Meghan Markle’s moment with aide during royal walkabout divides internet

A moment showing Meghan Markle talking to an aide has divided the internet, with some accusing the duchess of appearing “passive aggressive”.

Meghan Markle’s encounter with a royal aide during the royals’ walkabout at the weekend has sparked fierce debate on social media, with some accusing her of seeming “passive aggressive”.

The 41-year-old Duchess of Sussex made a surprise show of unity alongside Prince Harry, Prince William and Kate Middleton to meet mourning fans outside Windsor Castle on Sunday after the Queen’s death, marking their first public appearance together in over two years.

One moment in particular showing Meghan’s conversation with an unidentified male aide is attracting millions of views on Twitter, and it certainly has punters divided.

What was this exchange 😬 pic.twitter.com/3EVJ7l39aP

— á—°Iᖇᗩᗷᗴᒪᒪᗩ (@RockkSteady) September 10, 2022

Some accused the mother-of-two of being “rude” to the aide, who was trying to relieve her from carrying bouquets of flowers, until she noticed she was being filmed.

“She was rude to the aide when he went to take her flowers and she wanted to hold onto them for a PR stunt later. In mid sentence she saw the camera and put on her phony thank you, I appreciate it act,” one user wrote.

“She was unnecessarily rude. His job was to relieve them of their bouquets so they could shake hands, etc. and there was a woman doing the same. I don’t think he went near her again,” another added.

A third said, “Who needs to read the bullying report when you can watch footage like this? Now imagine her behavior (sic) behind closed doors.”

The big guns had to step in when Meghan refused to let go of the flowers the first aide tried to take from her as she herself wanted to walk them over to the other tributes. #meghanmarklepic.twitter.com/Sqx9qq6w2Z

— squishyhugz (@squishyhugz) September 11, 2022

The protocol is the aides take anything and place said items. She will have been forewarned about protocol, as it turned out she said she would personally place the flowers for the person. She however should not have spoken to the aide in a dismissive way.

— Mookie 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 (@Mookie2064) September 11, 2022

She wanted to Hang onto the bouquet to make it look like they were personally for her, I expect, so declined the offer from staff to take them

— Lou Giddens (@G1dds) September 11, 2022

Others leapt to Meghan’s defence, arguing she said to the aide, “I told them (the fans) I’d place them over there. Thank you. I appreciate it though.”

princess meghan calmly and politely saying “i told them i would place them over there, so you’re good! thank you, i appreciate that” to a royal aide. pic.twitter.com/Fb9keHdWhE

— The Memes Archive (@TheMemesArchive) September 11, 2022

I see the Meghan haters out in force. She can’t even take a bunch of flowers, say no thank you to an aide who trying to take the flowers without peoples screeching she’s a bully. https://t.co/x1qu11gLjM

— Kelly Stuart (@Denton83) September 11, 2022

would you rather have an aide or #meghan put your flowers at the gate for you?

it's exactly what Diana would have done.

she showed up, knowing no matter what she does there is NO WAY she'll get it right & will be vilified for her every gesture.

she may as well do as she likes. https://t.co/TTXAfmJlMZ

— die pussycat die (@diekittydie1) September 11, 2022

Given highly-publicised frosty relations between the once-close brothers and their wives, naturally, every single moment from the rare outing is being pored over by fans eager to get an insight into their current dynamic.

In another awkward encounter to emerge from the reunion, the newly-minted Prince and Princess of Wales convened at their car with Harry and Meghan to wave goodbye to the crowds.

Eagle-eyed fans have noticed William saying something inaudible to Meghan, which appears to make her uncomfortable.

One Twitter user believes she can hear the Prince saying, “Stand back from me”, however, others argue he clearly says, “Wave with me.”

Listen closely & you'll hear it.
If PW was simply telling them to "wave" it wouldn't have caused such a reaction from Meghan, he was looking only at her.
That & she shouldn't have been standing front and forward overshadowing the future king as he addressed the crowd at the end. pic.twitter.com/HNaCcvyVa9

— Rebecca Ann (@BecksOfBucks) September 11, 2022

I think he says “wave back” or “wave now” it’s hard to tell and it’s quick

— Duck Sandman (@DuckSandman) September 10, 2022

While all eyes were understandably on Meghan, who has been outspoken about her time in the British royal family since moving to the US two years ago, William has also not escaped criticism.

Social media users erupted at the Prince of Wales, the next royal to inherit the crown, for his apparent lack of chivalry with Kate, a stark contrast to Harry’s clear show of devotion to his wife.

In the viral footage, Prince Harry can be seen ushering his wife to their shared car after the walkabout, attentively opening and closing the door for her, while the Prince and Princess of Wales separately enter the car.

Fans eviscerated the elder monarch, with one Twitter user simply writing, “Harry holds the car door open for his wife. Makes sure she’s safe. Wills does not. Case closed.”

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The Prince and Princess of Wales reunited with Harry and Meghan at the weekend. Picture: Chris Jackson / POOL / AFP

Several users reflected on the incident, drawing comparisons between William and his father, King Charles III, with Harry and his mother, the late Diana.

One user wrote, “Harry is a gentleman. William however acts like his father.” Another person added, “Harry is a true king and son of Diana. Look how he cares for his wife.”

Another Twitter user said, “One thing is for sure: He is not going to treat his wife like his father did his mother. That’s what the British public don’t get. He opened the door for his wife on his own accord, and his wife responded by saying thank you. That’s mutual respect.”

It’s likely not the last time the former “fab four” will convene, with the Queen’s funeral set to take place on September 19 and the Sussexes expected to remain in the UK until then.