Sexologist’s advice to women: Mix it up and challenge expectations

VARIETY is the spice of dating life, believes renowned sexologist Dr Nikki Goldstein.

VARIETY is the spice of dating life, believes renowned sexologist Dr Nikki Goldstein.

The candid expert thinks women need to challenge the boundaries of traditional courtship to discover what they really want, beyond the trappings of social expectation.

“Women need to take the time to experiment and ­explore,” Dr Goldstein said.

“Date different men, have sex with different men.”

With the release of her first book #singlebutdating: 10 Steps to a More Dateable You, Dr Goldstein encourages women to educate themselves by breaking down their own preconceptions: “Find out what you actually want so that when you get into a relationship it’s based on these internal wants and desires and not from this world around you that tells you what you should do.”

In a world dominated by technology, Dr Goldstein provides ample advice for how to avoid the pitfalls and maximise its dating potential — and how to take the perfect nude selfie.

In an age of female empowerment, Dr Goldstein believes women have never had a better opportunity to cast their eye over the vast horizon.

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“No one teaches you how to be in a relationship or how to date so it’s very much guided by tradition — tradition which we often don’t challenge,” she says.

“I still believe in getting married but how we get into those relationships is what we need to redefine.”