‘My best man declared his love at my wedding – now we’re married’

A woman has revealed she left her husband for his best man after he declared his love on their wedding day in a bold act that shocked their guests.

First comes love, then comes marriage — then comes the best man to steal the bride away from the groom at the wedding?

Well, such was the case for Desiree White, 32, who ultimately divorced her husband to marry her lifelong friend and the best man at her wedding, Bryant, after he confessed his undying love for her while toasting her nuptials to his then-best friend.

“He said, ‘I remember the first moment I saw Desiree, I loved her. I fell in love with her. I knew she had to be mine. I thought she was the most beautiful person I’ve ever seen in my life,’” Desiree, from Illinois, said of Bryant’s best man’s speech during her 2010 ceremony.

“He said, ‘She’s the best person I’ve ever met. I’ve never met anyone like her. Then I found out she already had a boyfriend and I thought I needed to find out a way to get her, but then I met [White’s ex-husband] and we became friends,’” she recalled.

The identity of Desiree’s former spouse is unknown.

Desiree White has revealed her best friend, and the best man at her first wedding, declared his love for her during his speech. Picture: Kennedy News and Media

But she and her ex sat side-by-side, slack-jawed, as Bryant poured out his heart in front of them and their 200 wedding guests.

“[Bryant] then just said, ‘Love you both — congratulations.’ It ended there,” she added, noting that her ears “turned red” with embarrassment after his admission.

After, a wave of awkwardness then overcame the room, she remembered, saying, “Everyone was kind of laughing — and then it got quiet.”

And she was admittedly “confused” by Bryant’s confession, most notably due to the staunchly platonic nature of their yearslong friendship.

“Bryant and I met each other in class at high school,” she said.

“I had a boyfriend at the time and, because of that, I really wasn’t going to talk to other people.”

Desiree is now married to former best man Bryant after his bold declaration. Picture: Kennedy News and Media

After showing him a picture of her then-beau, Bryant immediately recognised the kid as someone who shared the same lunch period as him. The three formed a tight buddies bond shortly thereafter.

“Bryant and my ex-husband became best friends and, because they were guys, they did a lot together. They did everything together,” Desiree said, insisting she did not harbour any romantic feelings for her now-husband during their formative years.

“I set Bryant up [on dates with other women] so many times,” she said.

“I’ve been on double dates with him and I always tell people I wouldn’t have ever dated the person he was then.

“He had a lot of growing up to do. I didn’t really look at him in that way.”

The pair have four kids together. Picture: Kennedy News and Media

But Desiree vividly remembers the look of affection that Bryant wore when he saw her adorned in bridal garb on the morning she was to tie the knot with his pal.

“On the wedding day, I walked into the living room, right when I was done getting ready with my wedding dress on and my hair done. Bryant came into my parents’ house and froze and stared at me,” she recounted.

“I said, ‘Hey, what’s up?’ He said I looked beautiful. I’d never had a moment of him looking at me like that.”

His adoring gaze aside, she proceeded on to her wedding and got married. Bryant, in turn, reportedly got drunk and then publicly professed his love for her.

But his unbridled unbosoming didn’t stop at his best man’s speech.

Later that evening, Desiree shared a dance with him while her new husband danced with her maid of honour. She recalled that while boogying with Bryant, he said, “Why didn’t you ever give me a chance? I would have always taken care of you.”

“I asked him what he meant and he said, ‘Nothing. I love you, I love [White’s ex-husband],’ ” she recounted. “Then he got quiet.”

She claims she never had romantic feelings for Bryant until after her big day. Picture: Kennedy News and Media

Following her big day of festivities, she hoped she’d “misinterpreted” Bryant’s declaration of love and tried sweep it “under the carpet”.

“I’m sure it was because he was really drunk and lonely,” she recalled thinking to herself at the time.

“I knew, up to this point, that he had girlfriends that weren’t working out and he was kind of the third wheel.”

However, less than a year later, when her marriage began to crumble because her then-husband had adopted what she called “a totally different lifestyle,” Desiree’s relationship with Bryant took a sudden romantic turn.

“When [my ex and I] broke up and divorced, I went through a depression and was really secluded myself. I just didn’t want to make an effort for anything,” she said, noting Bryant showered her with emotional support during the separation.

“He’d ask me to eat with him or hang out and watch a show. He was trying to be there for me.”

Then, to her surprise: “Bryant and I just kissed one day when we were hanging out.”

“It was out of nowhere. When he kissed me, I didn’t stop it, then I kissed him back,” she said.

“I was shocked that it was a good kiss. It felt good and natural.”

The couple got together after Desiree’s first marriage fell apart. Picture: Kennedy News and Media

Almost immediately, the friends became lovers. And, within a year, she became pregnant with their first son, Sawyer, who’s now 9, and the couple got married in 2012.

“[Bryant] said, ‘I always wanted to marry you and this isn’t because of the baby, but let’s start this family right’,” she explained.

“We were always friends but when we were together [romantically], it was like nothing was hard to do anymore knowing we had each other.”

Now a mother to her and Bryant’s four boys, Desiree said she’s living the dream.

“We love being parents. Twenty-year-old Desiree wouldn’t think she could be a mum-of-four kids,” she proclaimed.

“She couldn’t imagine this is what my life would be like now.”

Desiree first shared her story on TikTok where it quickly went viral, many declaring the story was hard to believe.

“This is for real,” she told one commenter. “It’s my real life.”