Tributes flow for slain Pellegrini's part-owner Sisto Malaspina

Sisto Malaspina in Pellegrini's in 2010. Credit: Joe Armao

Tributes are flowing for Pellegrini's part-owner Sisto Malaspina, who was killed in the Bourke Street terror attack. Pellegrini's is a Melbourne institution and customers will remember Mr Malaspina as one of the founding fathers of our coffee culture.

Read the tributes or leave your own below:

Your smile and genuine hospitality will remain a part of our wonderful, and unbreakable, city, Sisto. In a world increasingly faceless and insincere, you lit our lives with your humanity. Thank you for making me feel at home every time I walked in. Socrates

Sisto was part of the tapestry that is Melbourne with his wonderful smile and welcoming manner (and let’s not forget those flamboyant cravats!). Let’s rejoice in his life rather than become hateful at this senseless act of violence. RIP Sisto. You will always hold a place in our hearts. Mick Rowan

A lovely smile and a warm greeting always. Wonderful kitchen. Sadly missed. Peter

My sincere condolences to Sisto’s family, friends and colleagues. Every time I went into Pellegrini’s I loved seeing Sisto. He was a very special person and will be deeply missed. He gave me some little plates to take back to work recently. I gave one to a friend and the other one sits at my desk. I will always think of you fondly, Sisto. Thank you for everything you did for people. Kathryn

Simple tribute... name the Lane next to Pellegrinis after him... Sisto Lane. Alex

I was in Pellegrinnis last October & popped in to have an afugato with a friend who had never been there . I was saddened to hear about this murder..& yes I always visit it out of nostalgia, whenever I'm in Melbourne & for the record I have been going to this bar since I was 4 years old..as my father Eduardo Chimirri , as an Italian electrician installed it's first electric espresso machine in Melbourne & many others besides, prior to the 1956 Melbourne Olympic games . It was a Gaggia & looked like the front end of one of those great iconic American cars of the era, with a blue neon light outlining the front. I fell instantly in love with it there & then & there did exist somewhere a B & W photo of me & my father standing at the bar , I standing nonchalantly between his open legs taken by a professional news photographer who worked for the Herald & Sun newspaper. I remember that for many months, later if ever I was asked what I would like as a child I always replied a "Gaggia " I knew Sisto on a nodding basis only he always remembered me, because like him I had the perchance of sometimes wearing a cravat even though my father had worked for the previous owners & he had only purchased the business in 1974, the year that I left Australia for London . This tragedy erodes one more piece of Melbourne's Italian history & I see that Melbournians are giving Sisto the respect that he deserves as a pioneer to the cosmopolitan city that Melbourne has become since my childhood ! Sadly now Melbourne has it's own 9/11 as this fanatic chose his attack day by the English calendar & not The American one! Giorgio Chimirri

I have very fond memories of Pellegrini's from when I first arrived in Melbourne and stayed at a girls' hostel in Spring Street. I think it was the community atmosphere that attracted us - girls from the country homesick for their small communities. Cappuccinos must have been a lot cheaper then because we didn't have two pennies to rub together but we did manage to call in to Pellegrini's from time to time. June Barnes-Rowley

I am so saddened to receive this news. Sisto Malaspina was a friendly, welcoming, motivated host. His personal presence, and the landmark of Pellegrini's itself, gave a distinct and wonderful personality to Melbourne city life. His family, colleagues and patrons will all be in shock at this sudden, dreadful happening. I send condolences to all. Sean Murphy

You will be sadly missed and fondly remembered Sisto. RIP Leon Dowsett, who also provided a tribute in the form of rewritten lyrics to the Cheers theme, Where Everybody Knows Your Name.

TRIBUTE TO A MELBOURNE ICON & HUMAN TREASURE

Making your way in the City of Melbourne,
Takes everything you've got;
Taking a break from all your worries.
Pellegrini’s Espresso Bar, has got the lot and
Sure would help a lot.

Wouldn't you like to get away?

To a place that knows your name.
Where everyone’s a star,
Doesn’t matter who you are.
Sisto Malaspina treated you the Best by far,
Along with his Co-owner friend Mr Pangrazio and staff,
Who treated you as Long loved friends,
When you popped in now and then.
Sisto Malaspina sure was nice, you know;
Yes, Pellegrini’s the place to go

Sometimes you just want to go
Where everybody knows your name, including Sisto Malaspina,
He was always glad you came;

You want to be where you can see,
Everyone's troubles are all the same;
You want to be where everybody knows your name.

