Not everyone finds exercise rewarding. Here’s how to make it more tolerable

We’ve all encountered that person who comes back from the gym or a run seemingly high on life. In fact, scientists say that even a single bout of exercise can alter your neurochemistry in ways that create feelings of hope, calm, connection and a generally better mood.

But for others, a workout just leaves them feeling worn out.

“It’s normal not to find exercise rewarding,” says Daniel Lieberman, an evolutionary biologist at Harvard University. “There’s nothing wrong with you.”

While some people are simply more genetically or psychologically inclined to enjoy exercise, recent discoveries have helped experts understand why it can be such a high. And, they say, by making a few changes to your workout, you can train your body and mind to find exercise more pleasurable.

It’s normal for the first 20 to 30 minutes of exercise to feel like a slog, but there are ways you can make it more enjoyable.Credit: iStock

It’s not just about endorphins

Scientists once thought the rush people felt from exercise came exclusively from endorphins, which act like natural opioids in the brain by relieving pain. But in recent decades, researchers have discovered a more complex cocktail of other key “feel-good” chemicals produced during movement.

Each ingredient plays a distinct but complementary role, says Julia Basso, an assistant professor at Virginia Tech who runs a lab studying the effects of exercise on the brain.

The most potent players appear to be endocannabinoids, which share similar molecular structure with THC, and bind to the same receptors in the brain – giving you that buzzy feeling that all is right in the world.

Exercise also triggers dopamine, a much-debated neurotransmitter that creates a feeling of reward, and conditions you to pursue that reward. It’s one reason people get hooked on exercise, Basso says.

Physical activity also spurs the release of serotonin, which helps you to feel focused and calm. And most recently, scientists have discovered another chemical at play: oxytocin, a hormone that helps you bond with other people and feel a sense of social connection.

Lieberman theorises the body evolved to respond to physical activity in this way partly to help early humans endure hours of gathering and hunting food for their survival.

How can you get the biggest mood boost from exercise?

Get your heart rate up for at least 30 minutes

It’s normal for the first 20 to 30 minutes of exercise to feel like a slog, whether you’re new to it or an elite athlete, according to experts.

That’s because it seems to take at least 20 minutes of moderate aerobic activity for the endocannabinoid system to kick in and start to lift your mood. The health psychologist Kelly McGonigal calls this response to staying the course the “persistence high”.

The longer you’re able to sustain an aerobic workout at a moderate level of intensity – one in which you could carry on a conversation without becoming winded – the more your endocannabinoids will be flowing, and the higher your boost will be.

Exercising with other people can increase your oxytocin boost.Credit: iStock

Give yourself at least three weeks

Just as your muscles require time to build, your brain takes time to develop a robust dopamine reward system for exercising. And the less physically active you are, the less responsive this dopamine system will be.

Research suggests that, if you haven’t been active in a while, it takes about three weeks of consistent exercise before it starts to feel rewarding. That said, depending on your individual fitness level and neurochemistry, it could take shorter or longer; so if you don’t feel a kind of magical pull toward exercise after a month, don’t despair and keep going.

Make it social

When you exercise with friends or in groups, you will set yourself up to get twice the oxytocin boost, first from the physical activity itself, then from the social interaction.

The flood of oxytocin may be responsible for the powerful social connection that some people experience when moving in unison with others – our brains can be tricked into a feeling of personal boundaries dissolving, Basso says.

Mix things up

While moderately to vigorously intense aerobic workouts seem to be most effective at triggering a natural high, nearly every type of exercise benefits mood, says Ben Singh, an exercise physiologist and research fellow at the University of South Australia who, in 2023, published a large review of exercise and mental health studies.

Different types of workouts – aerobic, resistance and mindfulness practices such as yoga – release different combinations of mood-enhancing chemicals, and collectively, prime the brain to reap greater rewards.

To set yourself up for success, shop around until you find activities you find fun or rewarding – or at least don’t hate, says Cassandra Vieten, a clinical professor of psychology.

“Track your mood and how much you like something,” she says, “and see if you can rotate different types of exercise until you find the one you love.”

The New York Times

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