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Good Weekend's Two of Us: the best of 2019
The Two of Us has been a weekly presence in Good Weekend for almost 30 years. This is a selection of the best and most thought-provoking columns of 2019, relationships that underline the pain and joy of human connection.
When a tumour claimed Jarrah's remaining eye, Mathilde became his sight at school.
Mathilde Cross has been Jarrah Podesta’s eyes at school since he lost his sight in 2018. Friends for three years, the 11-year-olds share a love of Harry Potter, history and hidden passageways. By Melissa Fyfe
The pair who have cleaned every prime minister's office since Bob Hawke
Angolan-born Luzia Borges (left), 61, and Croatian-born Anna Jancevski, 70, have worked together at Parliament House in Canberra for 30 years. By Jane Cadzow
Queue love: a smile, a note and a little frisson goes a long way
Five years ago, high school teacher Richard Wheeldon, 41, exchanged a smile with designer Haline Ly, 38, in a supermarket queue. He slipped her a note; they met up that night. They are now married and have two children. By Jane Albert
'People gravitate towards Rob, he teaches you what’s important in life'
Carpenter Rob Dettmann (left), 49, is one of Australia’s oldest living survivors of cystic fibrosis. He has been a firm friend and inspiration to commercial pilot Duncan Overton, 49, since they met in high school. By Tim Elliott
How pyjama king Peter Alexander and his mum built an empire from their kitchen table
Pyjama king Peter Alexander, 55, gave his mother, Julette, 81, her first paid job when she was 50, and together they built a thriving company from their kitchen table. She has been his lifelong champion and protector. By Susan Horsburgh
Mark and Briony Scott: on a learning curve - just don’t mention NAPLAN
Mark Scott, 56, is the NSW Department of Education secretary and former ABC boss. Briony Scott, 55, his wife, is the principal of Wenona private school for girls. They've grown up together after meeting at university. By Jordan Baker
'Dot was drinking a beer and doing a crossword. I thought, there’s a woman after my own heart!'
Registered nurse Tim Castley, 54, met war widow and former switchboard operator Dot Sullivan, 101, eight years ago. They bonded over a love of crosswords, getting together every Monday evening to decode that day’s puzzle. By Tim Elliott
Two of us with Wendy Whiteley and Anna Schwartz: 'She’s basically an anarchist and so am I'
Sydney-based gardener Wendy Whiteley (left), 78, and Melbourne gallery owner Anna Schwartz, 68, have been friends for 50 years. And while stylish and glamorous, they are most comfortable around each other in their jammies. By Nicole Abadee
Captain’s Choice's Lou and Rob Tandy: 'We’ve felt like equal partners from early on'
Lou and Rob Tandy, the 41-year-old co-owners of luxury tour company Captain’s Choice, share three children and a love of daggy dancing. Via feminist books and a bit of argy-bargy, the Melbourne couple has forged an equal partnership. By Susan Horsburgh
Strangers Karen and Connie were told their time was nearly up. Then a donor gave them both a second chance
In 2017, Karen Carey, 57, then in end-stage heart failure, and cystic fibrosis sufferer Connie Severino, 42, were told their time was almost up. Then a heart was found for Karen, and lungs for Connie – from the same donor. By Amanda Hooton
When a retiree and a school principal met, it changed lives young and old
Bored in early retirement, Steve Botond, 70, got a new lease of life when he took up a job as a “lollipop man” at Melbourne’s St Kilda Primary. For school principal Sue Higgins, 58, Steve’s warmth and zeal have been a godsend. By Dani Valent
Two of Us: 'To be in Kylie's orbit is like being in a tsunami of love'
Chef Kylie Kwong, 50, has run Sydney restaurant Billy Kwong for two decades, and plans to open a new eatery later this year. Buddhist faith helped Kwong and her wife, the artist known as Nell, 44, endure the loss of their baby. By Nicole Abadee
Christian and Summer met while editing porn. Then his debut novel upended their marriage
Writer Christian White, 38, and filmmaker Summer DeRoche, 35, met while editing porn. For years, the aspiring artists scraped by working odd jobs until his bestselling debut novel upended their relationship. By Susan Horsburgh
Two of Us with Dion Lee: 'I considered quitting ... I wouldn't be where I am without mum'
Special education adviser Helen Lee, 66, has played a pivotal role in the career of her son, New York City-based fashion designer Dion Lee, 33, supporting him through the stresses of his work and helping him find his keys. By Jane Albert
How Gerard and Genevieve are challenging the film industry
Actor Gerard O'Dwyer, 34, and Bus Stop Films CEO Genevieve Clay-Smith, 30, became firm friends when their first collaboration won at Tropfest. He's encouraged her to loosen up; she's taught him how to love the camera. By Nicole Partridge
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