Roll out the tributes for Mr Sisto Malaspina, Your coffee and smile were worth getting out of bed;
The mornings won’t be the same;
And you were takin’ too early and that’s a shame,
And all of Melbourne are left with tears in their eyes;

So Rest In Peace
Mr Sisto Malaspina,
Melbourne won’t be the same.
Rest In Peace
Mr Sisto Malaspina,
Because everybody knows your name.

Because there's only one place in the world
Where everybody knows your name,
Pellegrini’s is always glad you came;
You want to go where people know you,
Where People are all the same;
You want to go where everybody knows your name.

So Rest In Peace
Mr Sisto Malaspina,
Melbourne won’t be the same.
Rest In Peace
Mr Sisto Malaspina,
Because everybody knows your name.

Loved the way they never had to record your order but always knew exactly what you spent. Great coffee and simple food that was just perfectly Italian. Loved the apple strudel. Sisto always had an eye for the girls and could always find the Bellas a seat amongst the crowd. Anthony

Federal Opposition Leader Bill Shorten leaves a message in a card outside Pellegrini'si in Bourke Street on Saturday.Credit: AAP

Sisto was a delightful man, warm, cheerful, welcoming and generous man. He will be greatly missed! Deepest condolences to his family and all Melburnians. Lynn Teale

Never got to meet you, Sisto. Sad that I never got that chance. R.I.P. Mario

My wife and I used to frequent Pellegrini's. We would make it a point to have coffee there once or twice a month, over the last forty years. We introduced our son to Sisto, and he later, to his friends from England. Coffee at Pellegrini's will never be the same without Sisto's smile. RIP. Pam and Ivan

I’ll never forget the warmth and welcome I received from Sisto Malaspina when I moved to Melbourne. If I ever felt homesick, I only needed to walk into Pellegrini’s and see his smile. Name not supplied

RIP Sisto. Always went to Pellegrini's when in Melbourne. One true funny nice guy. Phillip Crum Elloy

I have fond memories of Sisto. He was always extremely gracious and friendly. I've been going to Pellegrini's since I was a kid, and I recently took a woman who I support to access the community there. She is legally blind and very hesitant to go to new and unknown places. Sisto came forward and took her by the arm, leading her to her seat, helped her to feel at ease, made sure she was comfortable. When it came time for us to leave, he helped again to guide her to the door, gently, talking to her all the way. My client loved the place, the people, and the care they showed her so much she asked me to take her back. He was a true gentlemen and his kindness and generosity of spirit seemed to come from him effortlessly. Thank you Sisto. Jasmine Corbett

A tribute to Mr Malaspina at Pellegrini's.Credit: AAP

Sisto was just a great guy, always with a smile and a kind word, never in 40 years did I hear him say anything bad about anyone or anything. We will miss you. I'm so sorry Vicki, I'm sure this has left a big hole in your life. Nino and Bev, we grieve with you. Robert and Julien

One of the reasons I got my coffee, the other was the smile and the bit of gossip! Rest in peace Sisto Evelyn

Sisto was a warm and generous host, always ready with a story and a cheeky smile. He had knack for making everyone feel like they were the centre of the universe. That’s why he’s loved by so many. DJ

Thanks to Sisto we have great coffee in Melbourne. Pellegrini brought over the first espresso machine. RIP Sisto Name not specified

I spent just one week in Melbourne visiting my brother & sister in law and had the great fortune and privilege of meeting Mr Sisto Malaspina. He served the best coffee, was generous and kind, but more important, he took the time to connect with everyone who stepped into his cafe. I only knew him for a week and my heart is broken. I can only imagine what a devastating loss this must be for his family and the friends who knew him well. Rest In Peace, and know you have enriched the lives of every person who was lucky enough to meet you. Fernanda Valentino

Members of the public pay their respects.Credit: Timna Jacks

Sisto was always very friendly, welcoming and had time to chat to everyone. A very humble and decent man. Condolences to Sisto’s family and close friends. RIP Sisto. You are a legend and will always be an important part of Melbourne. Andrew Wilson

We visited Pelligrini’s every time we came to Melbourne from Adelaide, Sisto will be sadly missed RIP Name not specified

Sisto, you helped create a little bit of Europe for the immigrants who were craving flavours of home and changed Melbourne's coffee culture for the better! An icon in your industry, You will never be forgotten for your contribution to your community and your beautiful welcoming kindness to all. Dina

