Wife reveals why she regrets not having sex before marriage

A woman has revealed why she wished she hadn’t waited until her wedding night to have sex for the first time.

A woman has revealed why she wished she hadn’t waited until her wedding night to have sex for the first time.

Laci, from the US, said she was raised in a “purity culture” but has explained why this ruined her sex life for years, The Sun reports.

Taking to her TikTok account, Laci was replying to another man’s post which said: “I just want to say that waiting until marriage to have sex for the first time is a really bad idea.”

Posting under the handle ‘laci_bean’, the woman said: “I could not agree with him more. Let’s get a little vulnerable.”

“I grew up in the 90s where purity culture was like ALL the rage. There was even a point where I was like ‘I’m not even gonna kiss until marriage.’ Well, my husband and I did ‘technically’ wait until marriage,” she added.

Laci, from the US, said she waited to have sex for the first time, on her wedding night. Picture: TikTok/laci_bean/

Laci explained that she did have some sexual experience with her boyfriend but the pair did not have sex before their wedding night.

“We weren’t like 100 per-cent pure but you know what I mean. When I tell you that my wedding night f*****g sucked, it is an understatement,” she said.

“On my honeymoon, I called my sister, who is a nurse, literally bawling on the phone, saying ‘I think my v****a is broken’.”

Another thing the woman grew up believing is that she should put her own sexual needs and desires aside, and just focus on pleasing her man.

“And because purity culture taught me, that it was my job to please my husband, and it was all about him, or he would go watch porn and cheat on me, literally it took me a few years to be like ‘hey, what about me in this little tango?’” said Laci.

Adding: “I’m 32 and I’m still unlearning s*** guys. I f*****g hate purity culture.”

Laci explained she was raised in a ‘purity culture’ and how it ruined her sex life for years. Picture: TikTok/laci_bean/

She described having sex for the first time as a ‘bad experience’. Picture: TikTok/laci_bean/

Lacy’s post has been viewed more almost 1 million times and TikTok users have been quick to comment with some sharing similar experiences.

“Thank you for saying years, It took me years ti ask for what I wanted and then more years to figure out how to communicate it successful,” one woman wrote.

“I know many people that have waited and thought it was really special I didn’t but not against it at all,” said another.

Others told the woman that if she wants to wait “that’s fine, but it shouldn’t be because an institution pushed it on you”

“My mum told me to go live with someone for a year before thinking about getting married. Best advice ever,” said another, while a third added: “Nana told me to test drive the car before you buy it.”

This article originally appeared on The Sun and was reproduced with permission