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June

Men still lag behind women when it comes to household chores.

Why WFH husbands don’t do the housework

There must be something about upbringing and environment that makes it so much harder for men to identify the chores that women see as crying out to be done.

  • Lauren Shirreff
We hear Penelope’s (Nicola Coughlan) every sigh and gasp as Colin (Luke Newton) strips her in front of the mirror.

How Bridgerton gets sex right for women

Netflix’s hit series’ formula is hours of tension and longing that culminate in a lengthy sex scene.

  • Kara Kennedy
Jeremy Allen White.

Who, and what, is a ‘Rodent Man’?

Turns out it’s a good thing to look like a rat.

  • The New York Times Style Desk

May

A growing number of millennials and Gen Zers love to send voice notes.

Why voice notes are having a moment

They convey more nuance than text but they can be daunting to listen to if they’re too long.

  • Tatum Hunter

Wages growth slows; Miners hail budget tax credits; BHP’s new pitch

Read everything that’s happened in the news so far today.

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Joint super funds for couples has gained traction within the super industry.

Older adults are having sex – but there is an increasing downside

Experts have offered five reasons that help explain why sexually transmitted infection rates are rising among ageing people.

  • Steven Petrow

April

Couples often lose their way.

How spotting burnout in your relationship could save it

Too exhausted to cuddle? Irritated by your partner? You could be experiencing a relationship burnout.

  • Sam Delaney
Antidepressants can suppress testosterone and sex drive, says one expert.

How your sex drive changes at every stage in your life

Of the 50 hormones each of us has in our body, the trio of oestrogen, testosterone and progesterone play crucial roles. But you can get intimate at any age.

  • Susanna Galton

March

“A lot of the time, I can be in a situation where I’m like, ‘Wow, this person is really attractive,’” says personal trainer Roberto Hued, “but immediately I remember my setting.”

Is he ever ‘just a personal trainer’?

Male fitness instructors have had a reputation for being flirts and girlfriend stealers. How true is it?

  • Gina Cherelus
Dark triad personality types: manipulative, entitled, and lacking empathy.

Is your colleague a sociopath?

Also known as “dark triad” personalities, these manipulative narcissists are indifferent to people’s feelings.

  • Arthur C Brooks

February

Love Island Australia

Dating shows make big money for contestants, networks

The Bachelor and other relationship reality shows attract large audiences and are cheap to make.

  • Teresa Xie and Immanual John Milton
Preeti Kothari and Heena Kajaria, matchmakers of Soulmate Matrimonial, consider their platform a service to their community.

Looking for love? Matchmakers say don’t be too picky

If someone meets 70 per cent of your criteria, you may have found a hidden gem, say Hindu matchmakers Heena Kajaria and Preeti Kothari of Soulmate Matrimonial.

  • Lucy Dean

January

Divorce can be very stressful.

How to survive divorce with your health intact

One study suggests divorce has a greater short-term effect on wellbeing among men, while the impact on women may extend over years.

  • Polly Dunbar
Bad table manners are everywhere, and made worse by the advent of smartphones.

Nine ways to improve your relationships in 2024

Pay a compliment, focus on things you can control and, for goodness’ sake, put down your phone.

  • Catherine Pearson

December 2023

BHP chief executive Mike Henry.

Canadian rail giant approves CEO’s BHP coupling

Canadian National directors joined BHP’s board in giving their blessing to a romantic relationship between chief executives Tracy Robinson and Mike Henry.

  • Brad Thompson
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November 2023

We need to rethink the justice system and how it deals with non-consensual sex among teenagers, says Chanel Contos.

Chanel Contos says most rapists are ‘entitled opportunists’

Chanel Contos says by far the biggest group of rapists in Australia don’t even know that’s the crime they are committing – and that is a big problem.

  • Julie Hare

September 2023

Sex-education campaigner and author Chanel Contos.

Contos wants your teenage boys to understand sex

At 15, I learnt that what I considered regular male sexual behaviour was criminal. The realisation helped ignite a national movement.

  • Chanel Contos
Making friends in later life requires effort.

How mid-life men can make new friends

Every friendship begins as a conversation with a stranger, here’s how to start one.

  • Peter Quarry

August 2023

Scientists are investigating whether MDMA could help couples.

How taking MDMA with your partner could boost your relationship

An Australian team hopes to become the first researchers to measure the outcome of using MDMA to help couples in conflict.

  • Jenny Valentish

July 2023

More than 10 million people have downloaded the Replika app and created digital companions.

The pleasure and the perils of loving an AI partner

Is artificial intelligence a potential solution to a loneliness epidemic that, in part, has been driven by digital technology – or is it the thin end of a dangerous wedge?

  • James Titcomb

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