‘Heart of gold’: Young woman’s touching tribute to late brother

A courageous Toowoomba woman has opened up about her brother who tragically took his own life. To honour him and raise awareness about suicide prevention, she and her family launched a special event at the weekend.

It started out as a normal day at school for Isabel Barton but November 3, 2016 soon became the most tragic day of her and her family’s lives.

Only 12-years-old at the time, Isabel was in her food technology class, making rocky road with her friends, when she was removed from the classroom.

She was led to her father Jim who was trembling with emotion and crying – Isabel considered the possibilities but soon discovered her older brother Nick Pope had tragically taken his own life.

Isabel Barton on the Hike to Heal scavenger hike. Picture: Nev Madsen

“It’s an interesting time in life as it is because you’re finishing primary school and going into high school,” Isabel said.

“Initially I didn’t really know what was going on and it was completely shocking to have the news relayed to me … I have no recollection of (hearing about) mental health or suicide at that point in my life.”

But from then on, the two topics became prevalent in Isabel’s and her family’s lives.

Passionate about preventing suicide and raising awareness about the support available, the family launched Hike to Heal – a scavenger hike event which also honours Nick’s life.

Addressing the crowd at the event launch at the weekend, Isabel’s message was clear.

“It’s about recognising those people who have passed – they have families, they have names, they have a whole life and their life was valuable,” she said.

“Just because it’s cut short doesn’t mean the impact is not there and it doesn’t mean they didn’t live a beautiful life when they were here.”

While it hasn’t been an easy road for the Barton family since Nick’s passing, Isabel who is now 19, said the support she received from her family, spending time outdoors and being involved in the community were her main coping strategies.

Three years ago, Isabel wrote a short story about her brother’s passing which was published in a book called The Swimmer and Other Stories of Life.

“I don’t know what the last sound my brother heard was … I hope it was peaceful,” an excerpt from her story said.

“My brother’s memory lives on through those who know about him, and I can tell you, he’s worth knowing.

“He has an infectious laugh, one that can light up an entire room … always up for an adventure … he has a heart of gold and a wild spirit … he lives a life of love.”

(from left) Rose Richardson, Isabel Barton and Reuben Richardson on the Hike to Heal scavenger hike. Picture: Nev Madsen

Members of the public will be able to participate in Hike to Heal at Mt Peel or a local park, up until February 26.

This year the event is supporting Momentum Mental Health.

For more information visit hiketoheal.org.au

If you are struggling, please contact Momentum Mental Health on 4632 4688 or Lifeline on 13 11 14.