‘My boyfriend lets me sleep with other men – but it’s not cheating’
A couple in an unorthodox relationship have revealed they both enjoy seeing their partners engage in a commonly forbidden act.
A woman has detailed her unorthodox relationship, stating her boyfriend lets her sleep with other men.
But British couple Matt and Zoe insist they don’t class it as “cheating” – revealing, Matt loves watching his other half get it on with other men.
The 36-year-old had only been dating Zoe, 31, for a few months when he suggested she start having sex with other men.
Now their bedroom kink has led to a new career path for Zoe who has since ditched her job as a beautician to become an online porn star.
“When agreed to it, I was happy, because I’d been cheated on [before], so I was quite happy to find someone who wasn’t gonna cheat back,” Matt told the YouTube series Love Don’t Judge.
“She’d send me pictures, videos... I ended up being involved in it [virtually]… It was like my own amateur porn.
“It’s quite a nice feeling, even though it’s jealousy, because at the end of the day you know you’re included, and she’s coming home to me.”
Soon after she began having sex with strangers, Zoe suggested that her boyfriend also begin sleeping with other women — but Matt was initially reluctant to do so.
He was only persuaded when Zoe said she “wanted” to see him in action with someone else as it was a turn on.
However there are rules.
The couple can’t keep secrets from one another and are both allowed to veto the other from sleeping with anyone they decide – no explanation needed.
Despite facing scepticism from friends and family, Matt and Zoe insist they aren’t cheating on each other, claiming people just “don’t understand”.
“People online have got all sorts of opinions,” Zoe said, revealing some claim they can’t possibly respect one another if they bed other people.
“We just take it on the chin because it’s just people not understanding.
“At the end of the day, we’re happy.”
The couple, who have been together for four years, are now so comfortable with their arrangement Zoe has turned it into her profession after Matt encouraged her to take the leap during the pandemic.
“When Covid hit, [Zoe’s] work shut down, so I said ‘you might as well try it’,” he recalled.
“It was a bit overwhelming at first, seeing her porn shoots, as I didn’t know how to take it.
“It was sort of mad. My missus is now a porn star.”
The couple’s relationship set-up has divided though, as some claim they were aspirational while others condemned it.
“It’s all good until someone doesn’t come home…” one remarked.
“This is the dream,” another argued.
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