Woman divides after saying her boyfriend pays for everything

A woman has revealed how her boyfriend financially cares for her – paying rent, bills, holidays and other costs in their relationship.

A woman who shares her tips to “get a high value man obsessed with you” has revealed how her boyfriend pays for everything – prompting a mixed reaction online.

Hannah Chan, 27, met her boyfriend Ed Reay, 22, after he reached out to her in May 2021 and the pair soon began dating.

She recently took to TikTok to reveal the pair practice polarisation in their relationship – meaning one person handles their finances.

“We both run our own businesses, so we both make our own money, but that said we mainly spend his money. So I have his bank attached to my Apple Pay and we just have separate bank accounts,’ she said.

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Ed, who is originally from Vancouver, Canada, flew to meet Hannah in July 2021. Picture: Hannah Chan/SWNS/MEGA TheMegaAgency.com

The London woman said that Ed pays for finances, bills and holidays.

She said while she does cook and clean, when she isn’t able to, he pays for a cleaner or orders food for them on Ed’s account.

“Something I want to add is that there is no right or wrong way, the most important thing is that both of you are getting equal value exchange and that both people are putting in equal effort,” she said.

The video sparked a mixed reaction on social media.

One said: “Honestly, she’s isn’t bringing anything to the relationship. Even outsourcing the cleaning and ordering food.”

Another said: “Aka a real and sustainable relationship.”

A third said: “Don’t respond to Beta Men making comments on here.”

In a subsequent video, Hannah described what a woman, such as herself, should bring to the relationship in the eyes of a masculine man.

“Before I get into it, men and women don’t value the same currencies, what he gets out of the relationship is not financial,” she said.

Hannah said her boyfriend pays for everything in their relationship. Picture: Hannah Chan/SWNS/MEGA

She added he has enough financial success in his own right and doesn’t need a woman for that. Hannah said things such as feminine touch, intellectual stimulation and support are what a women should bring to the table.

“If you’re a man who is on your purpose, you’re working hard, you’re making big things happen in life, you’re going to be stressed a lot of the time,” she said.

“The last thing you want is a woman who also brings that masculine energy. She’s nagging, she’s difficult to deal with and she’s stressing you out.

“He wants a woman, when he comes home, who helps him relax and forget about work.”

Again, the comments were mixed.

One said: “This is extremely accurate, articulated well too, even more impressive that you understand the impact behind your actions towards the relationship.”

Another added: “But what if the woman is stressed? It looks like she can’t be stressed and only taking care of him and his worries.”

Her comments sparked backlash. Picture: Hannah Chan/SWNS/MEGA

A third said: “These things supposed go both ways.”

In a later video, Hannah said the two clips were a social experiment that “prove why so many people are single and unhappy”.

She said she purposely phrased things about money in the first video and emotional support in the second clip, and that genders were quick to point the finger at each other.

In an interview, Hannah said at the end of the day, Ed enjoys being the provider and she enjoys being looked after.

“He thinks of me as an investment as I’ve supported him, and it’s meant he now makes three times what he used to earn,” she told the publication.

In turn, Ed said: “I love being able to spoil someone I love, but you don’t need to have lots of money to do that.

“In our relationship I see it as the man’s job to provide the house and the woman’s to make the home.”