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'I thought he was just rolling his eyes, I couldn't believe the diagnosis'

"I'd never heard of Battens disease, so I googled it straight away. I just broke down in hysterics. How could this be happening to my baby?"

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A family has been left devastated after brothers, aged six and two, were diagnosed with childhood dementia as a result of a rare disease.

Kristian Tucker, 31, from Spokane, Washington, US, and her husband, Bryden, 34, have been forced to come to terms with the heartbreaking diagnosis of their two boys, Michael, six, and Oliver, two, as doctors revealed the boys had type two Battens disease.

The fatal diagnosis means the brothers will suffer seizures, loss of speech, motor skills and eyesight, and dementia which ultimately results in them having limited time.

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Michael was diagnosed with Battens disease first, and after genetic testing on the rest of the family, Kristian, Bryden, Oliver, and their daughter, Talia, four, it was discovered that Oliver also had the same diagnosis while the rest of the family were carriers.

"Michael first started having seizures when he was around four years old, however, they were so subtle, we didn't recognise them to be seizures," Kristian said.

"Around the time he was turning five, his eyes started rolling, and we just assumed that it was something new he had learned to do. However, it started happening more and more as he was walking, playing, and eating, and we started to think that this was not normal.

"We took him to see the doctor, and we were referred to a neurologist who confirmed that these were seizures and not just Michael rolling his eyes.

"He started various medications but nothing was helping him, so the doctors decided that they wanted to do some genetic testing on Michael, and on me and my husband."

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Bryden, Oliver, Kristian, Michael and Olivia. The two boys Oliver and Michael have been diagnosed with a disease that leads to childhood dementia. Picture: Caters News
Bryden, Oliver, Kristian, Michael and Olivia. The two boys Oliver and Michael have been diagnosed with a disease that leads to childhood dementia. Picture: Caters News

"I just broke down in hysterics"

Unfortunately, the results showed Kristian and Bryden were both carriers of Battens disease, and Michael was diagnosed in April.

"I'd never heard of Battens disease, so I googled it straight away. I just broke down in hysterics. How could this be happening to my baby?

"It had gone completely under the radar, we never knew anything about it and there had never been anything similar that we knew of in our near family history.

"Due to the results, they then wanted to test our other two kids, Talia and Oliver. A month later we found out that Oliver also has the gene and in May and was diagnosed with the same condition.

"Talia doesn't have it, yet she is a carrier."

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Talia, Oliver and Michael together. Talia is a carrier of the rare disease her brothers have been diagnosed with. Picture: Caters News
Talia, Oliver and Michael together. Talia is a carrier of the rare disease her brothers have been diagnosed with. Picture: Caters News

"Both of my boys are going to be taken from me"

After her youngest was diagnosed with the same condition as Michael, Kristian felt like she had been punched in the chest.

She said she couldn't believe she was going through it again.

"After learning about Michael's diagnosis, it felt like the floor had come away from under me and all stability had gone," she said.

"It was totally devastating, and then I had to go through it all again with Oliver.

"Both of my boys were going to be taken from me. I found out what true devastation really is.

"What typically happens with Battens disease is seizures, loss of speech, motor skills and sight, dementia and eventually death.

"It tends to follow that straightforward path, however, both boys are scheduled for surgery that will slow down the process, and are also due to start treatments next month that will give them better quality of life, but it won't stop or do anything for their eyesight."

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Oliver with his older brother Michael. Picture: Caters News
Oliver with his older brother Michael. Picture: Caters News

"How do you explain to a child they have limited time?"

Despite the "crushing" diagnoses, Kristian said both of her boys were doing relatively well.

"Michael is aware that he had seizures, but we just tell the kids that they are sick and we have to keep going to hospital to try and stop them from getting even sicker.

"How do you explain to a child that they have limited time?

"We're putting it off for as long as possible.

"Michael is a typical boy and lights up any room. He also had a speech disorder called apraxia, which means his brain struggles to tell his mouth how to move, and sometimes it is hard to understand him. He struggles a lot, but he is always so happy and in a great mood.

"He's definitely a mummy's boy and loves to cuddle. He loves his little brother too, playing with him and making him laugh. He is the ideal big brother to Talia and Oliver.

"Oliver is mischievous and is always trying to climb and escape his baby gate. He's a wild child with so much personality.

"He's hilarious and loves his big siblings. He is a daddy's boy and loves hanging out and being close to Bryden.

"They're such happy kids, and we are just making the most of the time that we have together as a family."

Originally published as 'I thought he was just rolling his eyes, I couldn't believe the diagnosis'

Original URL: https://www.thechronicle.com.au/lifestyle/parenting/i-thought-he-was-just-rolling-his-eyes-i-couldnt-believe-the-diagnosis/news-story/acd4c757dbd241668d7a2e59a717da7b