Sisto, my heart is broken by the news of your tragic passing. I would walk the rainy streets of Melbourne and arrive at Pellegrini's to your warm welcome. “Ciao Bella!” a bowl of spaghetti, and I was home. You changed my life, and touched the lives and souls of so many. You were there for me in times of sadness and celebration, your generosity, love and kindness was immense and endless to all. I grew up eating spaghetti sitting on the stools at Pellegrini's, with my mother. When I arrived back in Melbourne after 10 years, you welcomed me home. “Oh yes, I remember everyone. I used to flirt with your mama, and now I flirt with you!” You have been there all my life. I can’t imagine it here without you. Thank you for your kindness and your decades as a cornerstone of Melbourne life and culture. Sending all my love and condolences to your family, and your wonderful staff at Pellegrini's. I miss you. Penelope

I had the pleasure of being served by Sisto on a few occasions. His warmth, charm and style made you feel special. You were experiencing a true authentic Italian man who loved his customers and loved life. My heart goes out to his family, friends, and everyone who was touched by his special soul. Name not specified

So sad hearing about this tragedy. The loveliest memories of Mr Malaspina and the warm family atmosphere which all of us loved! Rest in Peace beautiful soul. Kata and Ferenc

A tragic end to the life of such a kind-hearted man who was part of the soul of Melbourne, welcoming anyone and everyone into Pellegrini's. Sisto, all the staff and Pellegrini's have been a special part of my family life, and now even my children mourn him. Perhaps with this tragic loss the authorities will finally do something about crime prevention in our city, there has been too much in recent years! DC

In a reversal of roles, Sisto used to drop by my 7-Eleven store in Hawthorn on his way home. He was a lovely person, we would have a bit of a yarn about things. I am very, very sad that we have lost such a wonderful gentleman. Rest in peace Sisto. Tony Doh

One of the most awful days in Melbourne’s 180-year history. I feel awful. Awful. Melbourne is minus one smiley person. Name not specified

RIP Sisto. When I worked in the CBD Pelligrini's was my regular spot for lunch. I will never forgot how Sisto comforted me when I was heartbroken 13 years ago. He could see I was not my cheery self and took time to remind me of the goodness around me despite the behaviour of my deceitful, dodgy ex. The words he shared with me made a huge impact and helped me move beyond my grief. He was more helpful than any counsellor I saw. He spoke the truth, which is just what I needed. Sisto reminded me that life isn't fair and the sooner I accepted that the quicker I would get back on my feet. Cafe owners do more than serve food. They listen, they care and create ambience. They are the soul of the city. Sisto came to Pelligrini's the year I was born. I remember going there with my dad when he worked in the city and then continued the tradition when I worked in the CBD. Pelligirini's was the one of the first real Italian coffee shops in Melbourne and is a constant in an ever-changing city. Sisto paved the way for diversity and tolerance. He welcomed everyone into his cosy cafe. How tragic that he was killed by someone who did not show the same tolerant values he lived his life by. I popped by last week and had a moment of joy, feeling that all is well in the world while Pelligrini's is still trading. My joy was short-lived. Sisto's words resonate with me now: 'Life isn't fair, darlink'. Right you are, Sisto. Siobhan

I (like many) had my first ever true cafe latte here. I remember he served it to me, a young me, not even 18 yrs old in 1987, just beginning to see the wide world around me, I remember his smile. When I said I had never had a cafe latte, I remember the look on his face when I proudly said I drink Moccona coffee, (it was fancier than the international roast my father drank, and the Nescafe that others drank), He handed me the coffee, it looked like a milkshake on top. I sipped, then sipped again and more. I looked up and said: 'That's much better than a Moccona, can I have another?" He smiled ... He changed my coffee habit. In one delicious sip of the cafe latte glass, he made me into a true Melburnian. Riposare in pace Mark

I met Sisto one night in the '70s. It was a wet and cold night, I was soaked through. The first thing that happened, Sisto came out behind the counter with a towel to dry my hair and then gave me a nice hot coffee. I was out of work at the time and asked him for a job. I started the next evening in the kitchen helping the cook. That was my introduction into the food industry. Very lovely, gentle man, so calm with a warm personality. My thoughts go out to his family and close friends. It's very sad. Brenda Bardsley

I first met him in the late '80s and he always recognised me and showed me real coffee culture. He was and is Bourke Street. We need a brass statue of him in the street to be with us for ever. James

A friendly man who loved food and people. Will be sadly missed. S. Fox

Matt Picone (left) with Sisto Malaspina at Pellegrini's in 1998.

