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Waitress busts friend’s boyfriend cheating

Suspect your partner may be cheating? Ask the staff at their favourite restaurant, a waitress has said.

How to tell if your partner is cheating

A waitress has claimed that restaurant staff are the one profession that best knows details of cheating partners, after she apparently busted her best friend’s boyfriend seeing someone behind her back.

She said the reason for wait staffers’ intimate knowledge of cheaters is the fact most of them take their multiple dates to the same restaurant.

The woman, who wishes to remain anonymous, claimed on social media: “If you want to find out if your man is cheating on you, ask the server at his favourite restaurant.”

To prove her point, she told the story of how she allegedly caught her best friend’s boyfriend cheating, The Sun reports.

She claimed she had just been hired as a waitress at the restaurant which was her best friend’s favourite dinner spot.

But during one of her first shifts, she recognised her friend’s boyfriend there – with another woman.

The waitress rang her friend to tell her before confronting the man. He then ran out of the restaurant.

She ended by warning those watching her viral video: “Be careful out there!”

A waitress (not pictured) claims they always know when partners are cheating. Picture: iStock
A waitress (not pictured) claims they always know when partners are cheating. Picture: iStock

Being a bit too nice

Previously, a self-confessed ‘other woman’ shared the major red flags to watch out for to figure out if your partner is cheating.

If they start being nicer than usual, this could be a sign they are up to no good.

Amy Kupps said: “There are the obvious ways like being overly pleasant, especially if he’s not normally attentive.

“Something else is he starts buying you random gifts that he doesn’t normally do, like flowers or jewellery.

“For me, that’s a huge red flag.”

So this Christmas, if there’s an unusually big package under the tree, this could be a sign they are playing away from home.

If they start to get forgetful

Are they listening with one ear when you talk? Do they keep forgetting to do important things that they’ve promised?

This could also be a bad sign.

Ms Kupps said: “One point that I think many people overlook is when their other halves become suddenly forgetful.

“It usually means their mind is elsewhere and you don’t have their full concentration.”

The waitress said cheaters tend to bring their dates to the same restaurant. Picture: iStock
The waitress said cheaters tend to bring their dates to the same restaurant. Picture: iStock

More showers, more affairs

Beauty routines might change but if you notice that your partner is showering more frequently or constantly carrying around a bottle of aftershave or perfume, beware.

Ms Kupps said: “Is he showering more than usual? Slapping on the aftershave?

“For me, that’s a big cause for concern.

“You have to ask yourself why they’re washing so much and if it’s to get rid of any unsavoury smells like a woman’s ‘scent’ or their perfume.”

Their style changes

If your partner changes their look or starts putting more effort into their overall appearance and it’s different from what they used to do, there could be a reason.

This is an even bigger red flag if it’s specifically on weekdays and they’ve mentioned a new colleague has started at work.

Ask yourself, who are they dressing up for?

Ms Kupps said: “Ironed or fresh clothing – maybe they’ve started wearing new clothes or making more effort.

“These things sound obvious and sometimes it’s purely innocent but if he’s getting dressed up to go out when you’re not around, then it’s time to wonder why.”

Funny phone behaviour

Are they guarding their phone closely? Suddenly grabbing it whenever they leave a room?

Ms Kupps said: “If your other half starts going everywhere with his phone, gets funny if you touch it, and always leaves it face down, this is a big red flag that they’re cheating.

“Another thing to check is if they clear their browsing history after using a laptop, tablet, or phone.

“What are they looking at that they don’t want you to see?”

This article originally appeared on The Sun and was reproduced with permission

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