Designer Pip Edwards reveals the challenges of being a single working mum

The on-off partner of cricketer Michael Clarke reveals how she built her global fitness wear empire after learning to back herself.

Designer Pip Edwards has revealed how she felt judged as a single working mum before learning to block out criticism and the expectations of other people.

The entrepreneur, who created the global multimillion-dollar brand P.E Nation five years ago, credits being a mother to teen son Justice as her greatest achievement but says feeling conflicted about work and family was tough in the early days.

Edwards, who began dating former cricketer Michael Clarke in 2019 until splitting recently, tells Powerful Stories podcast host Tory Archbold that she sympathises with other mums who struggle.

“I felt that a lot in the earlier years,” Pip says. “I felt confused, I felt conflicted. I don’t know, because I know I’ve achieved what I’ve wanted to. My son has a great education, a roof over his head. He’s got a beautiful extended family. I just know there are other mothers out there, or whatever the judgment is, how hard it is on the other side too.”

Edwards, whose signature Lycra outfits are beloved by celebrities including the Kardashians, says her strong work ethic has helped rather than hindered her relationship with her son.

She tells the podcast: “As long as he’s okay, he’s happy, he’s healthy, he’s sorted. He’s got a structure around him that he’s safe with, I can come and go, tap in and out. He understands.

“I’ve taken him on the journey, though. I work a lot, I work long hours, I work hard. He sees that. He knows why, and he sees the results, and he knows that I do it on my own.

“I’m super vocal and communicate about that. Which, I don’t know, some people probably disagree, but he’s very well aware of everything that goes on, and I like that, because now he’s 15, and there’s no questions.”

Edwards, 41, also reveals how she was destined for a career in finance after following in the footsteps of her parents but eventually left a job with PricewaterhouseCoopers to pursue her fashion dream.

She says: “I think back to my first transition of leaving … that was a massive jump outside of my box but I was following that path of authenticity, and each jump, each change that I’ve made, has further drilled into who I am.

“Academic achievements were really big on my parents’ checklists, so I definitely was living through a part of their dream or their destiny. I’m super disciplined and I quite like academic achievement.

“That’s quite in line with my brain, but my expression is very loud and flamboyant and gregarious. I think putting myself into a corporate sphere was quite interesting, because I’d still always have a fluoro orange suit, or I’d express myself through my hair.”

Pip Edwards reveals more about her life on PowerfulStories.

With her business booming globally, Edward shares her tips for building confidence and integrity:

FIND YOUR OWN VALUES AND STICK TO THEM

I’m starting to really be aligned with my own values, and my own rules to life. That is not the noise of others.

For a long time, I took on everyone else’s noise, everyone else’s expectations. I could … appease everyone else, except (I) didn’t know what I stood for.

Now I know. The most important thing for me is to keep that alignment, to keep in my body, and to stay connected to my gut. The decisions that I make from there can make things happen like this.

When the decisions come from my head that are trying to balance out pros and cons of everyone else’s noise, the confusion is so great. But that truth, when it’s aligned, is a no-brainer.

Pip Edwards and Michael Clarke as seen on Instagram.

ASK FOR HELP

I have parents that help with the admin. And obviously, you have staff to help with the admin on the other side, but it doesn’t dissipate the pressure or the challenge, or the fact that you’re required to be in five places at the same time.

Or everything’s urgent, and everything needs your attention, and then there’s no time to breathe.

BE THE SOLUTION

It’s hard in business. I mean, you’ve got to learn from mistakes. You do have to look at that, but my thing is, never be about the problem or the obstacle, and be about the solution. There’s always a solution. I’ll get around any problem. Here’s a problem, but the opportunity is this. Let’s go do it this way. And if it doesn’t work that way, let’s go this way.

You’re always moving. I don’t think you should ever be static. You should never go backwards, don’t look backwards but (use a) fresh lens. Be on the move, because that energy creates new energy.

You need the problem to find a new opportunity, a new path, a new revenue stream, a new product, a new this, a new that. If we didn’t have problems, we wouldn’t progress.

Designer Pip Edwards focuses on solutions. Picture: Getty Images

RESULTS

Edwards credits Archbold, an entrepreneur and business coach, with being able to tell her story: “I respect you, and your powerful story. Women that understand the journey, respect the hustle, and are proud and encourage more,” she says.

The podcast drops two episodes a week featuring entrepreneurs, chief executives media stars and influencers, with exclusive access to their highs and lows, misses and wins.

Powerful Stories hosted by Tory Archbold powerful-steps.com/powerful-stories/podcasts