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Hunter Valley wedding bus crash: Final funeral held for mother and daughter

A man whose wife and daughter were killed in a horror wedding bus crash choked back tears as he said goodbye to “my girls”.

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A man whose wife and daughter were killed in a horror wedding bus crash has said his final goodbye to them at a celebration of their life.

Nadene McBride and her daughter Kyah were among 10 people who died in the crash just hours after watching Mitch Gaffney and Maddy Edsell tie the knot at Lovedale in the NSW Hunter Valley on June 11.

At the outset of the ceremony, Graham McBride rose from the pews, facing away from the guests, and quietly reflected in front of the pair’s caskets.

He lit a candle for his wife and only daughter and stood in silence for a moment before the ceremony began.

Graham McBride walked to the front of the service to say a private goodbye to his daughter and wife. Picture: NCA NewsWire / Gaye Gerard
Graham McBride walked to the front of the service to say a private goodbye to his daughter and wife. Picture: NCA NewsWire / Gaye Gerard
Mr McBride carries his wife and daughter’s casket to the hearse after their celebration of life. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
Mr McBride carries his wife and daughter’s casket to the hearse after their celebration of life. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
Kyah and Nadene McBride (l-r bottom), who were killed when a bus crashed on the way home from their friend’s wedding, with Mr McBride and Kane Symons (l-r back). Picture: Belinda Jane Video
Kyah and Nadene McBride (l-r bottom), who were killed when a bus crashed on the way home from their friend’s wedding, with Mr McBride and Kane Symons (l-r back). Picture: Belinda Jane Video

“So now’s the time to say goodbye to my girls and the people who have passed in this tragedy,” he said while choking back tears at the close of the service.

A single white dove was released in honour of each of the 10 victims, a tribute to Kyah who once told her father that when a white feather crosses your path it represents the soul of a loved one looking out for them.

“As I move forward from this moment today, each step I take on his path of recovery is to honour my girls,” Mr McBride said.

Family friend Alex Tigani raises a premiership cup alongside Mr McBride in honour of the women. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
Family friend Alex Tigani raises a premiership cup alongside Mr McBride in honour of the women. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
Mr Tigani joins Mr McBride for a eulogy. Picture: NCA NewsWire / Gaye Gerard
Mr Tigani joins Mr McBride for a eulogy. Picture: NCA NewsWire / Gaye Gerard
Kyah’s best friend Jessyka Old hugs Mr McBride after her speech. Picture: NCA NewsWire / Gaye Gerard
Kyah’s best friend Jessyka Old hugs Mr McBride after her speech. Picture: NCA NewsWire / Gaye Gerard

“Nads and Kyah have kicked so many goals in their life, now it’s time to kick goals for Nads and Kyah.”

At the end of his speech and with the help of family friend and former deputy editor of the local paper, Alex Tigani, Mr McBride raised a Singleton Roosters premiership cup in honour of his girls.

“This one’s for you girls,” Mr Tigani said.

Mr McBride also made a point of reminding the guests of the heroic efforts of the first responders and thanked them for their efforts to save his family’s lives.

“I‘d like to give a heartfelt thank you to the first responders who found an unimaginable scene that night,” he said.

“If it was not for those responders, I would not have been here today.”

Loved ones arrived wearing the girls’ AFL team colours. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
Loved ones arrived wearing the girls’ AFL team colours. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
People gather to farewell the final two victims of the Hunter Valley wedding bus crash. Picture: NCA NewsWire / Gaye Gerard
People gather to farewell the final two victims of the Hunter Valley wedding bus crash. Picture: NCA NewsWire / Gaye Gerard
Hundreds of people turned out for the celebration of life. Picture: NCA NewsWire / Gaye Gerard
Hundreds of people turned out for the celebration of life. Picture: NCA NewsWire / Gaye Gerard

Kyah’s boyfriend Kane Symons, a footballer from Tasmania, was also killed in the crash.

Nadene’s older sister Helen recalled seeing the young couple together for the first time and said their love resembled that of her parents.

Kane Symons and Kyah McBride were both killed in the crash. Picture: Facebook
Kane Symons and Kyah McBride were both killed in the crash. Picture: Facebook

“I was amazed at the love they had for each other and they reminded me of her parents,” she said.

Hundreds of loved ones – including many who attended the wedding – gathered at the Singleton Roosters ground ahead of a celebration of life ceremony on Monday morning, while hundreds more watched a livestream from across the country.

Nadene's sisters have remembered her as a ‘never leave anyone behind’ kind of person. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
Nadene's sisters have remembered her as a ‘never leave anyone behind’ kind of person. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
It’s the last service for the 10 victims of the crash. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
It’s the last service for the 10 victims of the crash. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
The celebration of life is taking place at the home of the Singleton Roosters. Picture: NCA NewsWire / Gaye Gerard
The celebration of life is taking place at the home of the Singleton Roosters. Picture: NCA NewsWire / Gaye Gerard

It is the final service held in honour of the 10 crash victims.

“Standing here and looking out at all the red, the whites, and the Crows colours – how much love can two girls bring?” Nadene’s younger sister Leoni said.

“They’ve left a massive hole in our hearts.”

Her sisters remembered her as a “never leave anyone behind” kind of person, one that danced on tables at parties and would sing happy birthday over the phone to loved ones back home each year without fail.

Mr McBride thanked the first responders who worked to save their lives. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
Mr McBride thanked the first responders who worked to save their lives. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
He was on the bus when it crashed. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
He was on the bus when it crashed. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
The mother and daughter played for the Singleton Roosterettes. Picture: Belinda Jane Video
The mother and daughter played for the Singleton Roosterettes. Picture: Belinda Jane Video

The McBride women have been remembered as a cornerstone of the local sporting community, a legacy that has borne hundreds of tributes from members of the national AFL community.

Guests were asked to wear team colours in honour of the two sporting clubs the mother and daughter poured their heart and soul into over the years – the Singleton Roosters and the Adelaide Crows.

Kyah (left) and Nadene have been laid to rest. Picture: Supplied
Kyah (left) and Nadene have been laid to rest. Picture: Supplied
They have left a massive hole in people’s hearts.
They have left a massive hole in people’s hearts.
Newlyweds Mitchell and Madeline Gaffney during their ceremony on June 11. Picture: Supplied
Newlyweds Mitchell and Madeline Gaffney during their ceremony on June 11. Picture: Supplied

The McBrides hail from the small South Australian town of Leigh Creek and made the move to Singleton with their only daughter Kyah in 2011.

Almost 500 people viewed the livestream of the service.

The McBrides have been torn apart by the tragedy. Picture: Facebook
The McBrides have been torn apart by the tragedy. Picture: Facebook
Kyah’s boyfriend Kane Symons was also killed in the crash. Picture: Facebook
Kyah’s boyfriend Kane Symons was also killed in the crash. Picture: Facebook
The McBride women were heavily involved in the local sporting community. Picture: Facebook
The McBride women were heavily involved in the local sporting community. Picture: Facebook

In lieu of flowers, guests are encouraged to make a donation to the Hunter Valley Bus Tragedy Fund that has already raised more than $1m to provide support to the victims and families of the crash.

Husband and wife Andrew and Lynan Scott, Zach Bray, Dr Rebecca Mullen, Angus Craig, Tori Cowburn and Darcy Bulman were also killed during the crash.

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