Here’s a PSA for all the straight men out there – you’re missing out on some of the best solo sex of your lives. That’s because this category is yet to catch up with everyone else when it comes to using gadgets to give themselves pleasure.

“Research shows around 60 per cent of people of all genders and sexualities are using sex toys, except straight men,” says sex and intimacy coach Jack Martin. “Where there is only around 25 per cent.”

Male masturbators should be embraced as they can bring an entirely different and exciting experience to sexual exploration. “Think of it as expanding your toolkit,” Martin explains. “While hands are great, toys offer different sensations that can’t always be achieved with just manual touch. They’re not here to replace what you’ve got but to give you more options.”

And there’s a huge range to choose from, from simple sleeves and strokers to more hi-tech options, as well as cock rings and anal toys like prostate massagers and butt plugs.

And they can elevate couples play too. “[Partners can use them for] exploring and educating themselves and each other around pleasure, comfort and also values and attitudes,” adds Alain Moulay, a sexologist and relationship counsellor. “Opening up the conversation in a respectful, non-judgemental way, and with lightness, is a great way to engage and bring some excitement and closeness to the relationship.”

Toys can also help to tackle issues such as premature ejaculation or erectile concerns, by helping men learn to control their responses to stimulation or find new ways to do so.

So there’s little excuse to not have a masturbator in your repertoire. “It shows that you’re comfortable making choices that enhance your sexual wellbeing in a way that suits your individual preferences,” explains Martin. What more reason do you need?

Here’s a wrap up of the best male masturbators - including the THRUST Pro Mini Ella which reviewers say is great for beginners, gives you “intense stimualtions” and “works like magic”.

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BEST SLEEVES AND STROKERS

Fleshlight Flight Pilot Male Masturbator, $84.95 at Lovehoney

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A stroker should be found in any guy’s bedside drawer, and it’s hard to go past the one that has become synonymous with this essential male sex toy.

Using a Fleshlight is straightforward – it’s designed to stimulate the penis via various ridges and textures in the extremely flexible interior that ups the feel-good factor.

This model is more streamlined than the original, and prides itself on its “stealth opening” for a tighter fit, and you can control the level of suction intensity simply by adjusting the screw-cap base.

With more than 800 reviews on Lovehoney, this newer model is definitely one of the best sex toys on the market for guys looking for some superior self-pleasure. “The inner shape and texture will literally give you some of the best orgasms,” says one review. “As close to the real thing as you can get!”

While it’s not the cheapest on offer, there’s plenty to justify the investment. “If you’re new to Fleshlight this is the ideal toy for you,” advises another user.

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Tracey Cox Supersex Sensation Stroker Clear, $39.95 at Lovehoney

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While it can sometimes be hard to distinguish one sleeve from another, what sets this one apart is that it’s almost impossible to find a bad review of it! Which is not altogether surprising considering that it is from the brand created by renowned sex expert Tracey Cox.

There is a plethora of internal textures, ribbing and nodules on the interior, which tapers to squeeze tighter the more you plunge into it, making it the gold-medal standard in sleeves that has earned many raves on Lovehoney.

“It was tough not to explode within minutes,” says one user. “If you want an ejaculation with twice the power … this is the toy for you,” adds another.

As well as making solo fun something really mind-blowing, plenty of users also remarked that it’s great to use in partner play as well. “The [other half] loved watching me burst with excitement,” says one happy customer.

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THRUST Pro Mini Ella Realistic Pocket Pussy, $19.95 at Lovehoney

What You Need To Know

Vaginal masturbators give the standard male stroker toy an added visual dimension replicating heterosexual penetrative sex which plenty of men really enjoy.

The creators at Thrust have made sure to give this stroking toy plenty of textures inside it to provide maximum stimulation, with ridges on the outside to enable a strong and controlling grip. The material used also feels great to the touch. One handy design element is space for you to insert a bullet vibrator to make the experience even more intense.

With plenty of raves on more than 500 reviews, the word “explosive”, in terms of orgasm, is mentioned many, many times.

