Abbie Chatfield’s new beginner-friendly Kink Kit with Normal
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Abbie Chatfield is on a mission to spice up the sex lives of everyday Australians.
The F Boy Island host, who is currently dating Peking Duk’s Adam Hyde, says that having an honest conversation with your partner is the best way to start for those wanting to up the ante between the sheets.
“Like, I have a fantasyabout, like, seeing my partner f*** someone else, right? But I think I know in my heart that I don’t actually want to see it. I just want to talk about it like, that’s something that I find hot,” she shares with news.com.au checkout.
“But in reality, would I want to see that? Maybe, probably not. Like, whenever we get to a point where we’re like, ‘let’s have a threesome!’, I’m like, ‘I don’t actually know if I’m gonna want to see that.’”
Kink Kit
Abbie advises sharing the fantasy with your partner and finding a way to explore your desires in a way you both feel comfortable with is ideal.
“I think just being as honest as you can, and being like, ‘I have this kink,’” Abbie says. “So what can we do in terms of dirty talk, or fantasy, or watching ethical porn together, or talking about what that might look like in reality? That can often satiate a kink enough that you’re like, ‘I feel like that’s addressed, but like, I don’t feel comfortable going the full way.’”
She adds, “A lot can be said for dirty talk and joint watching porn or reading erotica or listening to erotica together.”
After launching a sell-out vibrator and following that up with the release of a butt plug kit, Abbie has teamed up with Normalfor her natural next step – a beginner-friendly Kink Kit.
The Kink Kit, which includes a blindfold, handcuffs, paddle and kink menu, is perfect for those wanting to dip their toes into the water of kink, according to Abbie.
“I engage in like, I would call ‘soft kink’. Like, I’m kind of like, one foot in, one foot out, with kink,” Abbie admits. “I feel like this Kink Kit will hopefully allow people who are wanting to explore that level or beyond – they want to have an entry point. Hopefully, the Kink Kit will do that for them.”
She adds, “You can do kink in lots of different ways, like sensory deprivation is kink. You’re just wearing a blindfold but that is kink. That can be done while having completely traditional, quote, unquote, vanilla sex.”
And of course, Adam was on hand to help put the early incarnations of the Kink Kit through its paces – a job Abbie confesses he “loved”.
“He loves anything I do. He had feedback about the length of the flogger. It was a little bit too short [in early versions] after using that on me,” Abbie says, adding that she had the same feedback that contributed to a changed size for the final product.
One of Abbie’s favourite features of the Kink Kit, is its “Kink Menu” (essentially a list of common kinks), which was devised by kink expert and sex educator Georgia Grace.
“Obviously, it’s impossible to list every single kink everyone has, because there’s a kink for everything. But we’ve got this menu, and it basically has like a list of these kinks, and you can pick yes, no or more information. And it’s really useful,” Abbie explains.
Abbie says that going through the menu whether solo or with a partner can help you find desires that pique your interest and narrow them down to which ones you want to explore.
“Like, for example, trichophilia. I learned the word from the sex menu with Georgia, which is apparently a hair kink,” she says.
“Once you have the language, you can look into it more. You’re educating yourself with it. So I think having that as the foundation, it’s a really easy reference point as well to have these conversations and be like, ‘Okay, well, we’re aligned in like, food play or whatever’ or ‘Oh, we’re aligned in, like, bondage’ and you can figure out where you match up with your partner.”
At the end of the day, it’s all about consent, communication and having fun exploring your desires, Abbie says.
“Let’s just keep making people think about their sex lives and pushing further,” she says.
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