‘Cash candid’: Taboo new dating trend emerges amid cost of living crisis

A new dating trend has exploded in Australia, with plenty of single people giving the taboo trend a crack.

Australians aren’t just feeling awkward and asking their dates what their favourite colour is; nope, single people are talking money.

The dating app Bumble has just released new research that finds 37 per cent of Australians feel comfortable discussing finances early in the dating process, and 55 per cent believe it is appropriate to talk about money within the first six months.

The research also found that 82 per cent of singles don’t think their partner’s income would impact their relationship, although 24 per cent of men admitted they’d feel uncomfortable if their partner earned more.

Meanwhile, 34 per cent believe it’s acceptable to ask about a partner’s financial status early in the relationship.

Bumble has dubbed the trend being “cash candid” and ignoring the outdated idea that it is taboo to discuss money and it seems to be taking off.

Kate is upfront about money because she has a mortgage. Picture: Supplied

Cash Candid dating is on the rise. Picture: iStock

Kate Clark, 30, lives in Sydney. She’s been single for six months and has decided to be upfront about her finances because she has a mortgage.

“I’m pretty forthcoming when it comes to discussing finances on a date, especially because I have a mortgage, and that definitely shapes how I approach spending,” she told news.com.au.

“I can’t always splurge on big nights out or trips like others might. It’s something I address early on to make sure there’s an understanding of what my priorities are.”

“Sometimes it’s about setting expectations upfront to avoid awkwardness later.”

She's also found low-budget dating rewarding. Picture: Supplied

She said people enjoy the honesty. Picture: Supplied

Although the topic might not be as sexy as “What is your star sign?” Ms Clark has found that people are generally thankful for transparency.

“It usually goes well when the other person is open-minded and understanding of financial limitations,” she said.

“I find that low-cost dates like walks, picnics, or coffee, actually help people connect better. It takes the pressure off the date being about spending money, and we can focus more on just getting to know each other in a relaxed setting.”

Ms Clark said she’s found that dating on a budget is a good idea because you get to know the person better.

“I’ve found that these types of dates often foster a more genuine connection than a fancy dinner,” she explained.

The 30-year-old said that it “surprisingly” hasn’t been awkward, and in general, the people she’s been dating are understanding and respectful when she brings up the topic of money and her personal financial situation.

“As long as I’m upfront and honest, it avoids any awkwardness. We’re all living through rising costs and people appreciate the transparency.”

Originally published as ‘Cash candid’: Taboo new dating trend emerges amid cost of living crisis