Sisto was a great man who was larger than life. I worked alongside him at Pellegrini’s for 20 years, and he was like a father to me. He taught me so much - how to make a great coffee, how to run a business, how to make customers feel at home. Although I left Pellegrini’s two years ago to open my own pasta bar, Pentolina, I still feel like part of the Pellegrini’s family and that’s thanks to him. I’m devastated that I’ve been robbed of the opportunity to thank him for the profound influence he’s had on my life, and for sticking with me through my ups and downs over two decades. My deepest condolences to Vicky, David, Lisa and their families, and to his other family – Nino and the Pellegrini’s staff. I’ve attached a photo of me with Sisto at Pellegrini’s in 1998, the year after I started working at Pellegrini’s. I love this photo because the beaming smile on his face shows how much he loved Pellegrini’s. I have so many fond memories of Sisto from our 20 years together behind the Pellegrini’s counter. (Owner, Pentolina) Matt Picone

I was back home in Melbourne in May of this year visiting from overseas, and, as always, stopped back at Pellegrini's for a coffee. There was a homeless man on the street outside, and I wanted to buy a coffee for him and one for me. I then realised I only had $5 on me and that they didn’t take cards. No problem he said, you take a coffee for you and one for that man outside. True character. David Becker

Forever part of Melbourne history. Sadly missed by all who popped in for a quick caffè or granita, and a chat at the bar. He remembered "The Adelaide Boys" every trip! It’s like Melbourne has lost its “Zio”. Thoughts are with his family. Riposa in pace Name not specified

This gentleman, Sisto was one of the very best people whose aim in life seemed to be to ensure others ware happy. He is simply not replaceable. Patrick Clifford

We respect your kind. A brilliant mind. Hope for the best. Have a good rest. Keira

Sisto was very, very special and made you feel very special. He always addressed me as My Lord Mayor ever since helping him save Pellegrini's from extinction in the '80s from archaic council laws We had a shared passion and love of Italian cars and he loved my Lancia Fulvia Zagato so much he added a minor amendment to the No Parking sign at the front door indicating that Lancias were exempt. A keen sense of humour and a wonderful human being. He truly is the founding Statesman of Melbourne's Cafe Culture. My heart aches with sadness and disbelief at the senseless loss of this beautiful man's life. Trevor Huggard AM, former lord mayor of Melbourne.

Vale Sisto. Melbourne won't be the same without your European charm, coffee and gnocchis, which I delighted in for the first time in 1975 and since then continue to go back for more with friends, my children and grandchildren now. Big love to Sistos’ family, Nino and the lovely crew at Pellegrini's. Irena

My first introduction to Melbourne good coffee was at Pellegrini's 40 years ago . Sisto was always there. So many memories like when I realised the person sitting next to me was the prostitute who worked from my street corner. Everyone was treated with the same warm, no nonsense Italian hospitality. A Melbourne Icon. Diana White

Sisto, a great person with a big heart. A true Italian that showed Melbourne how to enjoy true Italian life, food and coffee Unfortunately your life has been cut short in such a sad way. Riposi in Pace. Name not specified

My warmest condolences, this is a great loss, he was very special person. Uwe Mefferth

RIP Sisto, I have always loved your cafe and the wonderful comfortable home-like feeling it had. I remember taking my husband to eat there and we were offered a kitchen spot and it made me feel like being at my nono's and nona's eating minestrone with crusty bread. You threw orange pips at us and it was the best ever meal and experience. We will always remember you and that day. Thank you. To your wonderful family, my love and condolences on losing such a wonderful man. Shakira Pretty

My long-term girlfriend and I went to Pellegrini's on our first date. I got us a table at the back of the bar and ordered spaghetti and blood orange granitas. Sisto came out from the kitchen with his hands in the air singing. He slapped me on the shoulder resting on the other side of the counter to ask about our days and tell my then date how beautiful she looked and how lucky I was to be out with her. He then lowered his voice pointing to me 'this boy, what a handsome boy he will do big things'. That was my last first date. Sisto was the ultimate entertainer, with a big heart and a big personality. He would always make my day brighter. Rest in peace. Name not specified

Love to all the Pellegrini’s family from St Louis, Missouri on this tragic news. Sisto was a part of our family as well. He “adopted” us like no other person ever has. Our hearts are so heavy with this loss of such a warm, caring, special man. We will always love you Sisto. We will carry your big smile in our hearts forever. Audrey, Shelly, and Jon Mills

