Families outraged as pub bans kids under 12: Are they in the right?
Families have hit out at a pub in the UK, after the owners made a controversial decision about who can dine at their venue. But are they in the right?
Families have hit out at a pub in the UK, after the owners made the decision to ban children under the age of 12.
Pub landlady Lucy Draper from The Compass Inn, Southampton, made the announcement on Facebook, saying the new rules was necessary to stop the venue from “turning into a creche”.
The post outraged hundreds of parents, who say the banning of children as “inconsiderate” and “ridiculous”.
“We’ve been regular customers for the past few years and only visited last week with my well-behaved seven-year-old who sat nicely, didn’t run around, said please and thank you to the staff, and said thank you and goodbye when we left,” one person wrote.
“I’d say see you in five years when she’s 12, but not sure I’ll bother.”
Ms Draper said the new policy will exclude Sunday lunch, when children will be welcome to dine with their family.
Ms Draper said she was forced to make the controversial policy after an increase in badly behaved children visited her venue.
“It’s their parents’ fault,” she told The Sun.
“They just don’t discipline them, so 75 per cent of the children that come in now, they’re screaming and running around and not sitting at tables.
“Families will come in here around 5pm after their children have been in the park all day long and they’re hyper. They should be taken home to bed.
“The other day I had to move two tables out of one of our rooms because there was a family in there with four children and they couldn’t hear themselves think.
“This pub is an adult environment. It shouldn’t be a children’s creche and most of my regulars are there every day or two to three times per week just for a quiet drink or meal.
“It’s a great shame I’ve had to do it for some people, because we get quite a few nice children that have the allergy and I feel sorry for them.”
Ms Darcy’s pub, which employees 12 staff, is made up of three small rooms and can seat up to 35 people. An extra 35 patrons can also be seated in the garden area.
“From today, September 1, we are predominantly an adult-only premises,” the announcement read.
“Children over 12 are permitted to dine on any date at any time, but children under 12 are only permitted at our 12pm and 2.30pm sittings.”
Some social media users jumped to Ms Darcy’s defence, agreeing that a pub is an adult environment that many visit for peace and quiet of an afternoon.
“It’s lovely to have somewhere that adults can have a relaxing meal,” one person wrote.
“Not everyone wants to go to a pub with children. It’s nice to have somewhere relaxing to go.”.
“We need more mostly adults only places, it’s nice to know poorly behaved kids won’t be ruining our meal,” another added.