Man who got friendzoned by woman sues for $3 million over ‘trauma’

A man is suing a woman who told him she only wanted to be friends for “damaging his stellar reputation”.

A man is suing a woman for more than $2 million because she didn't want to date him, which allegedly "damaged" his "stellar reputation".

Don’t let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game — but also don’t sue if you land in the friend zone.

A man in Singapore filed two lawsuits against a woman who refused to date him — claiming she caused him “emotional trauma” after telling him she wanted to be only friends.

The man — identified as K. Kawshigan — threatened to sue Nora Tan when she rejected him, but initially put the lawsuit on hold after she agreed to attend counselling sessions with him — which she did for a year and a half, according to Singapore news site the Straits Times.

When Tan — who met Kawshigan, a director at drone company D1 Racing, in 2016 — continued to reject his romantic advances and eventually cut contact with him, he filed the two lawsuits.

One suit was filed in a high court with a claim of $3 million, for allegedly causing “damage to his stellar reputation” and “trauma, depression and impacts” to his life.

He filed a second suit with a magistrates’ court, asking for $16,700 in damages for breaching an agreement to improve their relationship after she stopped attending counselling sessions, according to court documents obtained by Channel News Asia.

The latter suit was later dismissed by deputy registrar Lewis Tan, who reportedly called the suit “manifestly groundless and without foundation” and said the court would not be an accessory to Kawshigan’s “calculated attempt to compel engagement” from Tan.

The court ruled that the two had been friendly after meeting in 2016, but their friendship broke down in 2020 after there was some miscommunication about the nature of their relationship — with Kawshigan believing it was romantic.

The man sued because the woman reportedly caused him “trauma” by rejecting his multiple advances. Photo: iStock

While Tan believed they were friends, Kawshigan considered her his “closest friend” and was appalled when she felt the need to step back from their social interactions and encouraged him to be “self-reliant”.

This prompted him to send her a letter alleging “monetary damages arising from negligent infliction of emotional distress and possible defamation” and move forward with the lawsuit.

Tan began a harassment suit against Kawshigan in April last year and stopped attending counselling sessions. In response, Kawshigan continued to contact her, allegedly alluding to the potential suit in text messages. She cut off contact with him completely on May 19.

Kawshigan launched the high court lawsuit against Tan in July, claiming she had told third parties that he had harassed her, which caused damage to his “stellar reputation” as well as “trauma, depression and impacts” to his life.

The now-rejected magistrates’ suit was filed in August.

The judgment, released on Saturday, said Tan, “after years of massaging the claimant’s unhappiness, has finally decided to stand up to his threats rather than cower and give in to his demands”.

The high court suit is set for a case conference on February 9.

This article was originally published by the New York Post and reproduced with permission

Originally published as Man who got friendzoned by woman sues for $3 million over ‘trauma’