Other users remarked on how great it felt, both inside and out, and the purposefully snug opening was also a selling point. “Right from the start, I got the intense stimulation that you get because it’s ‘super tight’,” says one user. “And it has all those amazing projections inside that work like magic.”

Reviewers also thought that, with its budget-friendly price point, this is an especially great option for those starting out with sex toys.

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BEST FOR BEGINNERS

Doc Johnson The Tube 5.4” Ultraskin Stroker, $24 .99 at Wild Secrets

What You Need To Know

When it comes to starting out, “Begin with simple, non-intimidating toys like a basic vibrator or a masturbatory sleeve,” advises Martin. “As comfort grows, you can gradually explore more advanced options.”

And while this item may not look too exotic or exciting, don’t be fooled. This tube has enough ridges on the inside to give you plenty of stimulation, and it comes at a price point that makes it a great first step into the world of sleeves and strokers. It’s also a snap to use, just add some water-based lubricant and off you go.

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California Exotic Boundless 5.9” Reversible Stroker with Squishy Tip Tickler Ball, $22.99 at Wild Secrets

What You Need To Know

Another great introduction to elevating your solo play, this sleeve has some very effective ridges on one side that can really boost the sensation (you can also turn it inside out for a smoother version as an alternative).

It is closed at one end to give a slight suction when used that one online reviewer was particularly pleased with, writing “It honestly feels like a real blowjob.”

One feature is the addition of an insertable textured squishy ball, called a “removable tip tickler” which does what its name implies – gives added stimulation to the tip of the penis for a more intense experience.

It also comes with a handy hard case, which also makes it a great travel option.

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BEST VIBRATING STROKERS

Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator, $129.95 at Lovehoney

What You Need To Know

If you want to take your stroker toy to the next level, getting one that both vibrates and can be warmed, is a decision you won’t regret.

This particular stroker is designed to offer authentic oral sex simulation for the user, with plenty of variation that you can control the experience on many levels. Six vibration patterns give you plenty of options to play around with, each offering three different intensity levels.

It may look shorter than other masturbators, but that’s deliberate, to replicate the sensation of a warm mouth on the head of the penis, including rising to a very pleasurable 40°C “Very good feeling, just like the real thing,” says one user. Another fan of the warming option states, “Tap the heater and oh wow, this thing just absolutely becomes a different beast.”

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Wild Secrets Instinct 11” Vibrating & Sucking Deluxe Masturbator, $174 .99 from Wild Secrets

What You Need To Know

This deluxe hands free male masturbator is no shrinking violet – it’s a powerful device that replicates oral sex via 10 different vibrating modes.

It’s a snap to use, just lubricate the internal textured sleeve, and yourself, and then enter the device for an experience that users rave about. “Feels better than anything I’ve ever tried,” says one reviewer. “No going back now.”

“The vibrations are insane and seriously take it to the next level,” adds another happy customer. “Use lots of lube and go to town.”

Want to go hands free? Easy! The included suction cup means you can affix it to a flat surface, like a wall, so you don’t need to hold it.

Another exciting added extra? Plug in your headphones for some aural thrills, care of some tantalising female vocal sounds.

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BEST ANAL TOYS

Lovehoney High Roller Remote Control Rotating Prostate Massager, $99.95 at Lovehoney

Toys like a vibrating butt plug or a prostate massager can increase and intensify any orgasms in solo play. “Anal play can be a great addition to your masturbation routine,” says Martin. “While any [gender] can enjoy anal play, those with a prostate can tap into a unique kind of pleasure. Just remember to use plenty of lube, take it slow, and focus on what feels good for you and what you’re comfortable with.”

This prostate massager is a cut above due to its remote which gives you plenty of control and leaves you free to work on other parts of your body as well.

With more than 350 reviews on Lovehoney, there are plenty of satisfied customers for this gadget. “The pressure on and off from the prostate is super stimulating and you are in for an incredible orgasm!” noted one. “Would recommend to any men trying to find their p-spot!” added another.

