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Teen with rare skin condition which has caused his face to sag is too scared to leave his village

THIS teenager’s deformed face, caused by a rare condition, has left him too scared to leave his home town due to cruel taunts from strangers.

Bhupinder Singh lives virtually as a recluse after he was shunned from school because of his unusual appearance. Picture: Caters
Bhupinder Singh lives virtually as a recluse after he was shunned from school because of his unusual appearance. Picture: Caters

Is this the ‘modern-day elephant man’? This Indian teen has been left with a sagging face thanks to a rare condition that leaves him too scared to leave his village.

With a face reminiscent of the surreal paintings by artist Salvador Dali, 16-year-old Bhupinder Singh has been left living as a recluse — because he’s terrified of people staring and making cruel remarks.

Singh is suffering from neurofibromatosis — a rare condition that has left him with half lips, sagging nose, and a missing eye and ear on the right side of his face — making it look like his face is melting.

The teen was shunned from school because of his unusual appearance, and he’s been left too scared to leave the safety of his small neighbourhood where he’s accepted by friends and family.

But despite his fear, the fun-loving teen from Chandigarh in Punjab, northern India, is just like any other energetic, spirited boy of his age.

He loves to play cricket with his friends, and although he can’t go to school he reads books every day — mainly in his favourite language, English — despite suffering excruciating pain due to being blind in his right eye.

While Singh cannot see, eat or speak properly due to his condition, he dreams of becoming a chef and spends his days helping his mother in the kitchen by cooking and chopping vegetables.

He said: “People in my neighbourhood accept me, but when strangers see me they stare and whisper, and shout out cruel taunts.

“They say I’m a freak, and that it looks like I’m melting.

“I try not to let it get to me, but it’s made me scared to leave my neighbourhood.

He loves to play cricket with his friends and although he does not go to school reads books every day. Picture: Caters
He loves to play cricket with his friends and although he does not go to school reads books every day. Picture: Caters

“I prefer to stay here where people know me, and accept me for who I am rather than what I look like.

“It’s difficult not knowing what the future holds, and I hope one day I’ll have the courage to go out into the world.

“It’s hard being different, but I try to stay positive and despite everything I live a happy life.”

Singh was born with a small tumour on his right eyelid — but as he got older it grew and grew, slowly spreading until it engulfed half his face and left him partially blind.

Surprisingly, his parents had known about his possible condition and its consequences before he was born — but despite the risks, they wholeheartedly welcomed him into the world.

His mother Kaushalya Devi, 45, said: “Doctors had informed us about a tumour on his right eyelid after conducting an ultrasound during my pregnancy.

“They had told us about the possible consequences, but I was in the sixth month of the gestational period and had no way to terminate it.

“So my husband and I decided to bring him into this world and give him the best possible life.

“And even though he had a very tiny bump on his eyelid, he was just like any other normal child.

“He was beautiful and always smiling.”

Kaushalya and her husband Ram Dayal, 50, who also have an elder daughter, took Singh to a doctor for the first time when he was seven months old.

She said: “Until seven months after his birth, the bump did not grow.

“But then it started growing at a massive rate.

“We took him to doctors who told us there was no way to control the growth.

“They said an operation might control it, but it wouldn’t be possible until he turned 20.

“They just sent us back home with medicines that sadly never worked.”

But as Singh grew up, his face started to droop so drastically that he had to undergo emergency surgery when he was just nine years old.

Ram said: “His face had drooped so much that we had to request doctors to do something.

“Even though they did not give us any assurance, we were hopeful of some magic.

Apart from his slightly different appearance, he is like any other teenage boy. Picture: Caters
Apart from his slightly different appearance, he is like any other teenage boy. Picture: Caters

“He had surgery, but that did not really help the swelling.

“He then had two more surgeries, but none were successful.”

Singh was admitted to Postgraduate Institute of Medical Education and Research (PGI), a premier hospital in Chandigarh where Ram works at the kitchen department and makes $A500 a month.

Medics advised the family to take him to more specialist hospitals in New Delhi — but Kaushalya and Ram couldn’t afford the treatment.

Kaushalya said: “We have not taken him to any bigger hospital because we have no resources.

“All the surgeries had been possible at PGI because my husband works there, and we did not have to pay for the treatment.

“We cannot afford the expensive treatment — we do not know if it would even get rid of the tumour.”

Although his mother has lost all hopes Bhupinder, who last went under the knife on 13 January, is positive about his life.

He said: “People who see me for the first time are shocked, and even say I have a melting face — but all these comments do not hurt me anymore.

“I have a dream, I want to become the best chef in the world.

“It does not matter if I ever get cured or not.

“Even though the surgeries have not been as successful as I had expected, I am not disappointed.

“I am a happy person and I have a very loving and caring family.

“I have high hopes from life and I want to enjoy every bit of it.”

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