Mum faces backlash for setting strict budget on Christmas gifts

"That's literally what I would come home with from a food shop for my boys, they are essentials, not Christmas presents," the mum was scolded.

Dominique Birouste

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November 20, 2023 - 8:59AM

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Parents everywhere cherish the priceless moment of watching their children unwrap presents on Christmas Day.

However, one mum, Samantha Mary, has found herself under fire for spending just $190 AUD on each of her children's gifts, determined not to 'over spoil' them.

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Budgeting Brilliance

In a bid to navigate the financial strains felt by parents worldwide, Samantha adopted savvy strategies, including purchasing gifts from budget-friendly stores.

Despite her efforts, she faced criticism for the presents chosen for her one-year-old son, Jack, and nine-year-old stepdaughter, Isabella.

Samantha proudly displayed the variety of treats Santa would bring for her children.

For her toddler, she selected wooden toys, individually wrapped, alongside a practical pack of socks for warmth.

Larger presents included playdough, a tea set, and a wooden railway set for holiday entertainment.

Her stepdaughter's stocking included Lilo and Stitch hair accessories, maintaining a Disney theme with essential items such as pastel-coloured pants and vests.

The main gifts for the pre-teen included an art set ($57) and a discounted body warmer from Tesco.

"That's literally what I would come home with from a food shop for my boys, they are essentials, not Christmas presents." Source: TikTok

Viral Backlash

Despite Samantha's intentions, her videos went viral, garnering attention from over 898,000 viewers on the app and sparking a heated debate.

Critics argued that she had gifted 'essentials' rather than actual presents, with some comparing the items to those from a typical grocery run.

"That's literally what I would come home with from a food shop for my boys, they are essentials, not Christmas presents."

Another added: "I can't imagine giving fleece...leggings as a present. My daughter has the same ones that I bought her because they are a necessity in cold months."

Voices of Support

Nevertheless, not all parents condemned Samantha's approach.

Some defended her budgeting decisions, emphasising the importance of financial responsibility.

One supporter remarked, "These comments are the reason half the UK are in serious debt. Good for her for setting budgets and not buying outside of her means."

Proud Choices, Special Memories

Undeterred by the backlash, Samantha remains proud of her purchases, asserting that her children are 'lucky.'

She shared her perspective, stating, "Christmas is about so much more. I have memories of the things we have done rather than the gifts. It's about having that special day."

It's estimated Aussies will fork out $30 billion during the upcoming festive season. Source: iStock

The cost of Christmas

According to a recent Finder survey, Aussies are gearing up to spend a whopping $30 billion during the upcoming festive season, covering everything from gifts to boozy days out.

This marks a significant 10% surge from last year's estimated expenditure of $27.3 billion.

On average, each Australian is projected to allocate $1,479 for Christmas, encompassing gifts, food, beverages, dining out, and travel expenses.

A Hopeful Future

As Samantha stands firm in her budgeting choices, one only hopes she won't face unwarranted criticism for simply prioritising financial responsibility during the festive season.

Plus, let's be honest, half the time, your toddler is more entertained by the box and scrunched-up wrapping paper than anything else!