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Melania’s secret war with ‘princess’ stepdaughter Ivanka

A new book by Melania Trump’s ex-best friend reveals her secret war with stepdaughter Ivanka Trump who she mocks as a “princess”.

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A new book by Melania Trump’s ex-best friend make new claims about the secret war between the First Lady and her stepdaughter Ivanka and how Melania strokes the President’s massive ego.

Melania & Me by former Vogue magazine executive Stephanie Wolkoff details how Melania thwarted Ivanka Trump’s relentless campaign to be the White House’s most important female.

Melania reportedly mockingly nicknamed her ambitious stepdaughter “Princess” behind her back, and the relationship is both strained and competitive, with aides working overtime to keep the two apart.

The book also discloses Melania’s “coquettish, hyperfeminine” encouragement of Donald Trump’s conceit and self-absorption and how he calls her “baby” and “my girl”.

Wolkoff says Melania’s battle to keep the First Daughter and husband Jared Kushner from grabbing the spotlight even had a name, “Operation Block Ivanka”.

This meant literally blocking Ivanka’s face from media coverage at the inauguration by manipulating the seating arrangement, and stonewalling at every turn her dogged pursuit of centre stage.

Wolkoff’s account suggests Melania did this with great glee.

Melania Trump reportedly went out of her way to block Ivanka from cameras at Trump’s inauguration ceremony. Picture: Alex Wong/Getty Images
Melania Trump reportedly went out of her way to block Ivanka from cameras at Trump’s inauguration ceremony. Picture: Alex Wong/Getty Images

One of Melania’s small inner circle before it all went pear-shaped over her event management of Trump’s inauguration celebration, Wolkoff speaks plainly about the First Lady.

“Twenty years ago, she had been a barely-getting-by model in Paris,” she writes in her book, according to an extract published in New York magazine’s Intelligencer section.

“Thirty years ago, she’d lived in Communist Slovenia.

“On the inauguration program … she wanted to be listed as ‘First Lady-Elect’ even though, as I reminded her, she had not in fact been elected.”

She also revealed Melania’s disclosure that in 2016 her son with Trump, Barron “had worn a suit and tie to school. He was dressing ‘just like his dad’. The other kids laughed at him.”

The book claims there is a competitive relationship between First Lady Melania Trump (left) and her ambitious stepdaughter Ivanka who she calls ‘Princess’. Picture: Jim Watson/AFP
The book claims there is a competitive relationship between First Lady Melania Trump (left) and her ambitious stepdaughter Ivanka who she calls ‘Princess’. Picture: Jim Watson/AFP

 

The book, by Melania's ex-BFF, discloses how Trump calls Melania ‘baby’ and how she strokes his massive ego. Picture: Chip Somodevilla/Getty
The book, by Melania's ex-BFF, discloses how Trump calls Melania ‘baby’ and how she strokes his massive ego. Picture: Chip Somodevilla/Getty
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A super confident, very direct and always immaculately turned out Melania told her son not to listen to them and to “be strong”.

Wolkoff’s massive fall from First Lady BFF and a fixture in the East Wing – traditionally the White House domain of the US President’s wife – to persona non grata came after the January 2017 inauguration.

When she first met Donald Trump, Wolkoff writes, she thought of him as “a harmless egomaniac”.

But she now claims the Trump administration orchestrated a negative media campaign against her in order to distract from its own failings and errors in its first term of office.

Prior to organising the inauguration celebrations, Wolkoff had been a Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week fashion director and producer of the legendary New York Metropolitan Museum of Art’s Costume Institute annual event, the Met Gala.

Trump and the then Melania Knauss at the start of their romance in 199 when he was a property billionaire and she a model.
Trump and the then Melania Knauss at the start of their romance in 199 when he was a property billionaire and she a model.
The author (left) with her then best friend, Melania Trump, and Rachel Roy who conspired to block out Ivanka at the president’s 2017 candlelit dinner. Picture: Rex Features / Splash News
The author (left) with her then best friend, Melania Trump, and Rachel Roy who conspired to block out Ivanka at the president’s 2017 candlelit dinner. Picture: Rex Features / Splash News

For organising 18 events over several days in Washington D.C. culminating in Trump’s inauguration, Wolkoff’s company earned $26 million.

When the president learned this and that one of her contractors was paid $4m he was “enraged”, her book claims, but she insists the money went to many people.

When the details were leaked to the media, an aide told Wolkoff her relationship with the White House had been “severed”.

Wolkoff contacted Melania, who told her: “Don’t be so dramatic. You weren’t fired.”

It was the end of a friendship that had begun when Melania turned up at Vogue, where Wolkoff was a PR boss, for a photo shoot ahead of her 2005 wedding to Trump.

The friendship had continued via weekly lunches in New York of salmon and French fries, and affectionate texts from Melania who loves using heart, laugh, kiss and flower emojis.

Wolkoff has kept the texts, taped phone calls with Melania and a paper trail of bills and receipts for the events she staged for the Trumps, including the lavish presidential candlelight dinner.

Melania Trump waving from a car after her 2005 wedding to Donald Trump in Palm Beach, Florida. Picture: Joe/Amon /Florida /Sun /Sentinel
Melania Trump waving from a car after her 2005 wedding to Donald Trump in Palm Beach, Florida. Picture: Joe/Amon /Florida /Sun /Sentinel
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Melania (right) with Trump and (left) Eric Trump and Ivanka Trump, whose campaign to capture more limelight has been blocked by the First Lady. Picture: Splash News
Melania (right) with Trump and (left) Eric Trump and Ivanka Trump, whose campaign to capture more limelight has been blocked by the First Lady. Picture: Splash News

She describes just how isolated Melania is, apart from her parents, sister and son, and a small group of friends, now even smaller minus Wolkoff.

In the extract printed by New York magazine, the most revealing parts are Ivanka’s bid to take control, of the inauguration, the East Wing and the limelight, and Melania’s firm resistance.

“It was Donald’s inauguration, not Ivanka’s. But no one was brave enough to tell her that,” Wolkoff writes.

At every new swearing in of a president and vice president, their spouses and guests are seated near them as they take the oath of office at the US Capitol.

Afterwards they make their way down Pennsylvania Avenue in Washington to the White House, leading a procession.

Wolkoff with Ivanka Trump at the post-ceremony dinner after she successfully conspired with Melania to block out the First Daughter in inauguration coverage. Picture: Rex Features / Splash News
Wolkoff with Ivanka Trump at the post-ceremony dinner after she successfully conspired with Melania to block out the First Daughter in inauguration coverage. Picture: Rex Features / Splash News
Melania Trump with her stepdaughters Tiffany (centre) and Ivanka in October, 2016, a month before Donald Trump won the presidency. Picture: Chip Somodevilla/Getty
Melania Trump with her stepdaughters Tiffany (centre) and Ivanka in October, 2016, a month before Donald Trump won the presidency. Picture: Chip Somodevilla/Getty

Ivanka had insisted on being seated close to her father for the swearing in and walking in the parade with her children.

“We knew where the cameras would be located because the platforms were already in place,” she wrote.

“We were able to figure out whose face would be visible when Donald and Melania sat in their seats, and then when the family stood … for Donald to take the oath of office.

“If Ivanka was not on the aisle, her face would be hidden while she was seated.

“We put Barron between Donald and Melania and made sure that Don Jr. stood next to Melania, not Ivanka.”

It worked.

Watching the TV coverage from a Washington hotel room, Rachel Roy, a close friend texted Wolkoff a photo she’s taken of the screen showing Melania’s head completely blocking Ivanka’s.

The text read: “Happy MT blocked IT!”.

candace.sutton@news.com.au

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