‘Devastated’: Kobe Bryant’s wife Vanessa inconsolable after NBA legend’s death

Vanessa Bryant is doing everything she can to hold it together for her three daughters but “can’t finish a sentence without crying”.

Kobe and Vanessa Bryant had a pact never to fly together in the same helicopter — an arrangement that guaranteed one of them would be left behind to take care of their daughters if tragedy struck.

After Kobe and one of the pair’s four daughters, 13-year-old Gianna, were killed in a crash in California earlier this week, Vanessa has been left to pick up the pieces and is understandably “devastated” but doing everything she can to hold it together for her three remaining children, Natalia, 17, Bianka, 3, and seven-month-old Capri.

“She can hardly keep it together,” a family insider told PEOPLE magazine. “She can’t finish a sentence without crying. But she is working very hard to pull it together for the other girls. She now has to be the strong one.

“Of course, you can never be prepared for this. Despite their ups and downs, (Vanessa and Kobe) were soulmates. She thought of him as her partner for life.”

Vanessa and Kobe Bryant were enjoying an amazing chapter in their lives.

The Bryants had their tests over the course of a 20-year relationship but appeared to have entered a bright new chapter following his retirement from basketball.

In November last year, Kobe posted a sweet tribute to Vanessa on Instagram in celebration of the day they first met.

“On this day 20 years ago I met my best friend, my Queen @vanessabryant I decided to take her on a date to Disneyland tonight to celebrate old school style (pre 4princesses) I love you my mamacita per sempre,” Bryant captioned a throwback photo of the couple along with a photo of them at the time in the Anaheim, California, theme park.

In his 2018 Oscars speech — where he won Best Animated Short Film — Bryant thanked his wife and daughters in Italian. “To my wife Vanessa and our daughters Natalia, Gianna and Bianka, ti amo con tutto il cuore (I love you with all my heart). You are my inspiration,” he said.

A snap from the couple's very first date.

The duo returned to Disneyland just two months ago to celebrate their 20th anniversary.

“Being a father is the thing I am most proud of in this world; it’s my greatest accomplishment,” Bryant added in an interview with PEOPLE that year. “I’ve learned so much, but perhaps the most profound thing has been the fierce, unconditional love you have for your children when you become a parent. I’m blessed to have had that experience four times now and there’s nothing more powerful in this world.”

In an essay for the Players’ Tribune, baseball great Derek Jeter wrote about Bryant: “He cared much more about being a husband to Vanessa and a dad to his girls. He loved his family — he was his family. That’s what was important. And that’s the Kobe I’ll remember.”

BRYANT’S FATHER SEEN FOR FIRST TIME

Bryant’s estranged dad has been seen for the first time since having to deal with the “black hole” of his son’s death.

Joe “Jellybean” Bryant, 65, was photographed Monday by DailyMail.com after a large bouquet of flowers was delivered to the home he shares with Kobe’s mother, Pamela.

The dad — also a former NBA star — was reportedly on the cusp of mending his years-old rift with his son when the Lakers legend died.

The star’s parents are “devastated” by the double tragedy, having lost a granddaughter, 13-year-old Gianna, alongside their 41-year-old son, neighbors told the site.

Kobe Bryant (right) with his father Joe.

Jellybean had been “all happy and good and talking about the gorgeous weather” the previous day, said one neighbor, who asked not to be identified.

“Then it switched in 24 hours where their lives were turned upside down,” the neighbor said.

Wayne Slappy, one of the NBA legend’s ex-coaches and a good friend of his dad, previously told the site that the Bryant family is struggling to deal with the “black hole” of his loss.

“His family are going to miss him more than you can begin to imagine,” Slappy told the Mail.

One of Bryant’s sisters has posted emotional online photos of her brother with family through the years.

Sharia Washington — whose Facebook profile picture is now just a circle of mourning black — uploaded 10 snapshots, including of her smiling NBA legend brother cradling some of his four daughters as babies and hugging her and their sister Shaya.

Posted by Sharia Washington on Monday, 27 January 2020

— with New York Post