‘Divorce her’: Bride’s ‘vulgar’ wedding act

A bride has sparked debate over her wedding photos with some critics slamming her, while others are rushing to defend her.

A bride has gone viral after flashing in her wedding photos, with some criticising the move as a “red flag” while others claimed she was just being “carefree”.

In a since-deleted clip that has now been reposted countless times, a bride named Nina Lingstroem, 31, from Germany is seen flashing both her husband’s groomsmen and her bridesmaids.

In the first part of the candid, behind-the-scenes footage of her bridal party photos, Ms Lingstroem opened the waist-high slit of her white ballgown to reveal her lacy white undies while posing alongside at least 15 groomsmen and her husband – with some even leaning over for a peek.

She bursts into laughter at the camera before swiftly closing the slit and continuing with the regular snaps.

In another clip, she’s seen doing the same with her five bridesmaids, but this time she opted to cover her underwear with her bouquet.

People were quick to judge the decision, with some calling it a “major red flag,” while others labelled it an “attention-grabbing” and “pick me” move.

A “pick me girl” is a derogatory slang term for a woman who behaves in ways that are often seen as seeking male validation, often at the expense of other women.

“That’s a pick me girl … she’ll always be chasing this high to be the main character,” one commenter noted.

“Notice how she looked at the groomsmen’s reactions and not her husband’s?” someone claimed.

A bride has gone viral after flashing in her wedding photos, drawing criticism from some while others quickly came to her defence. Picture: TikTok

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“Having some decency and self-respect means knowing when to behave appropriately, especially on important occasions like a wedding, where dignity and grace should take precedence over seeking attention,” remarked another.

“If that happened on my wedding day, I’d be furious,” one man wrote. “The wedding would’ve been cancelled,” another agreed.

Someone else echoed this, saying, “I would’ve requested the divorce papers that same day”.

“No shame at all,” someone remarked. “Also very disrespectful to her husband,” added another.

“The husband should RUN,” insisted yet another viewer.

“There are other ways to be ‘carefree’,” said one more.

“And he still married her!?,” another questioned.

Others labelled it as “weird,” “gross,” and “cringey”.

Some said it was a ‘red flag’ while others called her ‘carefree’. Picture: TikTok

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But some came to her defence.

“I think people are too quick to judge – maybe she was just having fun and in a good mood, and sometimes you do things,” suggested one.

“The level of hate for something you did at your own wedding is actually absurd,” said another.

“Only jealous people will have negative things to say,’ another commented. “She’s a free spirit,” remarked yet another.

“She is foreign! I think different cultures have different quirks and societal norms – her page doesn’t come across as a pick me,” wrote someone else.

“Hello, German here. It’s not normal,” someone replied.

After initially making her account private, Ms Lingstroem then made it public again and appears to be taking the backlash in her stride.

“Smile as much as you can on your wedding day, and if you wanna do a flashing, go for it,” she wrote over another more tame video from her wedding.

Originally published as ‘Divorce her’: Bride’s ‘vulgar’ wedding act