‘Toxic villain’: MAFS wife slammed after odd act
Fans were left gobsmacked at a MAFS bride’s strange reaction to her husband’s emotional confession, with some calling her a “toxic nightmare”.
Fans were left gobsmacked when a MAFS wife managed to turn her husband’s emotional confession around to make it all about herself.
Duncan expressed to wife Alyssa during Sunday night’s final commitment ceremony that he has been feeling upset following their recent troubles.
However, viewers were appalled when instead of comforting him, she managed to turn the situation around.
“I felt rejected. Pretty broken actually, I was crying,” Duncan said while on the couch.
“You never told me that,” she said in an accusatory manner.
“It just sort of happened,” he said.
“You never said you were that upset. Hearing for the first time that you were crying, that’s a big emotion to not share with me.”
Expert Alessandra felt the need to step in: “Alyssa, if I may interject, he’s telling you now.”
To which she responded: “He’s telling you”.
She urged her to listen to Duncan as it must have been hard for him to share that with her, to which Alyssa responds with how she “feels rejected” because he couldn’t share that with her.
Alessandra then urged Alyssa to “listen now” and asked her to consider with her mood next time “how can you handle things differently for Duncan’s benefit as well”.
To which Alyssa responded: “My mood was me wanting to leave the conversation not because of Duncan but because I needed to go home and see my child, so it’s hard for me to give Duncan that respect and that conversation that he needs”.
And Alyssa ended up bursting into tears, again.
Fans were furious about her cold reaction to Duncan’s expression of emotions, calling her “toxic”, a “nightmare” and even a “villain”. Otehrs compared her to the show’s much-hated gaslighting groom Harrison.
Alyssa is so self-centred. Duncan has every right to feel hurt by her conduct toward him. She is completely incapable of accepting her faults. The perpetual victim meanwhile sheâs done plenty to demonstrate sheâs a pretty skilled villain too. #MAFSAU
— Samantha Prior (She/Her) (@Sam_ShortNRare) March 19, 2023
— Debbie Schipp (@debbieschipp) March 19, 2023
Alyssa is annoyed Duncan has stolen her crying thunder because that's HER go to tactic/jam. #MAFSAU#MAFSpic.twitter.com/p7MZlEWNXZ
— ⨠ðððð ⨠(@SmartAlexGenX) March 19, 2023
Someone says they were upset and you react by getting annoyed that you didnât already know? Alyssa is way more toxic than Harrison # MAFS #MAFSAUpic.twitter.com/jC3H4MpWdL
— Jodie (@jodielongton) March 19, 2023
And Alyssa invalidates Duncanâs legitimate feelings without batting an eyelid. Watch how she whips he arms off his shoulders. All about her, always. You deserve better than this Duncan, you are an amazing man. #MAFSAustralia#MAFSAUpic.twitter.com/zrCPAra8ye
— Tame_punks_bong (@Tamepunks_bong) March 19, 2023
Duncan you need to leave this toxic relationship. Alyssa is way to demanding and controlling and it's NOT going to get any better or easier. #MAFSAU#MAFSpic.twitter.com/gJqbi2Pshm
— ⨠ðððð ⨠(@SmartAlexGenX) March 19, 2023
#Mafsau
— calmlonewolf (@calmwhitewolf) March 19, 2023
Starting to feel like Alyssa is a narcissist,
Duncan crying had nothing to do with her seeing her son it was because of how she spoke to & treated him before she left.
she turns everything into being about her,
even seems pissed at him that Alessandra called her out.
Alyssa might actually take the cake for the biggest victim and gaslighter this year⦠the way she turned that back around and then snapped at him when he quietly asked if she needed a tissue was all I needed to see #MAFS#mafsau
— Lamið¦ (@heungminnie) March 19, 2023
Somehow Alyssa has tearfully made Duncan feeling rejected all about her. Emotional Vampire. #MAFSAU#MAFS
— Jayele (@msjayele) March 19, 2023
Will fight all king Duncan slander with a sword! If Alyssa continues to lose it ð¡ð¡ look at him #MAFSAU#MAFSAustralia#mafspic.twitter.com/eONLpnUUYJ
— John (@jpthepower) March 19, 2023
Alyssa wondering why Duncan didn't tell her about crying ð¤
— Married At First Sight Experts (@mafsexperts) March 19, 2023
It's because you've not let him express his emotions at all.
It's because he's worried you'll torch him and make him the bad guy.
It's because everything is about you.
It's because you don't care.#MAFS#MAFSAU
Alyssa wtf is wrong with you girl!? He's literally sitting there telling u that he was hurt & he was crying bc of how you made him feel. YOU being the person that you are, you took that and made it all about youself. You made him APOLOGIZE for his feelings. DAFUQ!#MAFSAU#MAFSpic.twitter.com/JLK5bopJDW
— Aâ¨ï¸ (@Xperiment_26) March 19, 2023