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Why this man believes that ‘women shouldn’t work’

A man who has a podcast called ‘make me a sandwich’ has sparked outrage after sharing some of his controversial views on women.

Man angers women everywhere with three words

A man has angered women everywhere with three simple words.

Self-proclaimed “dating expert” and “attraction coach” Dan McNamara has gone viral after sharing his controversial opinion that “women shouldn’t work” because of their biology.

Dan, who also has a podcast called Make Me A Sandwich, stated that women are happiest when they are “completely dependent on a man”.

He added that he believes females are “specifically designed” to be dependant and are “not meant” to work but instead should be looking after things at home.

Dan believes that women should not work due to their biology. Picture: Instagram / @dm.dating
Dan believes that women should not work due to their biology. Picture: Instagram / @dm.dating

“A woman is living her ideal life when she is completely dependant on a man,” Dan, from Florida, USA, starts the clip.

“I am going to say this as clearly as I can. All any woman wants in life is to be at home, taking care of herself, her kids and her environment.

“Women are not meant to work. Literally, hormonally, they are not meant to.

“Their bodies don’t handle stress the way a man’s does. Their fertility and overall femineity are much more severely impacted by that stress.

“But what are they told? They’re just like men. So they take on the stress of a career, they take synethic hormones that f**k up the essence of their feminity just so they can be sexually liberated.

“They actively pursue independence when they are specifically designed to be dependant.”

He ended the clip by applauding women for being a “precious resource” and added that they “should be proud” of being dependant.

He says that women are "happiest" when they are at home. Picture: Instagram / @dm.dating
He says that women are "happiest" when they are at home. Picture: Instagram / @dm.dating

“Here is the saddest part. Most women hear that and find it offensive because society tells them it is,” he said.

“But in reality, women are a precious resource that provides a life and they should be proud of being protected and dependant.

“Men are disposable, women are not. And the fact that they have been convinced that they are is an absolute catastrophe.”

The controversial clip has racked up more than a million views and thousands of comments, with many furious men and women expressing their disbelief and disgust.

“Young girls listen up, this is how financial abuse starts,” said one.

“I love that a man is telling women what we want in life, what offends them, and how stress impacts a body he doesn’t have,” another shared.

“What in the 1950s is going in here?” joked one woman.

“Making it sound like this control is for our benefit.”

In another heated video, Dan – who claims he is ️ “defending truth to save the species” – tells his viewers that “women can’t have male friends” and are “not allowed to talk to men anymore” if they are in a relationship.

He also says that women should not have male friends if they are in a relationship. Picture: Instagram / @dm.dating
He also says that women should not have male friends if they are in a relationship. Picture: Instagram / @dm.dating

“If you’re a woman in a relationship, you’re not allowed to talk to men anymore,” he said.

“Your fathers, your brothers, your uncles, your cousins. They’re all fine.

“Now lets get more specific. Have you slept with this guy before? If the answer is yes, no more communication, literally never.

“What about guys you work with? Well, are you in a professional setting? If yes, go right ahead.

“But if he’s texting you constantly outside of work or inviting you to non-work activities, your answer is a simple no.”

He added that he does not believe in women having best friends who are male.

“Your male best friend? Guess what, he is not your best friend anymore,” he said.

“You expect your boyfriend to build an emotional connection with you, while you maintain an emotional connection to another man?

“Cut him off. You can say hello when the friend group gets together.

“But the texting stops, the hangouts stop, and he is basically in the same category as an amicable ex-boyfriend.

“We’re not idiots. Either you friend-zoned that guy or that guy friend-zoned you.

“Either way, he is either gunning for my spot or you’re using me as a placeholder.”

He claims to be a "dating expert" and "attraction coach". Picture: Patreon
He claims to be a "dating expert" and "attraction coach". Picture: Patreon

The ‘dating coach’ also claims that mansplaining is something that should be “normalised and “celebrated” while adding that men should “not be nice to women” and that females “like to be put in their place”.

In another explosive video, he attempts to argue why a woman who has had many sexual partners is worse than a man who has slept with many women.

“A woman getting a man to sleep with her is like getting a dog to sit for a treat, it is essentially a guarantee,” he said.

“A man getting a woman to sleep with him required the following. Learning how to approach women, since they will never approach you.

“Learning how to speak to women in a way that makes them respect you. Learning how to seduce women into being comfortable with you emotionally so that they’re willing to submit to you physically.

“Women, when you have sex, you’re just deciding to. When men have sex, they’re earning it.

“The more men you sleep with, the more men you’re saying have earned your body.

“So it’s probably safe to say that your standards are lower the more men you’ve slept with.

“The more women a man has slept with, the more women he has earned sex from and whose standards he has met.

“That is why it is different, it is basic economics.”

His controversial opinions have gone viral on TikTok. Picture: TikTok / @dm.dating
His controversial opinions have gone viral on TikTok. Picture: TikTok / @dm.dating
He has a podcast called "make me a sandwich". Picture: TikTok / @dm.dating
He has a podcast called "make me a sandwich". Picture: TikTok / @dm.dating

Dan currently offers a paid subscription plan to his exclusive podcasts called ‘The DM Dating Brotherhood’, which at the time of writing only has twelve members on patreon.

He also advertises private coaching for men to help them “master their dating lives”.

“I’ve had one goal for a while now: to increase the number of dateable men in the world,” Dan’s profile on Patreon states.

“What is a dateable man? Someone who has full-embraced masculinity and optimised it within themselves.

“A man who is physically formidable, intellectually fierce, loaded with willpower, and always excited to take on challenges and uplift those around them who are struggling

“It has come to my attention during my time as a dating coach that so many men, young and old, have lived their entire lives in the absence of male role models.

“No fathers, no brothers, no coaches, no teachers. At least not ones that cared enough to help guide them from boyhood into manhood.

“Do you want to play your role in bringing masculinity back? Whether it’s as a teacher or a student, join me and start making a difference today.”

Originally published as Why this man believes that ‘women shouldn’t work’

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