Single mum ‘sl*t-shamed’ for sex brag men make all the time

It’s a detail men share all the time, and are even commended for it, but this woman copped vile abuse from the opposite sex when she did it.

A single mum claims she’s been “sl*t-shamed” online after boasting about how many men she’s bedded – a brag the opposite sex make all the time without consequence.

Emily Deeley said she’s become the target of trolls after revealing her “body count” and declaring sex is the “most important” thing in her life.

But the British woman, who works as a relationship coach, is refusing to back down from her belief – with followers pointing out the sexual double standards that exist between men and women in response.

“I have had people call me a sl*t, a wh*re and even go as far as saying I am an awful mother and social services should be called on my kids,” the 27-year-old explained.

Emily Deeley said she was ‘sl*t-shamed’ for revealing how many men she has bedded. Picture: Jam Press

Deeley, who regularly shares sex tips and advice on TikTok, claims her critics are “close-minded” and “stuck in their ways”.

“Sex isn’t dirty and can be fun with whoever you like,” she declared.

“It is the most natural thing a human can do.”

However, most of Deeley’s advice is pretty controversial, prompting many to question its legitimacy.

In a recent clip, the coach told her 77,800 followers that women shouldn’t be worried if a man has slept with 1000 women, describing it as “normal”.

“It’s very normal for a man’s body count to be significantly higher than the woman’s,” she claimed.

“Don’t worry, even if it’s like 1000 people, it’s normal.

“You should be more worried if it’s like under 20, because that guy clearly can’t get lucky, so I’d question what’s wrong with him.”

In the comments section under the video which was made with a young child sitting on her lap, Deeley disclosed her own body count, claiming it was around “60 or 70”.

The British mum-of-two is a self-proclaimed dating coach who shares controversial opinions online. Picture: Jam Press

Another time, the self-proclaimed “dating and intimacy guru” also elaborated on her out-there beliefs that sleeping with an escort does not constitute cheating.

“When a man or woman pays for sex, there is no emotional connection involved,” she explained. “There is no messaging, sneaky emails or phone calls.

“It’s simply a person paying for a service to ensure their needs are met – it’s essential.”

The dating coach claimed couples should be honest with one another about their needs and advises that they constantly communicate about their desires.

“People change and we’re not the same person at 25 as we are at 55,” she explained, saying some people might turn to paid sex to have their needs met.

“Honesty is the key to a long-lasting relationship.”

Deeley is a mum to a five-year-old and an 11-month-old and has no qualms about taking her kids on dates with her.

“Many men don’t want to get involved in a relationship with a single mum, as it comes with ‘baggage’ and responsibility,” she explained. “If I went on a date without them, it would be romantic and delightful for sure – but it’s fake reality.

“My world is focused on them and as I get older, I will get a nanny or babysitter, but I don’t want to be on a date worrying about them,” the coach added.

“If they are with me, I feel safe and secure.”

She believes it’s ‘normal’ for men to have a high body count. Picture: Jam Press

And regularly tackles other hot relationship topics on her socials. Picture: Jam Press

She advises other single mamas to also take their kids on dates, saying the man’s reaction might prove to be a good indicator of things to come.

“How gentle and loving he is with a child may show how much of an in-tune lover he is in the bedroom,” she said.

Despite earning money as a relationship coach, Deeley has failed to find her own Mr. Right, revealing dating has been “hard” for her.

“I do think that dating is very difficult, as I’m a tall woman with high standards and I want a man who is attractive, educated and intelligent, which is hard to come by,” she stated.

But she refuses to lower her standards or downplay the importance of good sex.

“I think people need to understand that sex sells and no one should ever be shamed upon anyone for what they do or what they like in the bedroom,” Deeley declared.