Husbands demands family leaves for his expecting girlfriend
A man has asked his wife of 26 years and their three children to move out of their home so he could move back in with his pregnant girlfriend.
Finding out the person you’ve shared the greater part of your life with has also been sharing their life with someone else has to be one of the most devastating discoveries.
For one British woman, the pain didn’t end at losing her husband of 26 years, now the other woman wants her home, too.
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He’s been having an affair for four years
“Five months since he left/I kicked him out for infidelity after a 26-year marriage,” the woman wrote in her post to Mumsnet. “At the age of 57 he’s got his 34 yo mistress pregnant.”
The woman went on to say that she’s “still reeling” from the affair her ex-husband and father of her three children had over the last four years.
The other woman has sent her photos of them together, posted openly on social media about pregnancy and miscarriage. The ex-husband has admitted he’s “living a nightmare and at age 57” and feels as though there’s no way out.
Now the new woman is coming after the family home.
“They now want me out the family home as I don’t need four bedrooms and they do,” she continued, adding, “She has a 9yo by another man who has nothing to do with the child.”
The couple had originally agreed that the woman and their three children (aged 19, 20 and 22) could all stay in the family home for two years to give them some time to make alternative arrangements.
“I was always going to move out eventually as I don’t need or want or can afford a four-bed house but I’ve lost my job during the pandemic,” she said.
“Sadly our three children are all uni students all in halls [university accommodation] and all still with their bedrooms here. They’re all now home for the summer with no other accommodation until they go back end of Sept/beginning of Oct. All going back into halls on contracts between 36 and 46 weeks.
“It seems the [other woman] does not want the kids to keep their bedrooms and is essentially evicting them.”
The woman said she’s only just started a new job with reduced hours and she can barely afford a two-bedroom place.
“I’m just reeling and so hurt,” she said. “This is a massive blow to me and hard to take as I’m about to start my 2nd shift in my new job.
“I thought I was just starting to move on emotionally. I don’t think I’ve anything left in me to keep fighting forward. This has absolutely pulled the rug from under me.”
She said her children had been affected too, with her youngest trying to hide their tears.
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Divorce and property settlement
Most people on Mumsnet agreed the ex-husband does not deserve any sympathy.
“I absolutely feel for you and your [darling children], but it certainly serves him bloody right. He’s made his bed,” commented one person.
Another added, “I can’t believe he’s trying to kick you out of the house, I’d say don’t agree to it. Surely as your kids are at home you can stay in the home until you divorce and then he will either have to buy you out or it will be sold and you’ll split the equity?”
“Don’t move out!” urged another. “Force a sale if necessary but don’t just roll over and give her your home and your husband, what next, the knickers off your arse!”
And one person pointed out the man has become a walking cliche. “Enjoy your life while he is having to go back to nappies and tantrums,” they recommended. “Get a sh*t hot lawyer.”
This article was originally published on Kidspot and was reproduced with permission