Nothing is more Melbourne than a coffee at Pellegrini’s, served up by Sisto with a warm smile and genuine hospitality. The moment I first stepped into Sisto’s espresso joint back in the 1990s, I knew I’d found something special — a timeless treasure with all the heart, soul and effortless style that make Melbourne Australia’s culture capital. I returned many times in the decades that followed and my instant affection for Pellegrini’s never faded. In recent years, as I’ve seen Melbourne swell and transform into a newer, busier version of herself, abounding with new people and places, it’s given me great comfort to know that Pellegrini’s is still there. Some things — the best things — don’t change. Mille grazie, Sisto — for the coffees, the granitas, the cheesecake, the banter, the moments. Melbourne really won’t be the same without you. Vale Sisto Malaspina. Carmen Cita

Nothing is more Melbourne than a coffee at Pellegrini’s.Credit: Carmen Cita

They should have a state funeral. Distinguished was part of Melbourne's soul. Name not specified

When I first arrived in Australia in 1977 I worked near Pellegrini's and it became my favourite place! For years I visited regularly, for the fantastic food but most of all for the joy of sharing conversation and laughter with the wonderful Sisto. From the moment I met him he felt like a lifelong friend and his smile would light up the world. Sisto ... thank you with all my heart for your warmth and friendship, your humour and joy. I miss you terribly and I will remember you always. Renita Barwell

Not just a lovely man with Melbourne's best spaghetti, but also a shining testament to our city's multicultural glory. Gareth

I took my children to Pellegrini's to both make them eat in front of a mirror and as a Melbourne "right of passage" , more precious now that we live offshore, and like my grandmother did for me. At a lull in the conversation, my son loudly announced 'This lasagna is much better than yours Mum". The whole restaurant laughed and my son, playing up to an audience, whirled his fork around and dropped a mouthful of the superior lasagna onto his sister's leg, to her horrified howls. Sisto was behind the bar, bent over, laughing and laughing. It was a Pellegrini moment my family treasure. RIP Sisto you were part of fabric of Melbourne I weep for our collective loss. Kathleen

Italian hospitality at its most convincing and Melbourne at its best - Australia at its best. My father introduced me to Sisto when he brought me down to Melbourne in 1954 to begin to study for the priesthood with the Dominican Fathers - whenever I have been in Melbourne ever since I have called in to see him - a most lovable human being. Requiescat in Pace. David Marc Halstead OP

Being European we love our coffee. Pellegrini's was also a favourite place for my mother and father, who both worked in town. Dad had been gone for almost a decade when my mother, then approaching 90, asked if I would take her to Pellegrini's, a trip down memory lane for her. As soon as we entered Sisto exclaimed "Oh, a nonna," took her by the arm and led her to the table by the kitchen. Mum was absolutely thrilled to bits. She died five years ago. I can't believe how sad I feel about this. He should be there at Pellegrini's right now, enjoying his work, his life, and the wonderful weather we are experiencing today. Lia Vandersant

Was a very regular visitor with my recently deceased colleague, JVF. After a short break we visited for our short blacks. Sisto demanded to know where we had been. JVF has retired, we advised. Retired from the waist up only? Sisto enquired. Yes. Lower half still gainfully employed. Alan L

The face of warmth, humanity and family... what a huge loss to all that knew him, the Melbourne restaurant scene but especially his family. As a struggling apprentice Chef back in the 1980's, my spare time was spent walking from my tiny apartment above my work in Elizabeth Street at Hotel London, then in Carlton at Cafe Elgin's around Melbourne. Almost always, I'd find that precious change for coffee at Pellegrini's. I was homesick but Sisto was like that warm, caring, life embracing man that reminded me of my missed family I couldn't afford to get home to see. I don't watch much news, so reading this today and seeing your face Sisto, has broken my heart... like so many others including my husband who met you several times too. It's so hard to bare that you were taken the way that you were. You were truly one of life's gentlemen. It may have been a small gesture often made, a coffee for a lonesome customer, but you did it in a way that left an indelible mark on my memory. Thank you ...'What we have enjoyed, we can never lose, all that we have loved becomes part of us'. Rest peacefully Sisto, our condolences to family and friends. Much love Michelle and Hubert Wanner

My young daughters loved going to Pelligrinis. Sisto would always greet them by name and and give them an extra serving of dessert. Sisto made them feel special. Many times we were there, he would provide food to the homeless. This lesson in compassion was not lost on my daughters. A wonderful man. We will miss you. Thompson family

