Nerve shredding, exhilarating, painful, but in the end, it’s going Rome, not coming home, as Italy kept their cool and, thanks to their man mountain of a goalkeeper Gianluigi Donnarumma, win the European championships on penalties.
England only have themselves to blame, but you cannot take anything away from the Azzurri, who were able to pick themselves up off the ground after conceding a second minute opener to draw level and then tough it out to take the title.
It was, in the end, well deserved. England got the perfect platform to build on that early boost, but simply did not create enough nor put enough pressure on the streetwise, talented and smart Italians. Great credit goes to the winners. They showed character, grit and determination to claw their way back into the contest and, in the end, were worthy winners after dominating the second half.
How wonderful for those veteran defenders, Giorgio Chiellini and Leonardo Bonucci, the rugged, hard and competitive centre backs who have been the foundation upon which this Italian side has been built by Roberto Mancini. Now unbeaten after 34 matches, the Italians were breaking a 53 year drought in the European championships, having last won it in 1968. It is amazing to remember that they were not even good enough to qualify for the last World Cup in 2018 in Russia, and that disappointment was clearly the wake up call that the Azzurri needed.
Football is cruel at times, and it will be noted that two of the subs who Gareth Southgate brought on just for the shoot out - Marcus Rashford and Jaden Sancho - both missed. Donnarumma, who is such an imposing presence, must also take so much credit for the way he guessed correctly and saved two of England’s five penalties. Jordan Pickford also performed with credit for England, saving two, but it wasn’t enough. So for England, and English supporters like me, the wait goes on.
I am very used to disappointment in the pre dawn chill of a Melbourne winter, having watched the England team lose in a variety of circumstances in Euros and World Cups over the years, but this time there is not such a great feeling of let down. They played very well to get to the decider and in the end were just beaten by a better team on the night. There is no shame in that. Along the way this team, made up of so many players from immigrant backgrounds, cheered a nation that has suffered worse than most from the ravages of Covid 19 and gave them a cause to unify around.
Bring on the next World Cup...for both Italy and England, who should be amongst the favourites now..