,” Conway told news.com.au. “Conversations about sex and pleasure have traditionally been swept under the carpet and this has led to people feeling uncertain, shameful and nervous about sex, masturbation and vibrators.”
Understand that using sex toys is part of having a healthy and satisfying sex life, and many people use them regularly so there’s no need to feel like you’re abnormal for wanting to try them for yourself.
WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF USING SEX TOYS?
Sex toys are amazing for getting to know yourself inside and out,” Ms Conway explained. “Not only are they great for exploring during solo play, but they’re also fun to use with a partner to unlock new levels of pleasure together.”
“Most vulva owners require external or clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm and vibrators are a great way to stimulate the entire vulva and increase blood flow to the area, just as blood flow is required to flow to the genitalia of a penis owner,” she added.
But the benefits of sex toys go beyond just pleasure. Countless scientific studies have proven how sex toys can improve your sleep, help conquer stress and anxiety, aid heart health, reduce bodily pains and strengthen bladder control, just to name a few.
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