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Jana Hocking reveals secret turn-on men have no idea about

When it comes to what turns women on, there’s one big factor that most women will only admit to each other in secret settings.

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Went it comes to figuring out your sexual preferences, Jana Hocking is a fan of a method that involves long lunches, your best girlfriends and copious amounts of alcohol.

The dating expert and host of news.com.au podcast Kinda Sorta Dating believes this kind of setting is the perfect environment for women to open up about their sexuality – which is often much more fluid than men realise.

On this week’s podcast episode Jana is joined by writer and news.com.au’s sex expert Nadia Bokody, who came out as gay earlier this year.

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Kinda Sorta Dating host Jana Hocking. Picture: Instagram/Jana Hocking.
Kinda Sorta Dating host Jana Hocking. Picture: Instagram/Jana Hocking.
News.com.au sex columnist Nadia Bokody. Picture: Instagram/Nadia Bokody.
News.com.au sex columnist Nadia Bokody. Picture: Instagram/Nadia Bokody.

Since coming out, Nadia has been bombarded by messages from women admitting to being attracted to the same sex, prompting her to come up with this theory.

“I tend to think, and a lot of the research tends to indicate, pretty much all women are at least a little bit gay,” she told Jana.

Jana agreed, saying that she had read somewhere that women should “get boozy with your girlfriends and have an open chat about what you’ve done”.

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Jana discussed the theory that women are ‘all a little bit gay’. Picture: Supplied
Jana discussed the theory that women are ‘all a little bit gay’. Picture: Supplied

“It’s made me think of three long lunches were the girls have been like, ‘oh my god my boyfriend got so upset because we were watching lesbian porn the other night’, or another girl was like, ‘oh yeah this girl pashed me at a music festival and I liked it, so I went along with it’,” Jana said.

Jana believes women “sit a lot more on the spectrum”, with Nadia saying it was a topic rarely spoken about.

“There’s definitely a lot more women who identify probably publicly, outwardly as straight that are actually wanting to experiment than I think we really acknowledge or talk about,” Jana said.

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