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The nagging thought haunting the families of the Hamas hostages

A year on from the October 7 attacks, with more than 60 hostages still in captivity inside Gaza, families are stuck in a world of questions without answers.

A year on from the October 7 attacks, more than 60 hostages are still in captivity inside Gaza.
A year on from the October 7 attacks, more than 60 hostages are still in captivity inside Gaza.

Of all the emotions that engulf the families of the Hamas hostages, the terror and anger, the helplessness and hope, there’s a nagging thought that haunts now more than ever: what if their loved ones are never found?

A year on from the October 7 attacks, with more than 60 hostages still in captivity inside Gaza, families are stuck in a world of questions without answers.

In scores of interviews during the past 12 months, they have revealed their deepest fears for their sons and daughters, mothers and uncles. Is she being abused and beaten? Is he starving, injured? Do they think we have forgotten them? Are they still alive?

And now the lingering fear: Will we ever know?

It was a question that plagued Ayelet Svatitzky as she awaited news of her brother, British-Israeli citizen Nadav Popplewell, 51, who was kidnapped from his home at Kibbutz Nirim with their 79-year-old mother, Channah Peri.

Ayelet Svatitzky. Picture: AFP
Ayelet Svatitzky. Picture: AFP
Nadav Popplewell, appearing in a Hamas hostage video.
Nadav Popplewell, appearing in a Hamas hostage video.

Peri was released in last November’s temporary ceasefire. In May, Popplewell’s captors released a propaganda video of him with a swollen and blackened eye, speaking to the camera.

These hostage videos are not described by Israel as psychological warfare for nothing; this vision of bruised and battered prisoners torments families who cannot assume that the footage is current proof of life when there is no way of knowing what happened after it was recorded.

As the months passed, Svatitzky says her growing worry was that she might never know her brother’s fate. “Never knowing what happened to him … that’s what scared me the most. That was my biggest fear.”

In June came the wrong answer when his death was confirmed and his body was returned to his family. It was small comfort. “I got to know what happened to him and I got him back … we got a coffin to bury,” Svatitzky said. Sitting in a press conference alongside others who have loved ones still hidden in Gaza, she added: “Every day that goes by we are at risk of families not having an answer at the end of this.”

Hamas terrorists abducted more than 250 Israelis and foreign nationals and killed more than 1200, mostly civilians, in the October 7 attacks on southern Israel. The youngest hostage was Kfir Bibas, just nine months old, who was taken with his brother Ariel, 4, and their mother Shiri and father Yarden Bibas.

Ariel and Kfir Bibas, pictured with their mother, Shiri.
Ariel and Kfir Bibas, pictured with their mother, Shiri.

Some 105 hostages were released in the temporary ceasefire in November, four were released by Hamas before the deal, and Israeli forces have rescued about eight hostages and recovered the bodies of an estimated 36 people. It is believed some 33 bodies are still in Gaza, leaving about 62 people who have not been released, rescued or confirmed among the dead.

The Hostages and Missing Families Forum says the testimonies of survivors, who reported sexual assault, mutilation and starvation, reveal the extreme dangers facing those who remain. Many of the hostages have chronic illnesses or untreated injuries inflicted during their capture. “Others suffer from illnesses related to the harsh captivity conditions which include mental and physical torture,” the forum says.

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The sisters of Eden Yerushalmi, who was murdered in August along with five other hostages, say they were told the 24-year-old had been held in inhumane conditions in captivity, deep in the dark, narrow spiderweb of tunnels under Gaza. When her body was retrieved, this formerly healthy young bartender weighed just 35kg.

“They starved her before they murdered her,” her sister Shani told CNN.

Released hostages have told how they were trapped in the homes of militants or other private citizens or kept in the tunnels with limited access to water and food – sometimes receiving as little as three dates a day or a small piece of bread. The family of Liri Albag says the 19-year-old initially was treated as a slave in a villa in Gaza – cleaning and preparing food she was not allowed to eat. After about 40 days she was moved to an underground tunnel.

The Bibas family says military intelligence has indicated at different times that Yarden Bibas is alive while the fate of Shiri Bibas and her two babies remains unknown.

“The uncertainty is really, really difficult,’’ Yarden’s sister, Ofri Bibas, said last month. “But it leaves us room for extremely cautious optimism which is gradually shrinking, I won’t lie. It enables me to still hope that they have managed to survive somehow.”

Christine Middap
Christine MiddapAssociate editor, chief writer

Christine Middap is associate editor and chief writer at The Australian. She was previously editor of The Weekend Australian Magazine for 11 years. Christine worked as a journalist and editor in Tasmania, Queensland and NSW, and at The Times in London. She is a former foreign correspondent and London bureau chief for News Corp's Australian newspapers.

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