Tinder report reveals ‘sexy’ single Millennials should date right now
If you’re over 27, chances are you’ve overlooked this singleton – but Gen Z reckons they’re super “sexy” and we’re missing out.
A new report that delved into the dating preferences of Gen Z has identified a “sexy” single Millennials ignored.
Tinder recently released its Future of Dating Report 2023 which studied data taken from thousands of its 18-25-year-old users across Australia, the US, the UK and Canada.
While Gen Z – those born between 1997 and 2012 – are now the biggest users of the popular dating app, there was one discovery that could also help those from older generations when looking for love.
The report found mental health was a “top priority” for young singles – a topic that has historically been taboo, often preventing people from discussing it with potential partners.
“Going to therapy and working on self confidence, past traumas and healing will be the sexiest thing you can do to appeal to your potential match,” the findings, published last month, state.
In a welcome turn of events, those who openly seek help and support for the common health condition, which affects an estimated one in five Australians in any given year, are being seen as having a desirable trait by Gen Z.
“Young people are not only looking for love, but a deeper connection,” Kirsty Dunn, Tinder Australia’s spokeswoman, told news.com.au.
“They are throwing aside traditional dating roles and increasingly bonding over shared social causes like climate change, as well as their commitment to their own wellbeing.
“To build something that is more meaningful, they’re more truthful about what matters to them and are choosing to date people who share their values.”
In contrast to previous generations who rarely talked of health issues such as depression and anxiety, Gen Z have decided it's a “deal breaker” to keep the topic off the table.
“Young singles are being unapologetically themselves – they are more vocal about who they are, what they’re passionate about and what their deal breakers are,” Ms Dunn continued.
“It’s not taboo to be in therapy, it shows that you’re self-aware and committed to bettering yourself as well as your relationship with others.”
And as Ms Dunn points out, it’s a quality “other generations should definitely take notice” of, declaring: “therapy is sexy.”
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There’s stats to back it up too, with a Tinder poll from earlier in the year finding more than two thirds (64 per cent) of Aussies believe it’s a red flag if a match doesn’t prioritise their wellness.
Mentions of “therapy” in Tinder bios are up 38 per cent YOY in Australia and terms like “emotionally mature” and “emotionally stable” are both seeing spikes over recent years.
So if you’re over the age of 27 and struggling to find “The One”, it might be time to take a leaf out of the younger generation’s book and start challenging the dating and relationship ideals that have been passed down for too long.