Sydney escort reveals why her married clients are paying for sex

A Sydney sex worker has opened up about the surprising reasons why so many married men are paying for her services.

An Australian escort has opened up about why so many married men are paying her for sex.

Sydney sex worker Bianca Seirra went viral on TikTok after sharing some of the most common reasons that men with wives and children choose to see her.

The 30-year-old captioned the clip with “What your husbands have taught me” before diving into all of the things she has learnt from sleeping with other women’s husbands.

Her first statement surprised some of her followers, when she told them that they can “do better”.

“You can do better. He can do more for you, he is just doing it with other women,” she began.

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Bianca says it is ‘the hunt’ that men are lusting after. Picture: Instagram/@biancaseirra__

She says usually the men who see her are the ‘irresponsible’ parent. Picture: Instagram/@biancaseirra__

“You let him be comfortable. He loves the kids, and he doesn’t want the kids taken away.

“That’s one of the main reasons why he’s staying. 9 times out of 10, they’re the ‘irresponsible parent’ and you’re the responsible one.

“They do love you, but with conditions.

“Not all men cheat. The majority of men have fantasised about it, but there is a percentage that they know it’s not worth it.

“It’s the hunt that they want, not the catch, and they’ve already caught you. That’s why they’re hunting. If they couldn’t pay for it, they wouldn’t get it. They think that everyone wants them, they don’t.”

She went on to clarify that her sleeping with people’s significant others had absolutely nothing do with “wanting them” – it is purely a business arrangement.

“I don’t want your man. I do want his money. You can do better,” she said.

She says the men that see her are ‘scared’ of communication. Picture: Instagram/@biancaseirra__

She believes married fathers love their kids, and that is why they stay. Picture: Instagram/@biancaseirra__

“These men are scared to communicate and say exactly what it is they want. They’re little boys. If they do leave you, they’re not leaving you for someone better. They’re leaving you for someone easier.

“I’m easy. You pay me and I am yours. There is no work to be done.”

She added that many men seek time with her for “validation”.

“Some are very lovely and have big hearts. Pretty much the majority of them have mental illness,” she explained.

“Sleeping with a younger, hotter, woman is a way of validating themselves when they really could just go home to you and communicate.

“They think their woman won’t leave them. They do. They should.

“If you feel like they’re cheating, they’re cheating. If you feel like they’re lying about something, they’re lying about something.

She says while not all men cheat, many have fantasised about it. Picture: TikTok/bondibrat

She says most men love their wives, but ‘with conditions’. Picture: Instagram/@biancaseirra__

“If you can’t talk to your partner about these things, are they really your partner?

“Women rule the world. Without us there would be nothing, and they know that. And that’s why they lie, manipulate, cheat, gaslight and love bomb.

“They need to keep you at bay, from reaching your full potential which is leaving them.”

Bianca’s video has since racked up a whopping 5.7 million views.

She appears to have a bruised face in the TikTok, which she stated was due to an incident at the gym with a barbell.

Bianca made a follow up clip that delved deeper into what she believes are some of the reasoning behind why husbands pay for sex.

“He justifies as ‘not cheating’ because he is paying for it. He believes it genuinely helps the relationship,” she said.

The escort says many of her clients are married family men. Picture: Instagram/@biancaseirra__

She said the men who see her often seek ‘validation’. Picture: TikTok/Bondi Brat

“Men constantly underestimate women and what they’re willing to do to make their husband happy. Men hold a lot of resentment to their partner for not being the woman they were when they got together.

“Without taking any accountability for the fact they stopped treating them the way they did when they were trying to win their hearts.

“Sometimes it’s not that deep, sometimes men just want variety. Men and women are built different.

“The way men and women view sexual encounters are very different.

“Men hold no emotion, women do. This is why men can cheat so easily without holding any guilt until they get caught.

“Sometimes they just want someone to talk to, it’s not always about sex.”