Psychologist busts TikTok ‘green line’ relationship theory

A dating theory created by an anonymous Twitter account is blowing up on TikTok. Now experts have delivered their verdict on it.

Social media is trying to prove a new way of testing the heath of a relationship, but psychologists say there’s no validity to it.

Several months ago, TikTokers started promoting a theory that you could tell if a hetero relationship would last by drawing a green line over a posed picture of a couple.

In a nutshell, the theory goes: neither partner leaning means a long-lasting relationship; woman leaning in means sometimes a lasting relationship, and man leaning in means the relationship is doomed.

The green line theory started on an anonymous and incredibly misogynistic Twitter account. Picture: Twitter / @alpharivelino

The green line test was coined by a Twitter account named @alpharivelino – which should tell you everything you need to know about the ‘theory’.

But instead of being laughed at and ignored, more and more TikTok videos testing the theory are popping up on my For You page and I need it to stop.

So I called in a qualified psychologist with a degree, training and knowledge, instead of relying on strangers on the internet who call themselves ‘alpha’.

What the experts say

“There’s no validity to it at all,” said Lysn psychologist Nancy Sokarno.

“I really don’t think photos can tell much at all about a relationship.

“I know the theory is based on body language cues but we have to bear in mind that there are so many other factors to consider.

“For example, if the photo is for paparazzi, do they feel comfortable posing for that photo? Or are they standing in front of a big group of people, are people filming the interaction, etc.”

So not only is the green line test busted, but Ms Sokarno also says that generally body language “shouldn’t be the determining factor as to deciding whether a relationship is good or bad”.

“Ultimately it comes down to how you treat each other. Factors like how you support each other emotionally, how you converse, how you resolve disagreements etc are way more important than a person’s body language,” she said.

Lysn psychologist Nancy Sokarno. Picture: Instagram / @psychwithsokz

“Obviously a level of physicality does come into play in a relationship. For example, if a person is closed off physically it is going to have an impact on the relationship, but body language overall shouldn’t be the determining factor.”

Further evidence the ‘test’ is bogus

The Twitter account that originally spouted this sexist drivel has zero credibility, given it has also shared such wisdom as “The definition of a sl*t: she can’t remember all the c**ks she has sucked”, “the tighter her clothes the looser her p**y” and “At their basest, women are cruel, petty & vindictive”.

Yet the same person saying all these things also tweeted that “finding love gets harder the older you get”. Not hard to see why in their case.

Users of the green line rule also love to post a photo of Kim Kardashian and Pete Davidson where he is clearly the one leaning in to prove that they were always going to break up. However old mate Rivelino also features a photo of Michelle and Barack Obama where he’s leaning in – I think we can all agree they’re an incredibly solid couple.

TikTok user @jackmacbarstool made several videos explaining and defending the dubious theory. Picture: TikTok / @jackmacbarstool

TikToker @jackmacbarstool further explained the green line with several videos on the theory, but even his own followers seemed to turn against the Barstool Sports writer.

Several pointed out that “you do clearly draw the lines more favourably when it supports your point”.

Many others dismissed it as a serious reach, as people in love often lean in towards each other, and sometimes it’s necessary for the taller person to lean in.

“*shows 8 foot tall man leaning over to kiss someone much shorter than him* ‘SEE GUYS LOOK HE'S LEANING IN!!!’” one commenter said.

In short, don’t take relationship advice from random, sad singles on the internet.