Quite a few reviewers also liked handing the remote control over to their partner as well. “We highly recommend this product for couples looking to spice things up in the bedroom!!” says one pair.

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Lovehoney Booty Buddy Silicone Butt Plug, $26.95 from Lovehoney

What You Need To Know

Plenty of guys enjoy the feel of a butt plug while they masturbate, and there are many on the market. As it’s being used internally, it’s very important that you get one made out of a body-safe material, such as silicone. And you want to make sure it has a flared base for safety. It’s also vital to use plenty of lube.

While many are tapered, this one’s shape borrows from that of a prostate massager so that it can really apply some pressure to that area.

Many reviewers noted that this is a great option for those wanting to try out a butt plug. “The Booty Buddy is extremely comfortable and stimulates just the right spot to deliver a really intense orgasm,” remarked one first-time user. “It adds another dimension to sex, foreplay and masturbation.”

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BEST FOR TRAVELLING

TENGA Egg Lovers Heart Textured Male Masturbator, $14.95 at Lovehoney

What You Need To Know

With Tenga establishing itself as the go-to for great stroker toys, this little egg is a great option to throw in your bag if you’re heading out of town for a night or two and want to add some great orgasms to your itinerary.

The heart shapes on the inside of the stretchy plastic (which, by the way, can extend quite substantially to accommodate various penis sizes) aren’t just for show, they provide texture to stimulate.

“There’s multiple layers of sensations,” one reviewer noted. “It feels thicker yet also adds more sensation to my delicate parts.”

Another wrote: “The super soft plastic gives a real life feel and feels amazing for solo play, it’s a real treat from a standard hand job!”

And while it is designed for single use (coming with a sachet of lube for that purpose), quite a few users found that treated with care, used with adequate lubrication and kept clean, it was actually good for a few sessions.

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Durex Play Slide & Ride Sensory & Textured Masturbation Massage Sleeve, $44.99 at Amazon Australia

What You Need To Know

Durex is one of the most established names in sex-positive products, so if you’re looking for a sturdy sleeve to throw into your travel tote, they’ve come up with the ideal option that’ll add some extra oomph to your trip.

Textured on the inside, this toy offers what Durex says is the “feeling of a partner while still having all the control to mould it the way you like it”.

Being fully waterproof means it’s a good option to make your hotel bath or shower something a bit more exciting, while a handy pouch means it’s easy to pack, and the flexible body can be flipped inside out for amazingly easy cleaning.

As well as for on-the-go enjoyment, this is also a great option for newbies and also plenty of reviewers on Amazon enjoyed using it with partnered play.

“Well made and quite simply feels great,” says one user. “Since it has grooves, dots and texture on the inside it gives lots of pleasure,” noted another. “Toy is super soft and very stretchy, it can adapt to any shape and size, how tight you want it to be depends on your hand and how tight you grip it.”

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BEST NEXT-LEVEL TOY

F1S™ V3 AI-Driven Male Masturbator with Real-Feel Silicon, $295.20 (down from $369) at LELO

What You Need To Know

LELO’s latest version of its popular F1S aims to make you see stars via its sonic waves and is one of the best hands free male masturbators on the market. It uses Artificial Intelligence to gauge what’s working, drawing from your speed and skill, and to adjust in real time to increase your pleasure even further.

You can control it via Bluetooth, care of the associated app, which gives you access to extra settings and the AI function, and the F1S uses two motors working together. Its streamlined design also makes it a great one to take when travelling.

To use, simply add lube, then insert your penis and you’ll soon feel those sonic waves coming at you in the most pleasurable way possible.

“It is just a hair shy of the real thing but absolutely close enough to get the job done spectacularly,” says one user. “I couldn’t stop using it when I first got it, I had to wean myself off it,” another keen reviewer explains.