There are no words to adequately say how Melbourne is grieving for Sisto - our hearts go out to his family. His warmth and passion at Pellegrinis was part of the fabric that made Melbourne a wonderful city...rest in peace Sisto, we will not forget. Caroline Spiers

Farewell Sisto... . Such an icon of Melbourne, a hardworking, modest and funny man. Typified what great immigrants do. Have been going to Pellegrinis ️ since I was a little boy, my mum and dad since the '50s, and took my wife and two lads there too. He always made everyone feel at home, and he will be in our hearts forever. Charles H

A tragic waste of a life. Sisto was a great friend to me for more than 30 years. I am numb and shocked by his sudden and painful loss. You made all of my visits to Pellegrinis so special. I will always honor your memory. You will be sadly missed by so many. RIP Name not specified

As a young architecture student in the late 80s, Pelligreni's restaurant was our local place to walk to from our Hardware St studio for an evening meal.. Sisto was the coolly dressed and charming host, in charge of comings and goings. So much part of my Melbourne and for so many other participants of what was a Melbourne Dolce Vita. Rob H

I met Sisto when he first took over Pellegrinis'. I had opened a hi-fi shop in Russel St in 1974 and with it a red Maserati, which if there was a place out front, would park it there. I later on had a restaurant at Southgate so we had lots to talk about. My wife Doreen had a lovely rapport with Sisto. She died a year ago and I couldn't bring myself to go into Pellegrinis' to be asked "where is your lovely wife" You are missed awfully. Maurice Rogers

I only knew him, like so many, as one of his very happy customers. But his senseless tragic death that has upset and shocked us all, should not overshadow all he did for Melbourne and how he made us all feel like family when we came to visit. It's a very sad day for Melbourne. RIP Sisto. Marek Bohacz

A rite of passage as a young person in Melbourne. A nook, a coffee, the ebb and flow of the street and the man I now know as Sisto. I felt like I was a part of something. Thankyou Sisto. KC

My sincerest condolences to Malaspina family. Rest in peace Sisto. I was the most important person whenever I was in Pellegrini and Sisto was there. A coffee, a warm smile and a laugh would see me for rest of the day. You will be very much missed and always remembered. Sargas

I was a regular for a few years. Sisto was always smiling and kept the wonderful family feeling in a small corner of Melbourne. It was a honour to have known him and be part of his world. He will be greatly missed. David

We are all so so sorry. Pellegrinis our favorite spot as arts students at Melb Uni in the '80s. One boyfriend even proposed to me there - beautiful memories over 30 years ago. Name not specified

My late dad Rupert 'Monty' Montague introduced me to Pelligrini's in the mid 70's and the first (of many) lemon granitas and spaghetti, always served by the beautiful Sisto. I was captivated by Sisto and the mirrors! Pelligrini's and Jamaica House were popular Melbourne eating spots and my Dad and Sisto bonded over their shared migrant/hospitality experience. After the terrible events of Friday, I take deep comfort imagining them chatting and laughing together somewhere peaceful. Deep condolences to Sisto's family, friends and the Pelligrini's team. Lisa Montague

Vale Sisto Malaspina. Thank you for feeding me delicious pasta and coffee over the years, and thank you for your warm smile. Rest In Peace. Deepest condolences to the Malaspina families, Pellegrinis families, and all Melburnians. Koon Yew

Sisto never forgot a face, always recognising you no matter how long it had been since he saw you last. I loved the feeling of the place, the old '60s phone, the yellowing pictures on the walls, those bar stools!! It was so familiar, like stepping back in time to our childhood. What a legend -RIP -Bruna Capodanno

A great person and entrepreneur, a star restaurateur, a happy individual, jovial comes to mind would make a laugh out of any situation, wow and now he’s not here any more, life sucks when nice people like the great Sisto is taken away from us. My family will miss him dearly. Pero Nasteski

I have been going with friends and colleagues to Pellegrinis since 1972. Sisto Malaspina and Nino Pangrazio have created a Melbourne time capsule. Pellegrinis Bar remains the same yet changes with the times. RIP Sisto Malaspina. Russell F

I'd ask for the lemon granita on a hot day and he would have it in front of me in seconds while yelling out the previous order in Italian to the kitchen. Kate Blackmore

How proud have you made all of us Italiani & the wider Melbourne ... Italianism with style, pazzaz and total heart. Caterina Borsato

