Porn star reveals the sex mistake she made with her boyfriend
A porn star has revealed the sex mistake she made with her boyfriend that left her with an image she couldn’t get out of her head.
A porn star has revealed the sex mistake she made with her boyfriend that left her in tears and with an image she couldn’t forget.
Ruby Drew, 20, is a popular X-rated creator who has amassed over 300,000 followers on social media.
Ruby, who describes herself online as a “girl next door” type, might work in the sex industry, but that doesn’t mean she gets everything right in the bedroom.
The online creator explained that she ended up in her sexual pickle because of how comfortable she was with her boyfriend, Jakob.
Firstly, she stressed that one of the reasons she fell in love with her current partner was that he was immediately “supportive” and “cool” about her X-rated career.
His initial response was a relief because, according to Ruby, it can be very “scary” to tell a new partner about her work in the sex industry. To the point that sometimes, once she tells a man, she’ll never hear from him again.
Ruby said that Jakob enjoyed watching her videos with other women, and because their relationship was so healthy and supportive, she decided to involve him.
“We started off by experimenting with a few threesomes. We had a rule that he could only touch and penetrate me, but then, one night, I was a bit tipsy and told him I was okay for him to have sex with the other girl,” she said.
Ruby wanted to be seen as a “cool girlfriend,” and she thought she’d be okay with it, but the reality was completely different.
“It’s really hard to know what you’re comfortable with until you’re in the moment. And the one time I decided to be the ‘cool girlfriend’ and let him have sex with another girl, I cried the whole next day,” she said.
The creator said that she couldn’t get the “image” out of her head, so she’s decided that it will “never” happen again.
Despite the relationship hiccup, Ruby said that they’ve managed to bounce back as a couple and unfortunately, sometimes non-monogamy can have setbacks when establishing boundaries.
“There are lots of things we’re comfortable with doing that might seem counterintuitive. We’ve been to sex clubs where we’re happy to be watched, but I can get jealous when he interacts with other girls. I’m okay with Jakob watching me have sex with other women as long as he focuses on me while we’re doing it,” she said.