There are five ways a woman can claim to “have it all”: she is either superhuman, super rich, self-employed, has a partner who doesn’t work or is self-employed – or she is lying.
Cosmopolitan editor Helen Gurley Brown started it with her 1982 book Having it all, but more than four decades later, the words sound more like a reproach than a rallying cry – a pursuit that typically leaves women feeling overstretched and underappreciated.