My late wife and I met Sisto in 1974. We had been going to Pellegrini’s since our school days in 1965. He always made a fuss and called my wife “Bella”. I took her daughter and then the granddaughter and he also showered them with love and affection. I saw Sisto every few months and I am devastated he can’t be there in person to continue showering that love on us all..but his spirit will be there forever Vale my dear sweet friend. Tim Kupsch

One night I went into Pellegrini’s to get a bite to eat before I was to attend the audience of Q&A. I have had an awful day at work, been driving for hours and I was feeling exhausted. I walked and took a seat at the bar and I must have looked the way I feel because I wasn’t even looking or paying attention, I heard Sisto voice ask, “What can I get for you?” I looked up and saw his thoughtful face looking at me, reading me. Before I could even read the wooden wall menu for an idea – he read my mind. “You wanna spaghetti?” Slowly, and with that feeling of having someone understand exactly what I wanted I said “Yes” He continued to look at me as if he was reading a book. “And an espresso? he asks “Yes” By this point I’ve got a big grin on my face, knowing comfort is on the way. Sisto smiled down at me, beaming like he had solved a riddle. “We get it for you. You’ll be alright” And with that, I was fixed. Anthony

I first went to Pellegrini’s in 1989 when a friend took me. I’ve since taken many a friend in turn: it was a place people needed to know about. When I lived and worked in Melbourne Central in the '90s, I’d sometimes pop-in, more than once a day, for a coffee. Going to Pellegrini’s was like visiting family. I didn’t start talking much with Sisto until my last few visits over these later years, being older and not as shy. I was in awe of him. I saw him in April this year...the last time I was in Melbourne, and it was business as usual. Just to see him there behind the counter was comforting. His love and care will endure. You will live on in our hearts, Sisto, like family. Kelly

Not until my FB friend Rachel Pedretti posted about his untimely death. Rachel eloquently related how she had been going to the cafe for 15 years and in that time Sisto had tried to find her the perfect husband, served her pasta, coffee and extra slices of bread after her first no. She made me know this fine man who found a cruel death. Hearts to his family. Carmen

As a young student working in Carlton in the late 1968, Pellegrini's was the most exciting place to visit for a girl from country Victoria. The friendly Sisto, with a friendly flirtatious grin & welcome to an Italian casa made my day. Always generous, fun & attentive. Despite the years passed whenever I returned to my old haunt, he was still as charming as ever. Very very saddened at such a senseless tragedy. RIP. Condolences to the family. Susanna

I took my 11yo daughter to Pellegrini’s last year, to introduce her to a Melbourne institution. Mr Malaspina looked after her and made her smile as if she was his granddaughter. I was also lucky enough to be served by him last week. Just a fantastic person. Wishing much love to his family, friends and staff. Tony Hellier

I first went to Pellegrini's in the '70s. I was in my 20s. It was my first introduction to Italian culture and it changed my life. I have spent the subsequent 40 years travelling to Italy as often as possible and feeling a passion for all things Italian. I often dropped in on the way down Bourke St for a plate of pasta or a coffee. Sisto would always be there - huge smile, cheeky wlecome. It was so familiar, so unchanged. I loved it. A terrible loss for our great city. Anne

For over 40 years whenever I visited Melbourne from my home state of Tasmania I visited Pellegrini's for a coffee and something sweet. Sisto was usually his affable self behind the bar. John de largie d'Alton

Thank you Sisto Malaspina for your gracious support and assistance when I was homeless in the city one Monday evening with a broken nose bruises you didn’t mention and you grandly stated ‘a lady should have a gentleman walk her home’. It was such an elegant operatic contrast to boorish Aussie misogyny. Astonished I snapped out of my shocked stupor to the glamour of Pellegrini's where hearts beat true and strong. Helen

Always gave me a welcome like his dearest friend- remembered my children who in turn are adult customers; gave me a free lunch when I forgot cash and refused payment when I came in to pay him...darling sweet man with a generous heart ... he is a hero xxx Andrea

You poured our beautiful Lattes for fifty years amigo. I am dumbstruck that you are gone from us. Barry and I shall miss you and all your latte style and sweet ways. We deeply mourn and miss you dear man! Love from Barry, Robert and the Dickins family. Anonymous

RIP Sisto. Pellegrini’s is etched into Melbourne’s DNA and history. Thank you Sisto! Sacha Rodriguez

I never met you or visited your shop but my heart is very heavy at the senseless loss of your beautiful life RIP you wonderful very much loved man Condolences to your family. Lindy

