Wedding celebrations as Nepal registers first LGBTQ marriage

A mountainous nation has registered its first LGBTQ marriage becoming only the second country in Asia to do so.

Nepal has become the second country in Asia to official register an LGBTQ marriage.

A couple acquired a marriage certificate in the Himalayan nation, officials said on Thursday, a first in South Asia and hailed by the pair as a win “for all”.

Taiwan is the only other Asian country that allows same-sex marriage.

Same-sex marriage is allowed in 35 countries around the world. The first to recognise it was the Netherlands in 2001, followed by Belgium, Spain, Canada, South Africa, Norway and Sweden by 2010. Australia recognised same-sex marriage in 2017. Estonia will become the 36th country to do so in 2024.

Transgender woman Maya Gurung, who is legally recognised by Nepali authorities as male, and Surendra Pandey obtained a marriage certificate from a local ward in Nepal’s Lamjung district on Wednesday.

“We are very happy and proud. This has finally happened,” Ms Gurung told AFP.

Surendra Pandey (L) and Maya Gurung, a transgender woman in Kathmandu. The LGBTQ couple has acquired a marriage certificate in Nepal, officials said on November 30, a first in South Asia. (Photo by Prakash MATHEMA / AFP)

The couple held a Hindu marriage ceremony in 2017, and live together with their dog and cat.

“This is a win not just for us but for all couples like us,” she said. In June, the Supreme Court issued an interim order allowing all same-sex and transgender couples to register their marriages, directing the government to establish a separate temporary register until laws are formulated.

Ms Gurung, 41, and Mr Pandey, a 27-year-old man, were the first to apply at the district court, but it refused to register their marriage.

Their appeal was also rejected.

The Himalayan nation of Nepal is the second in Asia to allow same sex marriage. (Photo by PRAKASH MATHEMA / AFP)

‘Milestone day’

“We then approached the local authorities, who were much more open to listen,” their lawyer Rounik Raj Aryal said.

Yubraj Adhikari, chairman of rural Dordi municipality in Lamjung district, said the registration certificate was issued after instructions from the Department of National ID and Civil Registration.

“The instructions were based on the Supreme Court’s decision and they submitted all other required documents,” Mr Adhikari said.

Many in the community were waiting for Ms Gurung and Mr Pandey to pave the way and register their marriage.

“It is a win after a decades-long battle for marriage equality. They have made history. It is a milestone day for us to celebrate,” said LGBTQ rights activist Sunil Babu Pant.

Maya Gurung (R) and Surendra Pandey, wearing traditional attire, take part in a pride parade in Kathmandu on August 31, 2023. (Photo by PRAKASH MATHEMA / AFP)

Nepal already has some of South Asia’s most progressive laws on homosexuality and transgender rights, with landmark reforms passed in 2007 prohibiting discrimination based on gender or sexual orientation.

A third gender category for citizenship documents was introduced in 2013 and Nepal began issuing passports with the “others” category two years later.

However, Nepali law had stayed silent on same-sex or transgender marriages despite a 2015 expert committee recommendation to legalise same-sex marriages following a Supreme Court order to enshrine the rights of sexual minorities.

The Supreme Court also ordered the government this year to recognise a non-heterosexual marriage of a Nepali with a foreigner and issue a spousal visa.

But the country’s LGBTQ community – estimated at more than 900,000-strong – still faces discrimination, particularly for jobs, health and education.