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Woman admits to starting relationship for money before love

The United States woman first met her partner on a dating app after she put the age limit to the highest possible when she was just 27 years old.

'Gold digger's' cash grab backfires

A young woman has admitted to getting into an age-gap relationship with her partner, who is 33-years her senior, so she could take advantage of his wealth.

Carrie first met her partner Randy, then 60, on a dating app after she put the age limit to the highest possible when she was just 27 years old.

Carrie claimed she was in a financially difficult situation when she scrolled past Randy – who seemed well off, The Sun reported.

The pictures on his Tinder profile showed Randy was also off on luxury holidays and Carrie clearly wanted a piece of that life so swiped right.

She admitted to Love Don’t Judge: “My first intention was to basically milk him dry and peace out.”

Carrie first met her partner Randy on a dating app after she put the age limit to the highest possible when she was just 27 years old. Picture: youtube/@lovedontjudgeshow
Carrie first met her partner Randy on a dating app after she put the age limit to the highest possible when she was just 27 years old. Picture: youtube/@lovedontjudgeshow

Despite Randy often being mistaken for her dad, Carrie revealed her feelings for the now 63-year-old Randy developed over time and she felt bad for neglecting his feelings and needs.

Randy admitted she would message him out of the blue for money and then disappear for months at a time once he had sent it.

“People typically assume I’m a gold digger,” she said, including her own friends who are sceptical of Carrie’s intentions with Randy.

But she revealed that she came to her senses and decided to do the ‘right thing’ and get herself a job – with Randy splashing out on a car for her.

After a year of chatting online, the pair decided to meet up in person and hit it off straight away.

“I realised that I had feelings for Randy when he sat me down one day and said make a list of all your problems and we’ll check them off one by one,” she explained.

Carrie claimed she was in a financially difficult situation when she scrolled past Randy. Picture: youtube/@lovedontjudgeshow
Carrie claimed she was in a financially difficult situation when she scrolled past Randy. Picture: youtube/@lovedontjudgeshow

Now 30, Carrie lives with her partner in Maryland, USA, where she is given a budget to spend every month by Randy.

While Carrie looks after their house as a full-time stay-at-home girlfriend Randy is busy making money in his sales career.

The brunette beauty spends their money on clothes and revealed she often goes over the budget her partner puts aside for her.

While Carrie has admitted to using Randy for his money in the beginning – Randy now trusts she actually loves him as he’s seen a change in her behaviour in the last few years.

Carrie says the trolling online has been difficult for her with people saying Randy will pass away soon or that she is dating her grandpa.

The clip posted on YouTube garnered a mixed reaction from viewers with some claiming Carrie was still a gold digger.

After a year of chatting online, the pair decided to meet up in person and hit it off straight away. Picture: youtube/@lovedontjudgeshow
After a year of chatting online, the pair decided to meet up in person and hit it off straight away. Picture: youtube/@lovedontjudgeshow

One person wrote: “‘People just assume I’m a gold digger’, 10 seconds earlier literaaaaally said she planned to milk him dry.”

Another commented: “The only ‘loving’ thing she’s said about him is about his money and the only ‘loving’ thing he’s said about her is her looks. Enough said right there.”

“‘Milk him dry. OMG, I hope I will never find such a woman,” penned a third.

Other viewers thought the couple worked well together.

Meanwhile a fourth said: “How far you guys have come is amazing! And screw the age gap, the fact you changed your life to revolve around another person screams you fell in love!”

“I think they’re cute. He’s super calm and she’s high energy … they balance each other out,” claimed a fifth.

This story originally appeared on The Sun and reproduced with permission

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