My parents, who ran Scheherazade, saw Pellegrini's as its major competitor in having Melbourne's first expresso machine. Nevertheless, whenever we were in the city, we loved partaking in Sisto's wonderful warmth and hospitality. Now this has all gone. John Zeleznikow

Thank you for your charisma great coffee! Alex Udo Anders

My heart is Broken ... thank you Sisto for , adding so much colour , laughter , and wisdom to my life . The world is a little darker without you in it . God bless you my dear friend. Paul Allan Standley

Four generations of our family have devoured the warmth and hospitality of Pellegrini’s, you or Nino always welcoming us with warm embrace. You always fussed over my children Sisto and relished their presence, they were so cheeky with you, you loved and encouraged it so much! How unjust that your grandchild misses the opportunity to have you present in their life. Birthdays, anniversaries and life were celebrated together in the back kitchen with the red light on. Laughter and magic memories always in abundance. I’m so grateful to you Sisto for giving our family memories to cherish. Thank you for sharing the kitchen sometimes when all you wanted to do was have a rest and read the paper. To your family and Nino, we send you hugs, kisses and strength. Love from the Hick family xxx Annthea

No matter how cold the winter's day, as soon as you stepped through the doors at Pellegrini's and had the best coffee in town. Sisto and the staff would always enquire on how you are, do you have a girlfriend, how's the family, then eat great pasta, put away a cake. Life was always better when you headed back to the streets. A real shame this happened, we are all to often losing our greatest personalities, don"t know how they will replace you. Long time devotee along with my father and uncle. Ciao Sisto Jeremy Vereshaka

Fond memories served by Sisto at iconic Pelligrinis - such a Melbourne institution! Condolences to family. Tamara

22 en 23 of October just two weeks ago back in Melbourne and again enjoyed from Sisto and his joy of life and his sociality. Unbelievable that just this special man is the victim. Wish The deepest sympathy and strongness to the family and team. Maarten and Karen Appelboom, the Netherlands

From Adelaide, we first went to Pellegrini on our honeymoon in January 1974 and have been going there every since when ever in Melbourne. His cafe looks the same as it did 44 years ago, nothing fancy just good wholesome food. Just last year on a business trip, staying out of Melbourne in the suburbs I took a 30 min train ride then a long walk up Bourke street, passing many cafe’s along the way just to get to Sisto’s cafe. Always smiling, loved to chat about footy or any topic of the day. We must continue to support Pellegrini. Deepest sympathy to his family and friends. Corrado

Very tragic and saddened to hear of Sistos passing. My dad has been taking me to Peligrinis since I was a child. Every year we meet together now when I rerun to Melbourne at Peligrinis . For me it’s like coming home. Sisto loved my dad and always spoilt us and every time we visited he always took the time to talk and speak of all the years we have know each other. More than 40 years now.This is such a loss of a wonderful man and we can’t convery how sanded we are to hear this news. I feel like a small part of us is lost and can never be replaced. Rest In Peace you leave us with so many wonderful moments as a family to remember. x Melanie Cosgrave

Treasured memories of times gone bye when our families became entwined due to our daughters' school friendship ... such happy times shared ... our love and heartfelt condolences to Vicki, Lisa, David and families .. a very special family !!! Love Jo lindsay and Emily Opray

I have been an infrequent but regular at Pellegrinnis since the late 1960’s. I was surprised that Sisto only took over in ‘74 A’s all my memories of this iconic cafe involve him. So deeply was he a part of this cafe culture. Melbourne will never be the same without him. But we desperately need Pelligrini’s now more than ever. Sisto was the essence of an Italian gentleman, but strangely this overlapped into a uniquely Australian character with his easy going and friendly charm. The city of Melbourne should erect a bronze bust at the Pellegrini’s corner to immortalise this great Melburnian Bruce Keys Bendigo. Bruce Keys

Very tragic. My dad has been taking me to Peligrinis since I was a child. Every year we meet together now when I return to Melbourne at Peligrinis . For me it is like coming home. Sisto loved my dad and always spoilt us and every time we visited he always took the time to talk and speak of all the years we have know each other. More than 40 years now. This is such a loss of a wonderful man and we can’t convey how sanded we are to hear this news. I feel like a small part of us is lost and can never be replaced. Rest In Peace you leave us with so many wonderful moments as a family to remember. Melanie Cosgrave

My heart is broken ... thank you Sisto for, adding so much colour, laughter, and wisdom to my life. The world is a little darker without you in it. God bless you my dear friend. Paul Allan Standley