Teacher posts epic rant about parents who ‘coddle and enable’ kids, then quits

"Parents have become far too disrespectful and their children are even worse," the woman wrote alongside photos of her classroom in disarray.

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July 4, 2023 - 1:35PM

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Teaching is a thankless job, says sixth-grade teacher, Julie Marburger.

So, she made the decision to quit at the end of the year.

There are many factors influencing her decision, many of which are universal to teachers - reckless student behaviour, the never-ending administrative load and the insane workload more broadly.

But a recent incident pushed her to breaking point and left her wondering if she’d be able to see the rest of the year through.

She posted about it in a rant to Facebook, accompanied by photos of her classroom in disarray with broken bookshelves, books with their covers torn off, tech thrown on the floor and chewed-up gum stuck to a window.

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"I have had enough"

It read: “I left work early today after an incident with a parent left me unable emotionally to continue for the day. I have already made the decision to leave teaching at the end of this year, and today, I don't know if I will make it even that long. Parents have become far too disrespectful, and their children are even worse. Administration always seems to err on the side of keeping the parent happy, which leaves me with no way to do the job I was hired to do...teach kids.

"I am including photos that I took in my classroom over the past two days. This is how my classroom regularly looks after my students spend all day there. Keep in mind that many of the items damaged or destroyed by my students are my personal possessions or I purchased myself, because I have NO classroom budget. I have finally had enough of the disregard for personal and school property and am drawing a line in the sand on a myriad of behaviours that I am through tolerating. Unfortunately, one parent today thought it was wrong of me to hold her son accountable for his behaviour and decided to very rudely tell me so, in front of her son.

"Report cards come out later this week, and I have nearly half of my students failing due to multiple (eight-ten) missing assignments. Most of these students and their parents haven't seemed to care about this over the past three months, though weekly reports go out, emails have been sent and phone calls have been attempted. But now I'm probably going to spend my entire week next week fielding calls and emails from irate parents, wanting to know why I failed their kid. My administrator will demand an explanation of why I let so many fail without giving them support, even though I've done practically everything short of doing the work for them. And behaviour in my class will deteriorate even more. I am expecting this, because it is what has happened at the end of every other term thus far.

Image: Facebook

"I have never heard of a profession where people put so much of their heart and soul into their job, taking time and resources from their home and family, and getting paid such an insultingly measly amount. Teachers are some of the most kind and giving people I have ever met, yet they get treated so disrespectfully from all sides. Most parents can't stand to spend more than a couple hours a day with their kid, but we spend eight with yours and 140 others just like him. Is it too much to ask for a little common courtesy and civil conversation?

"It has been a dream of mine for as long as I can remember to have a classroom of my own, and now my heart is broken to have become so disillusioned in these short two years. This is almost all I hear from other teachers as well, and they are leaving the profession in droves. There is going to be a teacher crisis in this country before too many more years has passed unless the abuse of teachers stops.

"People absolutely HAVE to stop coddling and enabling their children. It's a problem that's going to spread through our society like wildfire. It's not fair to society, and more importantly, is not fair to the children to teach them this is okay. It will not serve them towards a successful and happy life.

"Many will say I shouldn't be posting such things on social media...that I should promote education and be positive. But I don't care anymore. Any passion for this work I once had has been wrung completely out of me. Maybe I can be the voice of reason. THIS HAS TO STOP."

Image: Facebook

"I won't be abused by some snotty-nosed kid and their helicopter parent"

Before she deleted her post, over 350,000 people shared it and even more commented.

"This is exactly why my wife walked away from finishing her teaching degree. You'll have my respect if you take a stand and tell your administration that you aren't coming back tomorrow or ever again. Someone has to draw the line and start making the statement that spineless administrators are going to have to stop kissing entitled parents' asses," said one.

Another wrote: “I'm with you girl. You read my mind. I was in the exact same shoes yesterday. I left in tears too and most kids saw me. Many of them were sympathetic but some cheered and said they were happy I was leaving as I walked by crying.”

“I taught years ago and quickly learnt that the parents were the biggest problem,” claimed someone else.

Then this teacher shared, “Like you, I love teaching and am good at it. But I won’t be abused by some snotty-nosed kid and their helicopter parent just because the kid can’t behave or do their school work. I’m sorry this has hurt you so much.”

Then one concluded: “I’m going to write to my kids’ teacher right now and ask her if she needs anything. Teachers need our support and respect. As a former teacher, I know what it’s like.”