Find your Zen, and crush your job interview

The hours before a job interview can feel like torture. Here’s how to arrive calm and centred.

Find offbeat ways to apply some proven stress-relief tactics. Picture: Supplied

The hours before a job interview can feel like torture. How can you spend that time in a way that enables you to arrive calm and centred?

The need for pre-interview stress relievers is rising, as more college students and recent grads apply for serial internships, and more employees interview for internal transfers amid corporate restructuring.

Many of them are finding offbeat ways to apply some proven stress-relief tactics. Here’s a sampling: Embrace empowering rituals Emma Valentiner lays the groundwork for tough interviews by donning what she calls ridiculous underwear. Wearing comfortable briefs adorned with pugs or cactuses makes an invisible fashion statement, lending her a sense of presence and confidence. “It’s like that Mona Lisa smile - a sign that I’m bringing something special to the table,” says Ms Valentiner, a 40-year-old content manager and search-engine optimisation specialist in Houston.

Power stance

At the interview site, she stops by the restroom, steps into a stall and strikes a Superwoman pose. Feet firmly planted, hands on her hips and shoulders back, she breathes deeply for a couple of minutes to fortify her confidence. “I see these as tiny little vibrational reminders that I can do these things, I’ve got this,” she says. “They’re like rituals to prepare yourself.” Warming up your voice is another helpful habit, equipping people to speak in warmer, richer tones during an interview, says Julian Treasure, author of “How to Be Heard.” In one exercise, the speaker imitates a siren by wailing aloud, ranging between high-pitched and low-pitched tones.

Giovanni Gallo uses Mr Treasure’s siren exercise in private before interviews, alternating between what he calls squeals and bellows. “It has the added benefit of making you feel pretty silly, which can work wonders in calming your nerves,” says Mr Gallo, 34, co-CEO of ComplianceLine, a provider of compliance software and services.

Change your mood Sam White wants to avoid going into an interview in a negative frame of mind, thinking, “I’m so nervous. What if this happens? What if that happens?” he says. He evokes a contemplative state of mind instead by arriving early and finding a coffee shop to do breathing exercises and write a gratitude list. “Before asking for more, I think it’s important to remember what’s already great in your life,” says Mr White, 34, a marketing executive from California.

Then he downs a quarter-shot of tequila and chases it with breath mints and seltzer water. It’s just a sip - too small to get him buzzed. But “it’s a little shock of excitement,” sparking invigorating memories of past trips to Mexico, Mr. White says. He also gets fired up with Wu-Tang Clan or other hip-hop artists. He says they get him flowing “with the right amount of swag and introspection.” Physical exercise can also change the way you feel, but building it into interview prep can be tricky. Krystal Covington runs the stairs or does push-ups at home before interviews. “This helps me get some of the jitters out,” says Ms Covington, 34, founder of Women of Denver, a networking group.

Take a walk

She arrives early, parks a ways from the office and takes a walk, repeating to herself, “You’re a great candidate,” she says. If possible, she takes the stairs rather than the elevator -- but only for a maximum of three or four flights. She once ran up six flights for an interview and had to explain why she arrived breathing heavily and a bit winded, Ms Covington says.

She even does isometrics while answering questions, wearing closed-toe shoes so she can squeeze her toes together during anxious moments - such as if a senior executive joins the interview. “Anything to release energy,” she says.

Some researchers say reading fiction can also quiet the mind and improve awareness. Thomas McFeeley brings a book to interviews and arrives early enough to find a place to read. Immersing himself in a few pages of fiction helps him to escape and get into a creative, storytelling state of mind.

Early in his career, the reading calmed him. “I wasn’t so caught up in, am I wearing the right tie? Am I well-dressed? I was less self-conscious, ” says Mr McFeeley, a 47-year-old media-relations director in Chicago.

Quiz yourself

Prepare, prepare, prepare Quizzing yourself before an exam can improve performance, research shows. Before interviewing for a job as an actor at Disney World in Florida, Michael Tessler recorded some likely interview questions so he could practice his answers - with a twist. He recorded the questions imitating the voices of Disney characters Mickey Mouse and Kermit the Frog, throwing in a few queries in the voice of Richard Nixon for good measure.

When the Disney interviewer asked him some of the same questions, he suppressed a chuckle. “I couldn’t shake the sound of Kermit’s voice,” says Mr Tessler, 26, chief executive of Multihouse Entertainment, a Los Angeles startup. “They said after the interview my constant smile was the reason I got the job. Little did they know that was because I saw Richard Milhous Nixon sitting in the interviewer’s chair.” Another confidence-builder is to study the company and the job thoroughly, then clear your mind, Roxana Colorado says.

She makes lists of her skills and examples of what she could offer, to assure herself that she’s a good fit. When her research is done, she clears her mind by binge-watching “Game of Thrones” or another favourite TV series. “I get to think about nothing while enjoying a great show” for a while, says Ms Colorado, founder of Kandula International, a strategic-planning consultant in Miami.

But she avoids the deadly all-nighter. She sets an alarm so she doesn’t lose track of the time. “If not, I’ll stay up all night,” she says.

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