27yo reveals why men are too ‘insecure’ to date her
A young woman has revealed the work reality that left her boyfriend crying exposing an insecure reality.
An X-rated creator has claimed she can’t keep a boyfriend because men are never truly comfortable with her work.
Arabella Mia, 27, is an X-rated content creator who has found that long-term relationships with men can’t cope with her line of work.
“I think they’re insecure,” she told news.com.au.
“They feel like they have nothing to give me. They don’t realise that emotional connection is enough.”
Ms Mia explained that when she was younger and broke, she had had no problem finding boyfriends, but now she’s successful … it is another story.
“I had men lining up to help me, but as soon as I became successful, financially secure and confident, suddenly they had a problem,” she said.
The 27-year-old claimed men liked her more when they felt like she needed them more, but these days, she’s completely self-sufficient.
“I’ll never find a man who is truly okay with my job and that is fine,” she said.
Even though it is frustrating that her love life has taken such a dive because her X-rated career has taken off, she’s not prepared to compromise on the issue.
Ms Mia shared that she once broke up with a man who admitted he didn’t know how to explain her career to family and friends.
The fact that he didn’t feel comfortable sharing what she did for a living was a deal breaker for her.
“I said ‘that is fine’ and got up to leave and then he started crying and asking why I was being cold,” she said.
Ms Mia argued she wasn’t being cold; she was being pragmatic. The relationship wasn’t going to work if he felt uncomfortable about her job.
“I’m not going to beg you to accept me,” she said.
Ms Mia added that she’s always upfront about her job and how she supports herself, and sometimes guys are fine with it in the beginning, but it always changes.
“They’ll say they’re okay with it, but they’re not and eventually they want me to quit,” she complained.
“Why would I give up my entire business for a relationship that might not last? Then I’d have no job and no relationship. It makes zero sense.”
The X-rated worker pointed out that it is a massive double standard because she’d never expect a man to quit his job for her.
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“Would they quit their job or liquidate their business for me? No. But they expect me to do it,” she said.
At least for the moment, Ms Mia has concluded that she’d rather stay single than change for a man.
“I’m proud of my work. I’m proud of my life and I’m not changing it for anyone,” she said.
