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The Queen stresses consideration and importance of family, friendship in Christmas message

As the Queen gave a stunning Christmas speech the Royals went on to their traditional church service but two key figures were missing.

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The Queen has delivered her Brexit-split British nation a special message in her annual Christmas message, and she could be sending a small warning nudge to her grandchildren too.

In the prerecorded address, Her Majesty reflected on the importance of treating others with consideration.

“Even with the most deeply held differences, treating the other person with respect and as a fellow human being is always a good first step towards greater understanding,” the Queen said.

Queen Elizabeth poses during her annual Christmas Day message at Buckingham Palace. Picture: AP
Queen Elizabeth poses during her annual Christmas Day message at Buckingham Palace. Picture: AP

Britain is deeply divided over Brexit and the British government is in a state of near-paralysis trying to have the Brexit Withdrawal bill passed - it’s due to be voted on in mid-January.

But, much closer to home, there is tension between Prince William and Kate and newlyweds, Prince Harry and Meghan, although they have been trying to present a happy front.

Meghan and Harry attended a Christmas Day service church service St Mary Magdalene in Sandringham. Picture: AP
Meghan and Harry attended a Christmas Day service church service St Mary Magdalene in Sandringham. Picture: AP
Kate and Meghan were all smiles amid reports they don’t get on. Picture: Getty Images
Kate and Meghan were all smiles amid reports they don’t get on. Picture: Getty Images

The Sussexes decided not to move into their newly renovated apartment in Buckingham Palace next door to the Cambridges and will move into Frogmore House on the Windsor Estate once the existing servants have moved out and major renovations are completed.

Even for the Christmas celebrations at Sandringham Estate, Prince Harry and Meghan decided to squeeze in with other family members at Sandringham House rather than the more comfortable and spacious rooms at Anmer Hall, Prince William and Kate’s place a few kilometres down the road.

Wills, Kate, Meghan and Harry put on a show of solidarity on Christmas Day. Picture: AFP
Wills, Kate, Meghan and Harry put on a show of solidarity on Christmas Day. Picture: AFP

Last year, the two families stayed together but British newspapers reported there was a huge row and relationships have since deteriorated.

The Duchess of Sussex, labelled Duchess Difficult by her staff because of her demanding ways, and the Duchess of Cambridge are ‘‘very different people’’, according to royal sources.

The very public split between Meghan and her father Thomas has also caused a divide between the Queen’s courtiers at Buckingham Palace and Meghan’s at Kensington Palace.

The Queen has offered assistance in contacting Mr Markle — who has made desperate public pleas for his daughter to contact him and break six months of silence, but Meghan has insisted she will handle the issue herself.

The Duchess of Sussex on Christmas Day. Picture: AFP
The Duchess of Sussex on Christmas Day. Picture: AFP
The newlyweds were greeted by royal watchers outside church on Christmas. Picture: AP Photo/Frank Augstein
The newlyweds were greeted by royal watchers outside church on Christmas. Picture: AP Photo/Frank Augstein

Vanity Fair reported: ‘’She (Meghan) didn’t want to engage and thought that she could handle it on her own”.

“There was a lot of tension between courtiers within the two royal households and I think it just got to a point where it was a stalemate and neither could move.”

In her Christmas message, the Queen referred to places from which she draws strength and encouragement, and the birth of Jesus.

Meghan had clearly been practising how to curtsy in front of the Queen. Picture: AP Photo/Frank Augstein
Meghan had clearly been practising how to curtsy in front of the Queen. Picture: AP Photo/Frank Augstein

“Through the many changes I have seen over the years, faith, family and friendship have

been not only a constant for me but a source of personal comfort and reassurance.”

She added: “I believe His message of peace on earth and goodwill to all is never out of date. It can be heeded by everyone; it’s needed as much as ever.”

Queen Elizabeth II said her faith, family and friendship were a constant and personal comfort in her life. Picture: AP
Queen Elizabeth II said her faith, family and friendship were a constant and personal comfort in her life. Picture: AP

Before the broadcast of the speech, the Royal family attended their annual church service to sing hymns and carols at St Mary Magdalene Church on the Sandringham Estate and were greeted en route by thousands of wellwishers.

They then tucked into a traditional Christmas turkey lunch with all the trimmings, including much loved brussels sprouts and a Christmas pudding with brandy.

The Duke of Edinburgh missed the annual Christmas Day service at Sandringham attended by the Queen and other Royals raising concerns about the 97-year-old’s health.

But Buckingham Palace said the Duke is “in perfectly good health, he just wants to spend the day with his family”.

(L-R) Prince Charles, Prince William, Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, Meghan, Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry arrive for Church service at Sandringham. Picture: Getty Images
(L-R) Prince Charles, Prince William, Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, Meghan, Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry arrive for Church service at Sandringham. Picture: Getty Images

Also missing from the hour long service at St Mary’s Magdalene church was Camilla, the Duchess of Cornwall, who has a heavy cold.

But the Duke’s absence was keenly felt, particularly as he usually briskly leads the parade of Royals walking a short way down the lane from the Sandringham house to the church.

The last time the Duke has been seen in public was several weeks ago when he was carriage driving on the Windsor Estate.

Instead it was Prince Charles leading the way with a smiling front put on by Prince William and Prince Harry on the flanks with Meghan and Kate in between.

Queen Elizabeth II leaves after attending Christmas Day Church service at Church of St Mary Magdalene on the Sandringham estate. Picture: Stephen Pond/Getty Images
Queen Elizabeth II leaves after attending Christmas Day Church service at Church of St Mary Magdalene on the Sandringham estate. Picture: Stephen Pond/Getty Images
Queen Elizabeth II departs the Royal Family's traditional Christmas Day service at St Mary Magdalene Church in Sandringham. Picture: AFP
Queen Elizabeth II departs the Royal Family's traditional Christmas Day service at St Mary Magdalene Church in Sandringham. Picture: AFP

The Queen, wearing a cream coat and hat with cerise trim, arrived by car.

Kate wore a maroon coat and hat while pregnant Meghan went for a navy blue ensemble and the two smiled at each other as the crowd yelled out their best wishes and Merry Christmas messages.

(L-R) Prince William, Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, Meghan, Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry, arrive for the Royal Family's traditional Christmas Day service. Picture: AFP
(L-R) Prince William, Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, Meghan, Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry, arrive for the Royal Family's traditional Christmas Day service. Picture: AFP
Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge greets well wishers on the Sandringham estate. Picture: Stephen Pond/Getty Images
Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge greets well wishers on the Sandringham estate. Picture: Stephen Pond/Getty Images

Meghan went straight to one of the wellwishers who held up a sign showing her Instagram name. Jessica Daniels, 17, of Peterborough has messaged the Duchess from the time she was an actor in Suits and knew Meghan would recognise her name.

Jessica said: “I knew she would know my name and I just hoped she would see it, and she did. It was so lovely to finally meet her. She asked how I was.”

Jessica Daniels, a longtime fan of Meghan’s, finally had her dream come true and met the Duchess and former <span id="U643530404951vCI" style="font-weight:normal;font-style:italic;">Suits</span> actor at Sandringham. Picture: Supplied
Jessica Daniels, a longtime fan of Meghan’s, finally had her dream come true and met the Duchess and former Suits actor at Sandringham. Picture: Supplied

Jessica also met the Duchess of Cambridge who told her that her children Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis were up very early in the morning.

She also remarked that it was lucky not to be raining, although the temperatures hovered just above zero.

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