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I understand your resentment. I just think it is better directed elsewhere.

I think my colleague is exploiting a work policy. Is my resentment fair?

I know it can be deeply frustrating to encounter and be affected by unfairness in the workplace, but I would reflect on who is really to blame.

  • Jonathan Rivett

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Difficult coworkers undermining you in meetings is not an uncommon occurrence.

My colleague keeps spelling my name wrong. Should I feel insulted?

Unless there’s a genuinely good reason for it, repeatedly getting someone else’s name wrong can be a form of disdain worthy of reciprocation.

  • Jonathan Rivett
While being rostered on to work on a public holiday can feel like a tough gig, if your work has given you enough notice, there may not be much you can do.

Was I wrong to ignore a pushy LinkedIn salesperson?

What this salesperson tried was a pretty common tactic. And you were well within your rights to do more than just ignore them.

  • Jonathan Rivett
If your co-worker talks with their mouth full, you should definitely bring this up with them.

My colleague talks with their mouth full. Can I tell them to stop?

If your colleague’s conversational chowing-down is seriously impacting your workday, it might be time to raise it with them.

  • Jonathan Rivett
What you’ve described regarding pay is so much more than a broken promise. It’s a policy of austerity.

My company cut our pay rise and gave our bosses more. What can we do?

From everything you’ve told me, your workplace has a deep cultural illness, and I’m not sure what can be done to fix it.

  • Jonathan Rivett
What to do if you think you’re being managed out of your job.

My boss publicly criticises me. Am I being managed out of my job?

Constantly second-guessing yourself and then being criticised publicly for every decision sounds like a kind of professional hell.

  • Jonathan Rivett
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Being asked to take on additional responsibilities at work can be an opportunity, but your employer could also be taking advantage of you.

My boss wants me to ‘step up’ without any compensation. Is that fair?

Being asked to take on additional responsibilities at work can be an opportunity, but your employer could also be taking advantage of you.

  • Jonathan Rivett
In a meeting where someone is told they’re losing their job, it’s not unusual for management to err on the side of tact and diplomacy

My colleague was fired for being ‘too nice’. Is that fair?

This conduct from your employer appears unprofessional and frankly schoolyardish. It also seems risky.

  • Jonathan Rivett
The fact this email turned out to be important seems like something you should have been warned about in advance.

I accidentally ignored an important email. Did I deserve to be yelled at?

The fact this email turned out to be important seems like something you should have been warned about in advance.

  • Jonathan Rivett
With bank transfers for gifts increasingly common, slyly avoiding contributing for a colleague you don’t like is a difficult prospect.

Can I refuse to contribute to a gift for a colleague I dislike?

With bank transfers for gifts increasingly common, slyly avoiding contributing to a colleague you don’t like is a sensitive and difficult prospect.

  • Jonathan Rivett

Original URL: https://www.theage.com.au/topic/work-therapy-1mor