Woman defends breastfeeding boyfriend in pre-sex ritual

A British couple who indulge in an unusual pre-sex ritual have defended their kinky bedroom habit after copping fierce backlash.

A British mum who lets her fiance drink her breastmilk before having sex has defended their bedroom behaviour, declaring: “We’re not weird”.

Lana Michaels and her partner Shaun claim they’ve never felt closer since taking up the unorthodox habit, which started when Lana revealed she missed breastfeeding after having two kids.

The former teacher, who has an eleven-year-old son and seven-year-old daughter from a previous relationship, says breastfeeding Shawn twice a week is highly erotic.

The couple – who appear in a revealing new British documentary exploring adult breastfeeding – say it is the perfect form of seduction before they have sex, claiming it creates positive “physical energy” between them in the build up sexual intercourse.

Lana Michaels likes to breastfeed her partner Shaun before having sex. Picture: Supplied

And 18 months on after first experimenting with adult breastfeeding, Lana – who met Shawn in 2019 via a Vegan dating app – reveals she is so hooked on it she can’t see them ever giving it up.

“I breastfed my children and I really missed breastfeeding and the feeling of it,” she told The Sun.

“I breastfed my eldest son for eight months and my daughter for two years.

“I don’t want to have another baby and my children are way too old to feed now but I liked the idea of breastfeeding with Shawn.”

Foursome led to new kink

The pair, who refused to reveal their ages, moved to Murcia in Spain just before the pandemic in February 2020. They said they got the idea of breastfeeding before having sex after a foursome with another couple.

“I enjoy breastfeeding him and I like my boobs being fuller and bigger. I’ve gone up from a 34C to a 34D,” she said.

“I feel sexier and more womanly when I have milk in them and we will carry on breastfeeding.”

Shawn said he finds breastfeeding both arousing and relaxing.

“I was breastfed as a baby but now I am an adult, I find it’s relaxing,” he insisted. “It’s also a moment when I crave that physical connection.

“The energy is flowing between us when I breastfeed... it can lead up nicely to sex.”

The couple have defended the act after being labelled ‘weird’. Picture: Supplied

‘We’re not weird’

However the couple claim they have never been trolled for their breastfeeding habit.

“We get really good comments about it,” insisted Lana.

“We don’t like to do it all the time. If you did breastfeeding too much, it would get boring.”

Lana and Shawn told how they also have a cupboard full of sex toys and costumes, which they use for role-play.

“To us, breastfeeding isn’t a big thing. It is one of the many things we do,” Lana explained. “We also like role-play.

“We play a daddy and a girl, a doctor and patient or teacher and student. We also go to swingers’ clubs.”

The couple insist they are not “weird” to enjoy adult breastfeeding.

“We don’t think it is weird and we don’t care if it is not normal,” stressed Shawn.

“If we like it and it makes us happy then that is the main thing. We are happy together. There is a big problem judging other people through one single action.

“I think breastfeeding as adults is still seen as a taboo as we suppose adults should not be doing that.

“They think perhaps it is not necessary, but the milk is really nutritious and it’s made for us. I really like Lana’s milk.”

They claim it has bought them closer together and is the perfect warm up before sex. Picture: Supplied

The couple also hit back at the suggestion breastfeeding should only be for babies.

“There is more negative impact in slaving an animal like a cow than drinking human milk which is made for us,” said Shawn.

“There is no cruelty or pain in adult breastfeeding. She gets pleasure, I get pleasure, and I get nutrition. She is happy, I am happy, so what’s the problem?”

Breast milk is full of nutritional proteins, fats, vitamins and carbohydrates for babies but the benefits for adults are not completely assured, according to the Australian Breastfeeding Association.

X-rated new career

Having moved to Spain to work as teachers in a school, the couple’s plan was thwarted when the country went into lockdown.

They found themselves looking at porn sites and, hooked on their own sex experiments, decided to quit their jobs to launch their own porn firm. They say they haven’t looked back since.

“All of my relationships before Shawn were monogamous and really normal,” Lana said.

“Now I consider them really boring. As soon as I met Shawn, I really liked him.

“We are engaged now and we had an unofficial wedding ceremony which we did ourselves but we hope to get married officially once the Covid pandemic and all the restrictions are over back in the UK.”

Shawn added: “I had monogamous relationships too but when I met Lana, I told her I wanted an open relationship.

“Being loyal to your partner is about keeping a dialogue.”

Lana said her two children are aware they make videos “for adults”, and they will tell them about their breastfeeding habit when they “understand what sex is”.

She also revealed her ex-partner – the father of her two children – is “supportive”.

Lana said their new career has given her a massive confidence boost.

“As a girl, I was really embarrassed about my body and at school, I wouldn’t even get changed in the communal changing rooms, but I now feel a lot more confident.”

This article originally appeared on The Sun and was reproduced with permission

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