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BEST FOR PARTNERED PLAY

Lovehoney Ignite 20 Function Vibrating Love Ring, $49.95 at Lovehoney

What You Need To Know

Plenty of the toys here can be used for couple play as well as solo, and this little beauty was great on that front, proving that size definitely doesn’t matter!

For the uninitiated, vibrating cock rings restrict the flow of blood to the penis, and can be used to create longer lasting erections (NOTE: medical advice recommends not using for longer than 30 minutes), and can provide intense orgasms.

Add some vibrations to the mix and you’ve got quite the handy go-to for some extra sensations. “I like this unit because it pleasures both the penis and scrotum at the same time,” explained one reviewer.

This also gives it plenty of oomph for use with another. “My man lasted longer than usual, and I could feel the vibrations when he was inside me, huge pleasure,” said one female reviewer, adding, “It’s ideal for first-time users.”

“The pleasure for both of us was phenomenal!” wrote another, while yet another said, “Great for foreplay, giving some hands-free vibration to my partner.”

Rechargeable and easy to clean, this vibrating cock ring also comes in a handy pouch.

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Fun Factory Manta Black Rechargeable Vibrating Male Stroker, $179.95 at Lovehoney

What You Need To Know

“It’s about time we normalise using sex toys in partnered sex for everyone,” says Martin, and plenty of reviewers of this particular gadget would definitely agree.

This unique-looking toy is a stroker of a different kind, where you use the two ridged silicone wings to stimulate the penis with a selection of vibrating options. “It’s perfect for fraenulum play,” noted one reviewer. “Holding and turning it at different angles produces a wide array of sensations. Really fun.”

And while plenty of toys here can be used with someone else, this one has been designed with that in mind, its shape has been created to fit between two bodies, where the vibrations can be felt by both parties. “This toy has taken our pleasure to the next level,” says one Lovehoney reviewer. “[There are] so many different ways we have found to use [it], it always spices things up,” adds another.

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WHAT TO LOOK FOR WHEN BUYING A MALE MASTURBATOR

Aim: There’s more than one type of male sex toy, so we looked for a range that provided a variety of stimulation. Whether it’s a standard sleeve or a stroker that deals with the shaft, to toys that focus on the penis head, or an anal or prostate toy.

Material: The materials used for sex toys are important. For those used externally, TPE or TPR is commonly used and safe. If something is being inserted, silicone is highly advised. It’s also important to check the waterproof level of any toys before using them in the bath or shower.

Recommendations: The toys here have all been recommended by those who have used the products, courtesy of sites such as Lovehoney and Amazon.

Price and usage: As well as different functions, male sex toys can often be designed for different uses. Some are created for single or limited use only, while others are made for long-term enjoyment. Some are smaller and able to be taken travelling while others will take up decent room by the bedside and aren’t as portable. Price is also a factor – we made sure to survey a range to show that budget shouldn’t be an issue.

HOW WE CHOOSE PRODUCTS

To help you find the best sex toy for your needs and budget, our team of experienced writers spent hours researching products, reading customer reviews and evaluating ratings from product review sites to find the top products.

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

How do I know which sex toy to buy?

With so many sex toys for men available, ask yourself what you’re looking for and go from there. “There’s a growing number of sex toys available for men, both for the purposes of solo and partnered experience,” explains Moulay. “Knowing the one that’s right for you depends on your situation and preferences. For example, increasing or enabling stimulation or exploring different parts of the body.” Hygiene and safety should also be on your checklist. “It’s important that the sex toys used meet quality manufacturing standards for safe use.”

Isn’t it a bit embarrassing to buy a sex toy?

Some men may feel hesitant to purchase a masturbation toy, but there’s no reason to be. As mentioned earlier, many others are doing just that, so why not join them? “We might feel challenged about societal values, attitudes, norms and expectations,” says Moulay. “What’s important is that pleasure is ours to experience at an individual level and [potentially] with our partner.” With so many online retailers, it’s never been easier to bring a sex toy into your life. “Remind yourself that these tools are simply another way to explore and enjoy your sexuality,” adds Martin.

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